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re: Anyone marry the only person they've slept with?

Posted on 8/23/16 at 2:57 pm to
Posted by redneck
Los Suenos, Costa Rica
Member since Dec 2003
54157 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 2:57 pm to
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I did. Also only girl I ever dated. And her the same for me.

No regrets.


this
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148074 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 2:58 pm to
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sex was awkward and a hard part of our marriage for the first 4 years or so. lots of arguing, misunderstood expectations, and frustrations.

what da.... ?

Can you dive into this a little more?

And this people is why you always test drive the car.... I can't imagine going 4 consecutive years as an adult frustrated sexually, ESPECIALLY having to put up with a woman in all the other aspects of my life



Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148074 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:00 pm to
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A doubles dance is where the guy with the female (in this case my exhusband and myself) pays for the stripper to perform a one-on-one with the chick while he watches.

Oh man y'all were hardcore.... He probably couldn't keep up with your wild arse.... No wonder y'all are divorced he probably couldn't tame you!
Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
Member since Jun 2016
5823 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:01 pm to
Currently dating a virgin. Will probably marry. I expect to be unfulfilled sexually. Will bump thread in a few years to confirm.
Posted by redneck
Los Suenos, Costa Rica
Member since Dec 2003
54157 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:03 pm to
we started dating at 17 and got married at 25
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
91089 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:04 pm to
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As far as another poster saying I am probably a prude...not hardly. Went to strip clubs with him, did the whole doubles dance many, many times, up on stage in a kiddy pool with a stripper, watched porn with him, etc, etc, etc. Very open minded regarding what I will do, just more selective about with whom I will do thise things with is all.


thats pretty pg-13 rated normal stuff. not sure this makes you less of a prude by saying these are the things you did with your ex.
This post was edited on 8/23/16 at 3:15 pm
Posted by JETigER
LSU 2011 National Champions
Member since Dec 2003
7081 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:08 pm to
Anyone marry the only person they've slept with and has never clicked play on a porno on beta/vcr/dvd/laserdisk/blueray/dvr/satellite/cable/smarttv/desktop/laptop/tablet/phone

FIFY
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:14 pm to
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Anyone marry the only person they've slept with?


I did. Known my wife since she first showed up at A&M 9 years ago this month. Started dating a little over a year later. Just had our 5 year wedding anniversary this past June.

Didn't plan it that way. Just happened. I had every intention of playing the field when I went to college, but I know a quality girl when she lands in my lap (pun not intended ).

Just got lucky, is all. Wouldn't recommend it to others, but every relationship is different, and I'm very glad with the way mine turned out.
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
31734 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:14 pm to
quote:

what da.... ?

Can you dive into this a little more?

And this people is why you always test drive the car.... I can't imagine going 4 consecutive years as an adult frustrated sexually, ESPECIALLY having to put up with a woman in all the other aspects of my life



so say you're a young stupid christian young man. living in a fairly repressed Baptist home. you find a girl. you love her. you want to bang her.

so you put a ring on it.

you have this illustrious view of sex as wild, all the time, every day porn sex. but because you're baptist, you don't really talk about expectations. at least not honestly.

get to honeymoon and have sex. greatest 2 minutes of my life up to that point. then have more sex throughout honeymoon. yah! gave her an orgasm... i think. no worries, just enjoying time together.

then you get home. and sex doesn't happen every day. real life happens. headaches, tired, periods, not in the mood, whatever. kids come and your cockblocked for a few months (my wife had to go to the ER for morning sickness with both our kids.) in the middle of this, it's not like it's not happening ever... usually just once a month. but remember that you came in with expectations and they're not being met.

so... like a 24 YO idiot, i don't talk to her about it, i just brood and hold it against her.

it took a rough year of our marriage to get through that part there and almost ended our marriage. counseling and a lot of trying on both of our parts has made this much better. some months it 1-3 times a month. this week has been 4 times. i don't think i did anything different.

that being said, i do not regret waiting at all and am glad we both did. however, i will have some conversations with my boys that my dad never did about how to walk into a sexual relationship (hopefully with just their wife) so they don't experience the pain our marriage did.

and as a side note, no judgment for anybody who didn't wait, that was just the path for me.
Posted by colorchangintiger
Dan Carlin
Member since Nov 2005
30979 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:18 pm to
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would you rather a great wife who cooks and cleans and is a good mother and gives you all the sex you want. but she isn't great at it.

or

a bitchy money hungry wife that can't boil water and only gives you incredible sex once a year


which is better?


These are the only 2 choices. Women are binary!
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
15281 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:19 pm to
You are probably awful at sex and have a small weiner, but its OK because it sounds like your wife will not spread the word about your tiny pecker, because of religious beliefs.
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:20 pm to
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I'm sure he'll be fine. He's got nothing to compare it to so he doesn't know what he's missing.


But curiosity could get the best of him...
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56518 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:21 pm to
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You are probably awful at sex and have a small weiner, but its OK because it sounds like your wife will not spread the word about your tiny pecker, because of religious beliefs.



Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:22 pm to
That is a LOT of assumptions in a rather compressed space
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
15281 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:24 pm to
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That is a LOT of assumptions in a rather compressed space


I'm full of rage right now.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:27 pm to


I need to get worked up into a good mad this week. I play basketball better when that happens, at least
Posted by Carolina_Girl
South Cackalacky
Member since Apr 2012
23973 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:28 pm to
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thats pretty pg-13 rated normal stuff. not sure this makes you less of a prude by saying these are the things you did with your ex.


I'm not going to give you a play by play of what went on in the bedroom. Sorry. But not prudish. As for everything else, I won't apologize for having standards and self-respect enough not to spread my legs for every hard dick that pointed my direction. If you cannot understand and respect that, may your dick rot off from the trash you stick it in.
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
15281 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:28 pm to
3 hours riding around looking at shite with the Army Corps of Engineers will do wonders increasing your level of aggravation.
Posted by DanMullins4Life
Member since Oct 2012
3168 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:29 pm to
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I'm full of rage right now.


Fight me, IRL.
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
91089 posts
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:30 pm to
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I'm not going to give you a play by play of what went on in the bedroom. Sorry. But not prudish. As for everything else, I won't apologize for having standards and self-respect enough not to spread my legs for every hard dick that pointed my direction. If you cannot understand and respect that, may your dick rot off from the trash you stick it in.


this is a safe space. let your anger flow.
This post was edited on 8/23/16 at 3:31 pm
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