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re: Anyone a stay at home husband?

Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:22 pm to
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:22 pm to
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So you know what goes on with your kid 100% during the day? Theres no way you do.

That’s fine if you don’t care about that, but I do.

I get heated because my wife was in early childhood and I know what happens at the majority of day cares, head starts and all the rest.

I care about kids and I don’t think people should have them until they’re ready to actually make a sacrifice in raising them. You clearly don’t see things the way I do and I can’t make you, but I don’t think you’d be so defensive is some part of you didn’t believe I’m correct.

Day care and preschool and elementary absolutely changes kids, exposes them to thing you don’t want them to see, hear and think and in the moment it’s 100% out of your control. After that it’s too late, and you have to do damage control. Nobody ever believes it will happen to them until it does. Not to mention the fact that schools are becoming less and less safe.
Posted by G2160
houston
Member since May 2013
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:22 pm to
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When was the last time you left your kid with the doctor for 8 hrs a day? Or better yet weren’t in the office the whole time? As far as school goes, of course. Even more so. That’s why ours will home school. Teaching your kid about the world and how to become a responsible human being is the most important thing you’ll ever do, I wouldn’t trust anyone else with that mission but my wife and me. Instead of trying to rationalize what you’re doing, maybe you should contemplate why both you and your wife’s careers are more important than your child.


Teaching your kid about responsibility and “the world” through homeschool, huh?

Do neither you or your wife work? Is your career more important than your child? Do you see how absurd this is?
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:23 pm to
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Please let us know your favorite sports teams and/or just favorite hat styles and where we can send them for you. We'll be sure to line them with tin foil.


Why do you think woke ideology is in public and private schools? Cause it built into the curriculum of a teacher in college. My wife has books on social justice and multicultiralism and privilege from undergrad 15 years ago.

There are thousands of people in various parts of govt and technology whose job it is to better learn how to lie to you in order to control every single aspect of your life and enslave you.

Would you call huxley or Orwell conspiracy theorists?
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:23 pm to
Can’t imagine homeschooling. Private Catholic schools are fine in our experience, and the Brother’s who run my son’s all-boys school don’t even punch kids anymore.

I guess if we didn’t live in a cool little town with nice families it would be different, but it seems like homeschooling my son would be next level torture for him.
Posted by Masterag
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:26 pm to
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Do neither you or your wife work?


Yes, we both work part time and are with kids part time and I’m in grad school. One parent is always with kids.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:26 pm to
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I guess if we didn’t live in a cool little town with nice families it would be different,
when did Diamondhead get that Rouse's Baw?
Posted by G2160
houston
Member since May 2013
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:27 pm to
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Yes, we both work part time and are with kids part time and I’m in grad school. One parent is always with kids.


Guess y’all both couldn’t be bothered to collectively raise your kids.

Congrats on the grad school, I guess?
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:29 pm to
IDK, I shop at the shite Froogles down in the Bay. Rouses is nice though…wish we had a Publix on 90 somewhere.
Posted by Chad504boy
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:30 pm to
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Yes, we both work part time and are with kids part time and I’m in grad school. One parent is always with kids.



so you can't afford daycare. got it.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:30 pm to
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Guess y’all both couldn’t be bothered to collectively raise your kids.


Huh? We’re both home in the evenings. One of us is with kids during the day while the other works, and she wfh so is always here if needed.
Posted by Sun God
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:31 pm to
Claiborne Hill FTW
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20220 posts
Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:34 pm to
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so you can't afford daycare. got it.



No, man. Under no circumstance would we employ day care. We are both professionals with degrees and could both work and buy a lot of stuff and put our kids in day care, but the well-being of our kids is more important than that.

Most people don’t realize the difference between kids raised in day care vs at home because it’s so prevalent. But if you do a little research the info is out there.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:35 pm to
If we’re making a real recipe, where we need things to be in stock (and not expired)…we drive over there, Old Spanish Trail though, I try to stay off 90 in Waveland.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
178833 posts
Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:37 pm to
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No, man. Under no circumstance would we employ day care. We are both professionals with degrees and could both work and buy a lot of stuff and put our kids in day care, but the well-being of our kids is more important than that.



quit calling yourself professionals. ya'll are part time losers still trying to find a way to make better money.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:42 pm to
Wife and I both work on a government site and they have a well run daycare…zero complaints about the time our son spent there. That end of daycare…pre-k 3 or 4 was a little awkward, but that’s only because my son didn’t understand the dynamic change.
Posted by Smoke7024
Member since Jun 2010
24073 posts
Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:44 pm to
Your experiences don't matter. This loser's opinion trumps all of that. The more he posts, the more it seems like he and his wife are still living off their parents.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:44 pm to
So do you have kids or not?

I'm confused by this debate ya'll are having
Posted by BearCrocs
Member since Aug 2013
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Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:46 pm to
Aggie gonna Aggie
Posted by Smoke7024
Member since Jun 2010
24073 posts
Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:46 pm to
From what I gather, he has kids and he and his wife both are part-time workers/parents. He also goes to grad school. They're definitely still living off mommy and daddy.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20220 posts
Posted on 5/31/23 at 3:47 pm to
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So do you have kids or not?


Yes, I’m not sure where the notion I didn’t came from.
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