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Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:14 pm to
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
58849 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:14 pm to
I also think this could be a missed opportunity for her to marry rich and when he dies y'all could have the money, just saying.
Posted by Azranod
The Land of crooked letters and I's
Member since Oct 2013
1185 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:14 pm to
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How do you not see that as insecure?


It's not insecurity. It's asking for respect and acknowledgement.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
281843 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:17 pm to
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Stop buying her shite.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
188570 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:17 pm to
You came to the board and asked us if we thought you were in the wrong

And people have responded to you sometimes very bluntly sometimes very gently

why are you being so resistant to the comments that you asked for?
Posted by DCtiger1
Member since Jul 2009
10155 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:18 pm to
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It's not insecurity. It's asking for respect and acknowledgement.


It is 100% insecurity. You’re comparing her talking about a damn 80 year old taking her to eat in what sounds like a flirty way to what you’ve done for her. If you were secure you’d know she’s appreciative and a damn 80 year old wouldn’t make you jealous.

Olive Garden and scrubs isn’t the flex you seem to think it is. Again how old are you? 25?
Posted by DCtiger1
Member since Jul 2009
10155 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:19 pm to
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why are you being so resistant to the comments that you asked for?


Because he came here for affirmation because he’s insecure and he didn’t get it so he’s defensive
Posted by GEAUXmedic
Joplin, MO
Member since Nov 2011
41637 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:19 pm to
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why are you being so resistant to the comments that you asked for?



People are used to coming to the internet to find people who enforce, not challenge, their beliefs.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
2475 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:20 pm to
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I didn't right away. I mostly just listened to her telling me about her day. Since I was giving her but short responses she asked what was wrong, then I told her.

Yeah…telling her you were “insulted” definitely wasn’t the move.

Ask yourself this…is this 80 yo dude sitting in senior care with Alzheimer’s an actual threat to your position in her life? If you think he is, the answer is to end the relationship (for your sake and hers). If he’s not (he almost certainly isn’t), then your feelings are your own, right? They’re valid, but you need to work through them, not go off on her for telling you about her day.

Maybe tell her later after you regain your composure that you felt some kind of way when she was telling you about Old Man Methuselah. But when you do, make it clear that what you feel is about you. Because it is. She’ll respect that more than the way you approached it.
This post was edited on 11/23/24 at 4:23 pm
Posted by Azranod
The Land of crooked letters and I's
Member since Oct 2013
1185 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:24 pm to
Because most people think that I care that the old man took her to dinner and paid for it.
People think that I care about his vehicles.
I don't. I simply wanted to be appreciated for the things I did. Not once did she ever say "Thank you." Not when I repinned the lock in the door on the back of the house after she lost the key. Not when I washed a sink full of dishes because she says her daughter never will because she has babied her daughter and the daughter thinks it is beneath her.
Posted by Northshoretiger87
Member since Apr 2016
4856 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:25 pm to
You are a bitch. You need to be on the Aggie Board
Posted by DCtiger1
Member since Jul 2009
10155 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:26 pm to
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Not once did she ever say "Thank you." Not when I repinned the lock in the door on the back of the house after she lost the key. Not when I washed a sink full of dishes because she says her daughter never will because she has babied her daughter and the daughter thinks it is beneath her.


This shite is petty af. If it bothers you that much, you should’ve addressed it outside of this situation.
Posted by cypresstiger
The South
Member since Aug 2008
12381 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:26 pm to
Run and delete her and block her phone number
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
188570 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:26 pm to
Well maybe you need to tell her that
but go for a walk first.. workout ....take a gummie
Posted by GurleyGirl
Georgia
Member since Nov 2015
14169 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:27 pm to
She's a gold digger and the old man will likely leave her sitting pretty.
He will probably gift her one of those vehicles before he kicks the bucket.
She could care less about you feeling insulted.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
58849 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:29 pm to
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why are you being so resistant to the comments that you asked for?

Because its not the answer he wanted.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
117312 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:30 pm to
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She's a gold digger and the old man will likely leave her sitting pretty.
He will probably gift her one of those vehicles before he kicks the bucket.
She could care less about you feeling insulted.


This
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
2475 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:30 pm to
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I simply wanted to be appreciated for the things I did. Not once did she ever say "Thank you."

Then why did this only come out after she started talking about this old dude?

And why would you be doing all of this for a women who you don’t believe appreciates it?
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
34097 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:32 pm to
Assuming all this is true, she ( and lazy-arse daughter) sounds like a user.
OP oughta bail, those types never change.
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
164217 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:32 pm to
Didnt read but the posters i trust seem to think you should EAD
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
137760 posts
Posted on 11/23/24 at 4:33 pm to
Are we sure that the op is not a lesbian?
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