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re: Bullied high school student graduates alone

Posted on 6/19/17 at 6:48 am to
Posted by LucasP
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Posted on 6/19/17 at 6:48 am to
Good, the most important part of growing up is knowing that you're special and never having to deal with situations where you feel uncomfortable.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
39293 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 6:54 am to
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How will she ever make it in the workforce.


Not an issue. She is autistic and will be paid by the gubmint to survive.

While she is heavy and unfortunate looking, what is the point of telling her so every day? Why have her parents not provided a healthy diet?
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68490 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 6:55 am to
I can't say for sure she has ASD, it's a lot harder to tell with teenagers when they may not be on the lower end of the spectrum.

However if her bullying is due to some repeated behaviors she may have, aversion to certain things, inappropriate social question/conversation etc, then there's a good chance she may have ASD.

Twenty years ago the likelihood of being diagnosed or I should say incidence was 1:100-150, now it's 1:68. So yeah there is cause for concern.

This post was edited on 6/19/17 at 7:02 am
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68490 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 6:57 am to
That first sentence is not true at all.

She can work, she'd need an appropriate assessment to determine what may be best for her.

Maybe she can work best in a lab with little or not distractions that could cause a major deviation from her daily tasks
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
51843 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:02 am to
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And youre an adult commenting on a child ...I imagine her peers were probably worse than that. Daily. Constantly.


As opposed to some other time in the history of Man?
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
51843 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:07 am to
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She is autistic and will be paid by the gubmint to survive.


And with her low self-esteem she's probably going to drop trou for the first guy that pays her anything close to meaningful attention, and then wind up pregnant. From there we get into Idiocracy territoriy...

Posted by Crow Pie
Neuro ICU - Tulane Med Center
Member since Feb 2010
25389 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:08 am to
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Hope it never happens to one of your kids. Kids can be some cruel arse people to other kids. Especially young girls. That's some brutal stuff these kids have to endure at times . Easy to dismiss it , if you don't witness it.
This is true and social media via the "Devils Machine" (aka... iPhone) makes it so much worse that what we remember about bullying from back in our day
Posted by danfraz
San Antonio TX
Member since Apr 2008
24550 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:09 am to
I just don't get it. Help me out here.

I'm almost 50. As a young child, I was smaller and "The runt" of my class and age group. I was the easy target, called things I didn't even know what they meant...and I turned out fine.

Bullying has been around since humans appeared on earth. When did we as humans, whatever age, lose the capability to be our own persons and not let words, fricking words, cause someone to have their own personal graduation ceremony with no other students there...


WTF???

Yeah yeah old people are worthless and don't get how hard it is to be a 15 yr old nowadays...blah blah blah
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:10 am to
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Good, the most important part of growing up is knowing that you're special and never having to deal with situations where you feel uncomfortable.


I always thought the best part of growing up was Folger's on your cup?
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
39293 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:15 am to
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She can work


But will she? There are programs that pay people for any little malady. She can compound that money with food stamps and welfare. I hope she takes the harder path and is successful in a meaningful career path.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68490 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:23 am to
The social media and Internet makes it worse today.

Used to you can fight with your bare hands and it solved problems nowadays you can't, you either get arrested or killed
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21601 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:25 am to
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She did not attend the prom.


Can't imagine why
Posted by YouAre8Up
in a house
Member since Mar 2011
12792 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:26 am to
fricking snowflake and a school pandering to the little snowflake.
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
14835 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:26 am to
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I always thought the best part of growing up was Folger's on your cup?


*waking
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
53143 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:28 am to
What was wrong with her?
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:30 am to
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*waking


Posted by SpqrTiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2004
9276 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:34 am to
A few thoughts on this one:

First, I think the school board showed appropriate compassion for a hurt student. The girl was suffering. If they had the means to help her, then, good for the school board. BUT...

This sets a bad precedent, both for the bullied and the bullies themselves. Do it once for one kid, and you'll be doing it again for dozens of kids who follow. The message is... if you feel bullied, we will pay for your safe space. You don't have to learn to stand up for yourself. As for the bullies, you're letting them win. You're sending the message that if you bully someone, you will stay, and the weak kid will go. That's fricked up.

Lastly, if your kid is bullied, they need to either learn how to survive it or stop it. I feel sorry for these kids, but the world is a nasty place with a lot of real, viable assholes in it. Hiding them from the assholes, as a strategy, won't work in the real world. It will just mean that they will eventually be found by a more determined breed of a-hole. You have to show your kid how to function in a society that is not always nice, and often cruel.
This post was edited on 6/19/17 at 7:38 am
Posted by BatonrougeCajun
Somewhere in Texas
Member since Feb 2008
6103 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:34 am to
Bullying is the problem and anyone picking on someone weaker physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually can eat shite but the solution is in the growth of the victims. Teaching self confidence, teaching to physically defend, working on developing strengths etc. this is how you end bullying
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136855 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:44 am to
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I imagine her peers were probably worse than that. Daily. Constantly.


As opposed to some other time in the history of Man?
actually....yes

When we were kids, you could go home. You could get a break from that crap.

Now it can be constant with social media. Easy response it to tell kid to unplug. It still will not necessarily stop.

Kids can be terrible.....more animals than human
Posted by GEAUXT
Member since Nov 2007
29286 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 7:49 am to
While I've definitely been guilty of making light of people's misfortune, it would be incredibly tragic to be a young female and be so unattractive.

Unfortunately for her, bullying is just the first step in the disadvantages she will face the rest of her life because of her crappy gene pool.
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