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Beef with girlfriend. Curious to hear from both genders about who's right/wrong.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:14 pm
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:14 pm
Or 87 genders, or how ever many we're up to now.
I was supposed to attend her sisters birthday party in a few weeks.
A lifelong friend just accepted an offer on his house that stipulates that the buyers get occupancy 7 days after closing.
This means that my friend has to move out the same weekend as her sisters party.
I told her that I can't make the party because I'm going to help him move.
She blew a gasket.
I told her that he has helped me move before, and I'm going to help him , period.
I told her that I could understand if her mother was dying in the hospital with 72 hours to live, and she wanted me there by her side when it happened etc.
But it's just a birthday party.
She's still pissed.
I don't know if she is just shite testing me, trying to prove she can control me, or what.
But I'm about to show her the door if she doesn't let it go.
UPDATE/EDIT:
I am a little pissed at my friend about one thing.
He should've stipulated that the move out date was contingent on being able to book a mover.
I think he was so geeked about getting a full price cash offer that he was willing to agree to anything.
Damn, now y'all have me thinking I should just go to the party !
I was supposed to attend her sisters birthday party in a few weeks.
A lifelong friend just accepted an offer on his house that stipulates that the buyers get occupancy 7 days after closing.
This means that my friend has to move out the same weekend as her sisters party.
I told her that I can't make the party because I'm going to help him move.
She blew a gasket.
I told her that he has helped me move before, and I'm going to help him , period.
I told her that I could understand if her mother was dying in the hospital with 72 hours to live, and she wanted me there by her side when it happened etc.
But it's just a birthday party.
She's still pissed.
I don't know if she is just shite testing me, trying to prove she can control me, or what.
But I'm about to show her the door if she doesn't let it go.
UPDATE/EDIT:
I am a little pissed at my friend about one thing.
He should've stipulated that the move out date was contingent on being able to book a mover.
I think he was so geeked about getting a full price cash offer that he was willing to agree to anything.
Damn, now y'all have me thinking I should just go to the party !
This post was edited on 7/29/23 at 4:51 pm
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:15 pm to Ernest T Bass
quote:
But it's just a birthday party.
It's never just a birthday party.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:15 pm to Ernest T Bass
I side with her. You made plans with her first. You’re dumping her for your best friend. At least, that’s how she sees it.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:15 pm to Ernest T Bass
Tell her to get over it
How old is she?
How old is she?
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:16 pm to Ernest T Bass
Adult females that think their birthday is the highest priority is a current cancer to society. Go help your friend move
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:16 pm to Ernest T Bass
There's a saying, Bro's before your girlfriend.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:16 pm to Ernest T Bass
You know the rules. We need pics to help you in this situation
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:16 pm to Ernest T Bass
Don't be a cuck....help your friend move. Her sister will have other birthdays if it is meant for yall to be together.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:16 pm to Walt OReilly
24.
Her sister is turning 21, so I guess that's supposed to make it a big deal.
Her sister is turning 21, so I guess that's supposed to make it a big deal.
This post was edited on 7/29/23 at 4:18 pm
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:17 pm to Ernest T Bass
Why can't you do both?
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:17 pm to Ernest T Bass
Show her the door now. Will save major headaches in the near future.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:17 pm to Ernest T Bass
How poor is your friend to bother all of his buddies vs just hiring movers.
Also, if he has 7 days to move, and last I checked a birthday is just one day…why can’t you do both?
Also, if he has 7 days to move, and last I checked a birthday is just one day…why can’t you do both?
This post was edited on 7/29/23 at 4:19 pm
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:17 pm to Ernest T Bass
quote:
I was supposed to attend her sisters birthday party
So what's the problem again? You fricked up.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:18 pm to Walt OReilly
quote:
Tell her to get over it
Good luck with that OP
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:18 pm to Ernest T Bass
If you bitch out on a friend you've had for life for your bitch arse girlfriend, just give her your cock and balls in a glass jar now because they ain't yours no more.
This is one of those early tone setters..not gonna lie. Married 17yrs a d counting
Eta: her doing this has about 10% to do with you not coming and 90% on whose running shite. If you know, you know.
This is one of those early tone setters..not gonna lie. Married 17yrs a d counting
Eta: her doing this has about 10% to do with you not coming and 90% on whose running shite. If you know, you know.
This post was edited on 7/29/23 at 4:24 pm
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:19 pm to Ernest T Bass
Moving guys costs like $600. Give him $300 and go to the party . Your back is worth more then $300 anyway
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:19 pm to BabyTac
quote:
How poor is your friend to bother all of his buddies vs just hiring movers.
He doesn't have time to line up movers.
He's called movers and none available.
He just agreed to contract, cash buyers, they want to close asap and occupancy in 7 days.
This post was edited on 7/29/23 at 4:21 pm
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:19 pm to Ernest T Bass
Bros before hoes!
This one is easy and her reaction should have you rethinking if she's the one.
Godspeed
This one is easy and her reaction should have you rethinking if she's the one.
Godspeed
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:19 pm to Ernest T Bass
Can you not do both? Are they in different cities? Can you not help and carve out a few hours from helping move to attend the party?
It's in a few weeks. Can you not help your friend get things together before the day of the party so you've helped but can also attend your prior obligation?
It's in a few weeks. Can you not help your friend get things together before the day of the party so you've helped but can also attend your prior obligation?
Posted on 7/29/23 at 4:19 pm to Ernest T Bass
How long have yall been together? Were you supposed to meet her family for the first time, or this is one of those bring your s.o. or everyone is going to ask her why she's single...
Can go to party and help your friend before or after?
Can go to party and help your friend before or after?
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