re: Best place to pick up women aside from bars and dating apps

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All the above is very good advice. I would add a couple things:

7) Only approach women who you honestly find VERY attractive. Telling a woman that she is a knockout (and meaning it) is powerful.
8) Don't use made up "lines". A nice loud-enough "HI!" is better than some fake crap.
9) After a brief conversation, move it to a coffee shop with, "do you have time fr a cup of coffee?
10) 1 out of 5 (like the guy above) are HOF numbers. I was happy with 1 out of 20 (VERY happy). If you work at it, that's 30 new friends a month.
11) Be honest. If you're looking for someone to marry, say so. If you are looking for a casual relationship, say so. And if they are married, stay away - wrong for so many reasons - and totally unnecessary - put some effort into it, you'll be well rewarded.

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Completely agree with everything there. On the 1 in 5 thing, sometimes it feels like 1 in 100 and sometimes I feel like Barney Stinson having the perfect month.

Its funny, the more of a knockout they are, the more nice they will be. The ones that will be most savage are the just slightly cute girls. I assume this is because most guys are too intimidated to hit on the knockout and she doesn’t get it as much.

Ill use this line sometimes: “Hi, id kick myself if I left here and didnt at least ask for your number”...then I just give her my phone with the phone dial already pulled up.

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I always figured you for a fruit loop. Is this some kind of troll thread?

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If I had to guess, hes tired of these leftist bitches friend zoning him, constantly preaching about feminist bullshite and then sleeping with Chads. I think hes ready to quit listening to their hypocritical bullshite and see the light

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Sick of dating apps and not feeling the whole bar scene. Where's the best place to meet women ?

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Duh

The grocery store
Church
The gym

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Not single but how exactly does one pick up women at a grocery store without looking like a creep?

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people on this site watch too many movies

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Best place to pick up women

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Your mom's house

Music concerts. Particularly bands and artists that draw unsophisticated older women (not necessarily old, but not teenage girls). Aging rock bands, bro country, older pop acts that have dedicated fan bases, etc.

For some reason Def Leppard shows are DTF cougar conventions like nothing I've ever seen.

Some other things to consider:

1) There are plenty of women that put themselves out there because they are hoping a guy will talk to them. Most never admit or or know they are doing it, but for example some women intentionally go to a coffee shop to do some work that they could have easily done at home because it gives them an opportunity. Basically, they're doing the same thing you should be doing, which is going out and getting something accomplished with the potential of meeting someone. The advantage for you, is that 99% of guys don't have the balls to talk to someone that wants to be talked to, so it truly makes you stand out.

2) A woman would love to be able to say they met their boyfriend/husband randomly rather than on some dating app, or working with them, or meeting them through friends. It's the more rare story these days of all the scenarios, but for the wrong reasons. In general, men are afraid of talking to women in public for really no good reason at all.

3) If you're worried about rejection, take a trip for a day to a neighboring city and go to a few coffee shops or stores or some kind of hobby or class related place and talk to some women there. I found this helped me the most at first. You might have an underlying fear of being rejected by someone that you feel has a good chance of seeing you again, but this takes that edge off.

4) If a girl looks at you more than once, and she smiles, she is telling you to come talk to her, 100%. Approach with confidence.

Same thing with the gym. How are you gonna go annoy a chick while she's in the middle of training for a half marathon or busting out some squats?

A lot of this thread just feels like married dudes who saw stuff on TV regurgitating what they saw on TV. I've picked up a lot of girls, and never once did it happen at the grocery or gym. Never once did I ask to go to coffee for a date. If you wanna go on a date, go get a quick bite to eat. Coffee makes people need to poo. I have gone out with two coffee worker chicks, but I got their numbers by just talking to them while ordering.

Best way to do it is to not look for the best way to do it. Just go talk to girls throughout the day.

Now....if you're having trouble on the internet, I'd suggest a profile revamp and looking for higher quality women. If you're having trouble at bars, work on your personality

The point most were trying to make is one of the best ways to meet someone that you'd like to actually date is to meet them nonchalantly while you are doing a normal activity for yourself.

In other words don't go to the grocery store or target trying to meet women, but while you are there take advantage of any possible opportunities.

I don't think its abnormal for a person to not go to bars or be on a dating app. So meeting those normal people will have to be in normal daily activities.

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Hammertime

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Aren't you the guy who once told a dude he should look at your knuckles before messing with you? Yeah, you aint getting a lot of action.