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Posted on 8/23/16 at 2:58 pm to 3nOut
quote:what da.... ?
sex was awkward and a hard part of our marriage for the first 4 years or so. lots of arguing, misunderstood expectations, and frustrations.
Can you dive into this a little more?
And this people is why you always test drive the car.... I can't imagine going 4 consecutive years as an adult frustrated sexually, ESPECIALLY having to put up with a woman in all the other aspects of my life
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:00 pm to Carolina_Girl
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A doubles dance is where the guy with the female (in this case my exhusband and myself) pays for the stripper to perform a one-on-one with the chick while he watches.
Oh man y'all were hardcore.... He probably couldn't keep up with your wild arse.... No wonder y'all are divorced he probably couldn't tame you!
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:01 pm to SuperSaint
Currently dating a virgin. Will probably marry. I expect to be unfulfilled sexually. Will bump thread in a few years to confirm.
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:03 pm to redneck
we started dating at 17 and got married at 25
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:04 pm to Carolina_Girl
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As far as another poster saying I am probably a prude...not hardly. Went to strip clubs with him, did the whole doubles dance many, many times, up on stage in a kiddy pool with a stripper, watched porn with him, etc, etc, etc. Very open minded regarding what I will do, just more selective about with whom I will do thise things with is all.
thats pretty pg-13 rated normal stuff. not sure this makes you less of a prude by saying these are the things you did with your ex.
This post was edited on 8/23/16 at 3:15 pm
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:08 pm to Tigerfan56
Anyone marry the only person they've slept with and has never clicked play on a porno on beta/vcr/dvd/laserdisk/blueray/dvr/satellite/cable/smarttv/desktop/laptop/tablet/phone
FIFY
FIFY
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:14 pm to Tigerfan56
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Anyone marry the only person they've slept with?
I did. Known my wife since she first showed up at A&M 9 years ago this month. Started dating a little over a year later. Just had our 5 year wedding anniversary this past June.
Didn't plan it that way. Just happened. I had every intention of playing the field when I went to college, but I know a quality girl when she lands in my lap (pun not intended
Just got lucky, is all. Wouldn't recommend it to others, but every relationship is different, and I'm very glad with the way mine turned out.
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:14 pm to SuperSaint
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what da.... ?
Can you dive into this a little more?
And this people is why you always test drive the car.... I can't imagine going 4 consecutive years as an adult frustrated sexually, ESPECIALLY having to put up with a woman in all the other aspects of my life
so say you're a young stupid christian young man. living in a fairly repressed Baptist home. you find a girl. you love her. you want to bang her.
so you put a ring on it.
you have this illustrious view of sex as wild, all the time, every day porn sex. but because you're baptist, you don't really talk about expectations. at least not honestly.
get to honeymoon and have sex. greatest 2 minutes of my life up to that point. then have more sex throughout honeymoon. yah! gave her an orgasm... i think. no worries, just enjoying time together.
then you get home. and sex doesn't happen every day. real life happens. headaches, tired, periods, not in the mood, whatever. kids come and your cockblocked for a few months (my wife had to go to the ER for morning sickness with both our kids.) in the middle of this, it's not like it's not happening ever... usually just once a month. but remember that you came in with expectations and they're not being met.
so... like a 24 YO idiot, i don't talk to her about it, i just brood and hold it against her.
it took a rough year of our marriage to get through that part there and almost ended our marriage. counseling and a lot of trying on both of our parts has made this much better. some months it 1-3 times a month. this week has been 4 times. i don't think i did anything different.
that being said, i do not regret waiting at all and am glad we both did. however, i will have some conversations with my boys that my dad never did about how to walk into a sexual relationship (hopefully with just their wife) so they don't experience the pain our marriage did.
and as a side note, no judgment for anybody who didn't wait, that was just the path for me.
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:18 pm to Nado Jenkins83
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would you rather a great wife who cooks and cleans and is a good mother and gives you all the sex you want. but she isn't great at it.
or
a bitchy money hungry wife that can't boil water and only gives you incredible sex once a year
which is better?
These are the only 2 choices. Women are binary!
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:19 pm to 3nOut
You are probably awful at sex and have a small weiner, but its OK because it sounds like your wife will not spread the word about your tiny pecker, because of religious beliefs.
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:20 pm to lsugrad35
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I'm sure he'll be fine. He's got nothing to compare it to so he doesn't know what he's missing.
But curiosity could get the best of him...
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:21 pm to ThatMakesSense
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You are probably awful at sex and have a small weiner, but its OK because it sounds like your wife will not spread the word about your tiny pecker, because of religious beliefs.

Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:22 pm to ThatMakesSense
That is a LOT of assumptions in a rather compressed space 
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:24 pm to TbirdSpur2010
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That is a LOT of assumptions in a rather compressed space
I'm full of rage right now.
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:27 pm to ThatMakesSense
I need to get worked up into a good mad this week. I play basketball better when that happens, at least
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:28 pm to CAD703X
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thats pretty pg-13 rated normal stuff. not sure this makes you less of a prude by saying these are the things you did with your ex.
I'm not going to give you a play by play of what went on in the bedroom. Sorry. But not prudish. As for everything else, I won't apologize for having standards and self-respect enough not to spread my legs for every hard dick that pointed my direction. If you cannot understand and respect that, may your dick rot off from the trash you stick it in.
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:28 pm to TbirdSpur2010
3 hours riding around looking at shite with the Army Corps of Engineers will do wonders increasing your level of aggravation.
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:29 pm to ThatMakesSense
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I'm full of rage right now.
Fight me, IRL.
Posted on 8/23/16 at 3:30 pm to Carolina_Girl
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I'm not going to give you a play by play of what went on in the bedroom. Sorry. But not prudish. As for everything else, I won't apologize for having standards and self-respect enough not to spread my legs for every hard dick that pointed my direction. If you cannot understand and respect that, may your dick rot off from the trash you stick it in.
this is a safe space. let your anger flow.
This post was edited on 8/23/16 at 3:31 pm
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