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re: Anyone else struggle with the decision for kids/no kids?
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:00 pm to Lieutenant Dan
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:00 pm to Lieutenant Dan
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Maybe it's the Mercedes, the Rover, multiple boats, different woman weekly, living in a castle,.. etc, that keeps my "regrets" at bay.
In reality you probably live in a studio apartment and drive a 12 yr old Civic
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Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:00 pm to Tigerfan56
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I think we will be happy either way we go,
If that's actually the case, you should have kids. If you're lying about that, then you shouldn't.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:01 pm to Tigerfan56
Fair warning. Having kids at 30 sucks.
Having kids at 35 sucks worse.
I did both. Love my kids but we should have done this mid-20s at the latest. Getting old sucks. Getting old and losing sleep sucks royally. Damn the advice about having kids when older. The human body doesn't work that way. We're fertile in our early teens for a reason.
Having kids at 35 sucks worse.
I did both. Love my kids but we should have done this mid-20s at the latest. Getting old sucks. Getting old and losing sleep sucks royally. Damn the advice about having kids when older. The human body doesn't work that way. We're fertile in our early teens for a reason.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:02 pm to slackster
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I tend to disagree. If you're on the fence, go for it.
Did you read what he said? If they are on the fence and struggling with it, they should travel, become more financially stable and make the decision then. Don't force yourself into a decision like that at 28 when there are other things you want to do that you are not on the fence about....
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:02 pm to PrivatePublic
That's why you have kids with a 22 year old when you're 34
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:03 pm to Tigerfan56
You have time before you make the decision. We didnt have our first until we were 33. Were both 36 now with a 3 year old and an 8 month old. Take the next couple years to travel and enjoy yourselves before you have kids.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:04 pm to Tigerfan56
quote:how do I go back from kids to no kids?
Anyone else struggle with the decision for kids/no kids?
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:04 pm to Tigerfan56
Luckily I married younger so I have plenty of time to make that decision.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:04 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
How does her 22 year old body help my 34 year old one in the middle of the night when Jr. is screaming his head off?
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:11 pm to Tigerfan56
If you're on the fence just let nature take its course. Don't try either way.
Time for yourself personally? You'll get bored. Professionally? Work should be a means of paying the bills, nothing more. Most important thing is that it's something you enjoy doing.
Travel now. Or when you're retired and empty nesters.
Time for yourself personally? You'll get bored. Professionally? Work should be a means of paying the bills, nothing more. Most important thing is that it's something you enjoy doing.
Travel now. Or when you're retired and empty nesters.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:12 pm to IT_Dawg
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If you’re struggling with it....Don’t do it
There are people out there that disagree with this statement.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:13 pm to PrivatePublic
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Fair warning. Having kids at 30 sucks.
Having kids at 35 sucks worse.
I did both. Love my kids but we should have done this mid-20s at the latest. Getting old sucks. Getting old and losing sleep sucks royally. Damn the advice about having kids when older. The human body doesn't work that way. We're fertile in our early teens for a reason.
It's definitely a young person's game.
My first niece was a lot easier to babysit than my nephew.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:15 pm to fallguy_1978
No, but the maid drives a civic i think.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:20 pm to Tbobby
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You have no influence over this decision. Wife makes it.
Allow me to express the controversial stance that the decision whereby two people bring a life into this world is best made by two people.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:22 pm to Pecker
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Allow me to express the controversial stance that the decision whereby two people bring a life into this world is best made by two people.
"Heh you're funny, got to do what my boss says! You know women!"
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:39 pm to Tigerfan56
Go ahead and at least get tested to make sure there are no hidden fertility issues for either one of you.
Will help you to determine how much more time you have before you start trying to conceive.
Will help you to determine how much more time you have before you start trying to conceive.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:49 pm to PrivatePublic
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Fair warning. Having kids at 30 sucks. Having kids at 35 sucks worse.
Yeah you'll be those weird old parents at all the school functions
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:50 pm to yellowfin
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Yeah you'll be those weird old parents at all the school functions
GFY.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:53 pm to LCA131
Sonic 15 minutes
Posted on 4/10/18 at 7:53 pm to fallguy_1978
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I accidentally knocked up my wife a year after we got married. Struggle solved
I did it two months before we got married. Hopefully my grandparents never did the math.
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