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re: Bachelor party on the wife's bday
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:44 am to Pitch To Johnny
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:44 am to Pitch To Johnny
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I'd throw in a flower delivery the day of as well to cover your bases. I would hope you know your wife well enough to know what you can get away with.
Exactly.
Make a brunch reservation or dinner reservation for her and all of her friends on her birthday and organize it all. Send flowers day of.
And take her out before the trip.
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:44 am to Prairie Tiger
@ marrying a woman who gets upset over something as trivial as a birthday dinner Go the week before or the week after
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:45 am to Prairie Tiger
Need pics of wife to determine correct procedure.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:45 am to Prairie Tiger
quote:This isn't the a-hole tough guy reply, as I never play that role, but...
A friend of mine is having his bachelor party the weekend of my wife's bday. It will be the first set of birthdays for us since we've been married. I am standing in my friends wedding so I am not sure what to do. Didn't know if first sets of birthdays are a big deal as a newly married couple.
What say you OT? Should I go or is the birthday thing a bigger deal than I think?
If your wife isn't understanding of the situation and not ok with doing something the night before(or the next weekend) and the day of before the bachelor party starts, that's not a good sign of things to come IMO.
If she's upset to the point of you deciding to skip the bachelor party just to appease her...not good.
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 11:47 am
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:47 am to Blue Velvet
quote:My point, yea. If that is that big of a deal that she'd make an issue out of it, that's just a really bad sign of things to come based on her neediness and high maintenance levels.
@ marrying a woman who gets upset over something as trivial as a birthday dinner
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:48 am to shel311
I haven't even approached her about this yet. I was looking for advice and seeing ppls thoughts on the situation.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:50 am to Prairie Tiger
I dont know your wife, but ask yourself this question
Is she ok with you getting a lap dance on her birthday? If the answer is no dont go.
Just remember that if you do go everytime you get in a fight it will probably be brought up.
Anyway it goes remember that most guys will not hold a grudge if you miss a bachelor party. Take the dude out for beers the week before to make up for missing.
Is she ok with you getting a lap dance on her birthday? If the answer is no dont go.
Just remember that if you do go everytime you get in a fight it will probably be brought up.
Anyway it goes remember that most guys will not hold a grudge if you miss a bachelor party. Take the dude out for beers the week before to make up for missing.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:51 am to Prairie Tiger
Celebrate her birthday the night before you leave for the bachelor party. Have something nice delivered to her on her actual birthday and make sure to call.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:52 am to Prairie Tiger
Good thinking, don't talk to your wife about stuff, go to the ot instead first, kinda surprised you've made it this long.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:53 am to Prairie Tiger
Chances are you won't be close friends with that guy in a few years if you end up having a successful marriage
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:54 am to Prairie Tiger
Talk to your wife. Figure it out.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:55 am to 50_Tiger
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You are a fricking idiot if you think missing your wife's 1st birthday as a married couple is no big deal
I can tell who is whipped in your relationship. A fricking birthday? Who gives a shite. How old are you 12? Do you take off work on a Tuesday cause it's your birthday?
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 11:56 am
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:55 am to Prairie Tiger
I don't think this would be an issue with me and my SO. We would goto dinner a few nights before her bday, presents and D. Then I would goto the Bach party. She would go out with her friends for her bday.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:57 am to Prairie Tiger
quote:Gotcha. Have an entire plan in place, let her know you can do her Bday the night before or the entire weekend before/after, and of course, maybe something she's not expecting as well, not that it's necessary, but it shows you care lol.
I haven't even approached her about this yet. I was looking for advice and seeing ppls thoughts on the situation.
If she's adamant that you skip the bachelor party, buckle up, and good luck on the marriage!!!!
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:57 am to Prairie Tiger
Invite wife to Bach party
Problem solved
Problem solved
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:57 am to arseinclarse
quote:
Pussy Tiger
I'm having a hard time trying to understand if you complimented him or were talking shite.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:59 am to Milk
quote:You're certainly correct. I know the OP hasn't brought it up so maybe not his wife but in general, the issue is marrying someone who does hold a grudge in a scenario like this, that's a red flag IMO.
Anyway it goes remember that most guys will not hold a grudge if you miss a bachelor party
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:59 am to 50_Tiger
quote:You need to pick better wives.
You are a fricking idiot if you think missing your wife's 1st birthday as a married couple is no big deal.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:02 pm to Prairie Tiger
If your wife is a normal, sane human being then she won't care if you take her out before or after.
The fact that you're talking to the OT and not her doesn't exactly bode well for your marriage. Communication is key to any relationship
The fact that you're talking to the OT and not her doesn't exactly bode well for your marriage. Communication is key to any relationship
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:05 pm to shel311
Or maybe the thought that your wife will literally use this ammo against you for the rest of your marriage. I'd rather avoid an iceberg.
No matter what you do, your wife will always remember that you were at a bachelor party on her fricking birthday. If you think she won't pull that card in the future is borderline stupid. Women are crazy.
Edit: And even if she IS okay with it. Her friends will convince her you are tPOS.
So sure okay all you OT badarses (yet some of you have a fricking divorce thread every week).
No matter what you do, your wife will always remember that you were at a bachelor party on her fricking birthday. If you think she won't pull that card in the future is borderline stupid. Women are crazy.
Edit: And even if she IS okay with it. Her friends will convince her you are tPOS.
So sure okay all you OT badarses (yet some of you have a fricking divorce thread every week).
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 12:07 pm
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