re: Any OT married men get hall passes from the wife/SO?

yeah, she might not collect right away. it might be 10 yrs down the road. but one day she will say " remember that time i let you frick that other woman on your business trip? Well, this is LaDerrick and he is going to frick me tonight".

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Let's say hypothetically you knew for sure there would be no strings attached. You would still say no?

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Are you married?

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Are you married?

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i think the answer is obvious...

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i think the answer is obvious...

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Well, that's why I asked. On the one hand he sounds like a married guy asking this question. And he said he's a "millennial" and I know they think a whole lot different from my generation.


But on the other hand he keeps saying things that sounds like he has no clue how women think. Namely that he thinks they'd be OK with him fricking strange women and all they'd want in return is to hear the details.

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Going to be 27 for me and Mrs. Midnight in the Spring, baw. The problems with these kids and their marriages is that marriages require this thing called "work". It's not a financial agreement. It's not a sex contract. It's not a formalized cohabitation partnership.

It's an all-in merger of 2 human beings (if done correctly), period.

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This guy gets it.

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But on the other hand he keeps saying things that sounds like he has no clue how women think

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Dude is fricking clueless when it comes to serious relationships. But according to him I'm still in my honeymoon phase for only being married the past two years, so I don't know anything. Even though I've been with my wife almost 6 years and lived with her basically since day one (I can count on my fingers and toes the number of nights we've not slept under the same roof since we got together).

Either could be possible here. My guess is it's the latter scenario and he's just clueless.

Dunno if being early 30s makes me a "millennial" or not but I do not think that way.

I said 100% no I would not do it if told I could, but, I know 100% that my wife would never say that and would never be ok with it. If a woman even brings this up I would have serious doubts about her commitment to the marriage.

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Dude is fricking clueless when it comes to serious relationships. But according to him I'm still in my honeymoon phase for only being married the past two years, so I don't know anything. Even though I've been with my wife almost 6 years and lived with her basically since day one (I can count on my fingers and toes the number of nights we've not slept under the same roof since we got together).

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Well, being married only 2 years you should still be in your "Honeymoon" phase and there's not a thing wrong with that. My wife and I were married five years before we had our first kid and we both consider that to be our "Honeymoon" phase. And I while being a parent is great (we've got 2 kids now) I'd not trade that "Honeymoon" time for anything. But even though you may still be in that Honeymoon stage or whatever, it sounds like you've got the right mindset and commitment to make your marriage work.

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The OT hive mind in full effect here

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Meh - half of these turn into swinger lifestyle threads. Today, the decent folk seem to be out in force.