re: Be careful out in the dating world

This is why the rule on side pieces is they are supposed to be in a different area code

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LINK / So-called "loyalty tests" have blown up on social media, where people offer to "test" each other's significant others by flirting with them, sometimes over social media, sometimes in person. If the person flirts back - or worse, makes plans to meet up - they fail the test, and their partner is left to decide how to proceed.

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Girls have been doing this sorta thing forever. Back in the mid-80s I was going out with this girl in HS. I was hanging out at the gym parking lot one night and this girl came up talking to me then asked if I wanted to go riding around. I passed (she was kinda husky and not pretty) and it’s a good thing I did. Come to find out she was my GFs cousin and was 100% put up to it by my GF to see if I’d cheat. I passed the test and was handsomely rewarded by my GF for my loyalty.

I’m just glad her cousin wasn’t hot or, being the typical teenage horndog, I’d have totally failed the test.

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After the 29-year-old, Ari, used that company to test her boyfriend (he passed), she was so impressed with the service that she became a tester.

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I’ve read in a few places that cheaters sometimes accuse their SO of the very thing they’re doing as a way of coping with the fact that they’re terrible humans.

What better cover for a cheating POS than to claim that you’re just being a “loyalty tester”?

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He passed the test. Fantastic…all that means is that he won’t cheat on you today.

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i travel for a living and spend probably 40 nights a year in a hotel. for 12 years and i've never cheated on my wife.

i've been flirted with a few different times and mildly hit on but i always treat those like this scenario is playing out if they were ever that forward.

i'm an ok looking guy, but no woman is coming up and trying to have sex with me. if they were i know there's something up and i need to run.