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re: Any OT married men get hall passes from the wife/SO?
Posted on 11/18/15 at 2:51 pm to TheOcean
Posted on 11/18/15 at 2:51 pm to TheOcean
Sounds like you're trying to convince yourself by convincing others that the idea of a hall pass is a good thing. Let me guess, your wife just offered you one, right?
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Posted on 11/18/15 at 2:52 pm to TheOcean
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How many couples would stay together if they explored a little outside their marriage?
I can see a lot of child support orders in your future...
Posted on 11/18/15 at 2:52 pm to Darth_Vader
For the record, I really don't have 3 sugar babies and my wife doesn't give me a hall pass
Posted on 11/18/15 at 2:54 pm to Teddy Ruxpin
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The divorce rate for college educated married couples is extremely low, approx. 10%.
Reposting this since I don't like to let huge inaccuracies to fester.
Posted on 11/18/15 at 2:56 pm to kingbob
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Infidelity is another.
How is it cheating if both parties are ok with it?
Posted on 11/18/15 at 2:56 pm to SabiDojo
Posted on 11/18/15 at 2:57 pm to TheOcean
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How many couples would stay together if they explored a little outside their marriage?
That has no relevance to my question. You say monogamy isn't working well in this country, and you can't tell me how many actual monogamous couples are failing?
Posted on 11/18/15 at 2:58 pm to TheOcean
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How is it cheating if both parties are ok with it?
So if your wife came to you today and said she was going out with some dude and planned on letting him frick her tonight, you'd be cool with it?
Posted on 11/18/15 at 2:59 pm to Teddy Ruxpin
10% ages 35-45. We'll see what happens with our generation, although about half of college educated millennials are putting off marriage until their 30s.
Anyways, didn't want to turn this thread into a big monogamy/non-monogamy thread. I do realize the majority of posters live in LA/MS/AL
Anyways, didn't want to turn this thread into a big monogamy/non-monogamy thread. I do realize the majority of posters live in LA/MS/AL
Posted on 11/18/15 at 2:59 pm to TheOcean
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How is it cheating if both parties are ok with it?
Because it never just sticks to the consensual plan. It always ends with one or the other getting jealous and acting out or taking their partner for granted. It may start innocent, but it can so easily go down a dark dark path that it's best to be avoided. It can be done responsibly, in theory, but in practice it rarely works.
Posted on 11/18/15 at 3:00 pm to LNCHBOX
My parents were married to each other til death. Same with my in-laws. Wife and I have been married for over 33 years.
I know you were looking for the opposite but, figured i'd throw in some actual true stories.
I know you were looking for the opposite but, figured i'd throw in some actual true stories.
Posted on 11/18/15 at 3:00 pm to TheOcean
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Anyways, didn't want to turn this thread into a big monogamy/non-monogamy thread
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Any OT married men get hall passes from the wife/SO?
What the hell else would it turn in to?
Posted on 11/18/15 at 3:01 pm to MorbidTheClown
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My parents were married to each other til death. Same with my in-laws. Wife and I have been married for over 33 years.
I know you were looking for the opposite but, figured i'd throw in some actual true stories.
Why would I be looking for the opposite?
Posted on 11/18/15 at 3:01 pm to TheOcean
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How many couples would stay together if they explored a little outside their marriage?
How many couples didn't stay together because they did "explore a little outside their marriage"?
Posted on 11/18/15 at 3:02 pm to Darth_Vader
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So if your wife came to you today and said she was going out with some dude and planned on letting him frick her tonight, you'd be cool with it?
Completely different scenario. First scenario the SO approaches you about letting you explore once in a blue moon
Posted on 11/18/15 at 3:03 pm to LNCHBOX
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Why would I be looking for the opposite?
I thought you were asking him about monogamous couples who failed.
Posted on 11/18/15 at 3:04 pm to TheOcean
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I do realize the majority of posters live in LA/MS/AL
I think it's funny that people look down on the South because people are more likely to stay monogamous. Look at those backwards rednecks deciding not to sleep around.
If you have an agreement with your wife, more power to you. I also don't believe this is a normal thing for married couples anywhere in the country. I have a tough time believing anywhere close to 51% of the population anywhere practices open relationships. Maybe I'm just naïve.
Posted on 11/18/15 at 3:04 pm to kingbob
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Because it never just sticks to the consensual plan. It always ends with one or the other getting jealous and acting out or taking their partner for granted. It may start innocent, but it can so easily go down a dark dark path that it's best to be avoided. It can be done responsibly, in theory, but in practice it rarely works.
Had a neighbor who dabbled in this with his wife. Nice up-scale family, two little boys. Fast forward a couple years and she's left him for another guy, took the boys, took everything except the house. He's a wreck, spirals downward quickly, gets into drugs, gets busted, goes to jail and now lives in a halfway house. frick that.
Posted on 11/18/15 at 3:06 pm to DestrehanTiger
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I think it's funny that people look down on the South because people are more likely to stay monogamous.
Different strokes for different folks. I was laughing because a thread like this would be completely different on a more northern message board. But I do find it very hard to believe most guys on here wouldn't jump at the opportunity to use a hall pass if their wife gave them one
Posted on 11/18/15 at 3:06 pm to Darth_Vader
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He's a wreck, spirals downward quickly, gets into drugs, gets busted, goes to jail and now lives in a halfway house. frick that.
I'm sure they wouldn't have gotten divorced if they were monogamous
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