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Anybody know someone with Munchausen by proxy?

Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:01 am
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
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Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:01 am
Basically this is when you fake illnesses in somebody you care for (child, elderly parent, etc) so you can bring attention to yourself.

Chick I went to high school with (you dont want pics) has like 5 kids between ages of maybe 3-10. At least once a week she will post a pic on FB with one of the kids “sick” in bed with caption “Oh no! Bralyn has a fever! Not again. Prayer please that it isnt the flu!”

Of course she gets lots of comments and sympathy emojis

Typically the kid is lying there with a big smile on his face playing on his ipad. Probably loves getting off school because his mom is nuts.
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
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Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:03 am to
Krista
Posted by Marfa
Esplanade
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:04 am to
Have you seen Mommy Dead and Dearest on HBO?
Posted by jdd48
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:05 am to
There was an infamous case of this in Louisiana - Dee Dee Blanchard and her daughter Gypsy.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:06 am to
It can be for attention, yes, but it can also be because the mother wants to feel needed by the child.

Either way, totally fricked up. The worst example of attention seeking version of this is that girl from Louisiana whose mother faked serious genetic disorders all over the country to get charitable donations. The girl ended up killing the mother and is in jail.


ETA:

Mommy Dead and Dearest as stated (Dee Dee Blancharde).
This post was edited on 2/26/18 at 9:07 am
Posted by Motorboat
At the camp
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:07 am to
I was involved in a family law case with this several years ago. It was very disturbing and i wish I could post details.
Posted by 9001
Pools closed
Member since Jul 2017
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Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:07 am to
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Krista


Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:07 am to
quote:

“Oh no! Bralyn has a fever!


Also, get less trashy friends
Posted by cj35
Member since Jan 2014
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Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:08 am to
what is the most popular VPN for this disorder?
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:11 am to
I know several hypochondriacs that project their shite onto their kids.

Is this what you are talking about?
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47507 posts
Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:14 am to
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Gypsy


IWHI and hold her hand in the mall.
This post was edited on 2/26/18 at 9:14 am
Posted by Volvagia
Fort Worth
Member since Mar 2006
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Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:14 am to
No. It’s more sick than that.

Munchausens will go out of their way to induce the symptoms as an escalation if you don’t give the desired attention.

The by proxy means they are not above poisoning the individual to play the caring provider role.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:15 am to
quote:

It can be for attention, yes, but it can also be because the mother wants to feel needed by the child.


In other words, attention.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83585 posts
Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:15 am to
Oh. Well that is definitely more sinister than the OP's scenario.

Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129005 posts
Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:17 am to
Yes cared for a child years ago that we suspected this in the parent.

A nurse caring for that child walked into the room and finally caught the parent shoving a rag into the baby’s mouth so the monitors would alarm and staff would rush in to give the child/parent attention.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120325 posts
Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:19 am to
Awful. Burn her.
Posted by Volvagia
Fort Worth
Member since Mar 2006
51910 posts
Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:19 am to
Yeah, I don’t think the OP is describing Munchausens, or if it is it is a precursor to it.


It’s just being a plain attention whore.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129005 posts
Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:20 am to
It was actually the father
Posted by Trauma14
Member since Aug 2010
5816 posts
Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:22 am to
My wife does special education law and sees some of her clients get accused of this. Generally, the school principal will call CPS and accuse the parent of Munchausen because they have no other valid reason. This is retaliation at it's finest. It is amazing the amount of effort schools and LEAs put into not providing services for children with disabilities than to simply give them the services.
Posted by sfdurst
New Iberia
Member since Dec 2009
195 posts
Posted on 2/26/18 at 9:23 am to
NERD!
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