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Buying a house with a friend as a realtor?

Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:29 pm
Posted by yankeeundercover
Buffalo, NY
Member since Jan 2010
36419 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:29 pm
Upsides? Down sides?

I've got a family friend who I've known for 15-20 years who just got his "side gig realtor's license" and I'm skeptical about using him...

What's OT's experience with 'nepotist realtors'?

Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:29 pm to
Literally nothing bad can happen
Posted by LoneStar23
USA
Member since Aug 2019
5837 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:30 pm to
Sounds like a shitty situation to put yourself in. Go with a professional
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
11232 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:30 pm to
Only buy from female realtors, they know how to really “close” a deal
Posted by 91TIGER
Lafayette
Member since Aug 2006
19645 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:32 pm to
DO NOT mix friendship w/ money in this situation. Even if they don't intend to frick you you will get a hit. Only trust a realtor if it's your immediate family member.
Posted by Fusaichi Pegasus
Meh He Co
Member since Oct 2010
14717 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:32 pm to
Posted by BarberitosDawg
Lee County Florida across causeway
Member since Oct 2013
13193 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:33 pm to
Buying is fine but selling is all bidness. Keynote#
Posted by ehidal1
Chief Boot Knocka
Member since Dec 2007
37340 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:35 pm to
No issues. We’ve done it. Hopefully they are giving you 5% instead of 6

ETA or 2.5% for their half
This post was edited on 8/6/20 at 5:36 pm
Posted by Sneaky__Sally
Member since Jul 2015
12364 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:37 pm to
As long as it is a generally stand up person, not much happening as the buyer - especially if you already have a house in mind. Make sure everything is good to go in inspection / due diligence and otherwise just walk.
This post was edited on 8/6/20 at 5:38 pm
Posted by SlidellCajun
Slidell la
Member since May 2019
16973 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:37 pm to


Real estate agents are one of the only profession where friendship can actually be a plus. I have always used a friend for my agent.

It is generally not an issue unless the friend is unprofessional in some way.

I recommend always using a full time agent and friends become less of an issue.
This post was edited on 8/6/20 at 8:21 pm
Posted by yankeeundercover
Buffalo, NY
Member since Jan 2010
36419 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:39 pm to
quote:

Buying is fine but selling is all bidness. Keynote#
So that's what we're dealing with here...

So if I'm going to be paying someone 2.5%, I'd want a legit, experienced realtor as opposed to my friend who's just moonlighting I suspect.

It's going to be a very aggressive purchase war... price just below market it a FANTASTIC area, etc.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
106161 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:40 pm to
I always use some slapdick when I'm in need of professional services.
Posted by BayouBandit24
Member since Aug 2010
17251 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:41 pm to
If you’re buying, then it’s not really an issue. Basically, you are just helping your friend get paid. Selling would be a different story.
Posted by JoeHackett
Member since Aug 2016
5171 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:41 pm to
You're the one who will decide how much to sell for/ how much to offer on a new house. The contracts are all standard stuff. The real work will be done by an attorney or whoever handles the closing. The realtor just shows you houses/takes some pics of yours and gets in the middle of negotiations for some pretty easy money. There's almost nothing that a realtor does that will burn you.

You just need to get a home inspection from someone you trust, make sure that whoever is handling the closing is competent and use a mortgage person that you trust. Don't just use the people that your realtor suggests. They could just be referring you to friends of theirs who don't know what they're doing.
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
70474 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:43 pm to
quote:

I always use some slapdick when I'm in need of professional services.


I know right. it's only a house.

and money.

and a friendship
Posted by LSU-MNCBABY
Knightsgate
Member since Jan 2004
25355 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:44 pm to
I don’t mix friends and business. A realtor I know as a friend got mad recently I didn’t use her but too bad
Posted by BarberitosDawg
Lee County Florida across causeway
Member since Oct 2013
13193 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:47 pm to
Watch out for the double closing cost routine and Keynote# 1, have it in writing that any offer that is made which is above any deal in the making negates the deal at hand and must be explored in full.

I can't stress this enough and if they balk frickem get another one.

A lot of realtors go for the quick buck and work on volume and this puts an end to that scheme.
This post was edited on 8/6/20 at 5:50 pm
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
49487 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:48 pm to
I don't know. I let my girlfriend make all those decisions. Just throw the money that way and say "you deal with any real estate bitches".
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
17229 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:49 pm to
Terrible idea. Never mix buisiness with family/friendships.
Posted by bakersman
Shreveport
Member since Apr 2011
6033 posts
Posted on 8/6/20 at 5:51 pm to
Damned if you do damned if you don’t. You don’t want to bring business into a friendship but you don’t want to piss your friend off for not throwing him a bone. Hopefully he’s mature enough to understand if you choose not to
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