re: Am I a good husband?

“...a little self-centered.”?!

I bet that bitch is A LOT self-centered... but that’s sight unseen. I think some pics would help us all out greatly

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I asked my wife this.

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you spelled 'husband' wrong

Isnt she pregnant? If so she needs extra help and support. After all, she is going thru 9 months of carrying another human that depends on her for everything they need to survive from her.

It is a rather exhausting thing to do. She may be more emotional or moody ( due to hormones) or may be physically dealing with exhaustion or being unable to find a comfortable was to get enough rest, especially since she may have to wake up a few times every night to pee.

Try doing things that you know need to done, without her having to ask you. Consider how you would feel if you were the one who was creating a small human being while your spouse carried with life as normal.

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SuperSaint

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you'll be a great husband one day

I'm pretty sure my wife is only still with me because of the kids. We're glorified roommates at this point.

This is one those questions where if you have to ask, the answer is never what you want to hear.

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She said,
"No, you are not. You are a little self centered."

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If she was being serious. Your marriage is doomed and I'm not even joking.

Leave now. Seriously- do not pass go or collect $200- GTFO while you still can

Best I can say is to try and be what you want the other to be. I roomed with life long friends in college. Never fought before living together, but had some knock down drag outs while living together over stupid shite. There’s even higher expectations in a marriage, and if most of us are honest with ourselves, we are probably lacking in a few areas. If you love her, fix it. More often than not, you’ll end up in the same boat a few years down the road.