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Alabama Mother Signs Advanced Directive for Son; School Won't Let Him Back In

Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:24 pm
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
21082 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:24 pm
Alabama Mother Fights for Teen

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An Alabama teen with a terminal heart condition has not returned to school after a spate of hospitalizations because of what his mother says is a dispute with school officials about how he might die.

Alex Hoover's case presents something of a legal loophole: His mother, Rene, has drawn up legal documents known as an advance directive to ensure the 14-year-old is not revived if he goes into cardiac arrest. But officials say they can't follow that directive if his heart stops at school.

Rene Hoover says she does not want her son's last days spent enduring a battery of medical procedures and medication as a result of his condition, aortic mitral valve stenosis. The condition causes the heart's mitral valve to narrow and restrict blood flow.


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Aside from liability concerns, school officials likely have concerns over the potential impact on students who could witness the teen's death, Meisel said.

However, Hoover said she simply wants her son to live as fully and normally as possible.

"We want him to have comfort and peace," Hoover said. "Emotionally, it is probably the hardest thing I think a human being could go through; knowing that you have to choose not if your child's gonna die, but how your child's gonna die."

Republican state Rep. Mac McCutcheon said he's considering introducing legislation next year to allow advance directives to cover minors after hearing about Hoover's case. McCutcheon said medical professionals could take a student with an advance directive to a private area in the event of a medical emergency to lessen the impact on other students and teachers.
This post was edited on 11/3/15 at 4:25 pm
Posted by LSUTigersVCURams
Member since Jul 2014
21940 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:25 pm to
Two words: private school.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:27 pm to
I can see both sides on this one. tough call for the parents, and tough call for the school.
Posted by sullivanct19a
Florida
Member since Oct 2015
5239 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:27 pm to
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Two words: private school.


Amen.
Posted by sullivanct19a
Florida
Member since Oct 2015
5239 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:28 pm to
How crappy this must be for the kid. Life is incredibly unfair sometimes. Morons in the public school system just make it worse.
Posted by Ace Midnight
Between sanity and madness
Member since Dec 2006
96257 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:29 pm to
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Two words: private school.


Or home school.

While I sympathize STRONGLY with the teen and his family, it is an impossible situation to put the school in.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:29 pm to
I can see both sides of this.
Posted by TigerBait1127
Houston
Member since Jun 2005
47336 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:33 pm to
quote:

Morons in the public school system just make it worse.


You really don't think that they also have a point here?
Posted by Spankum
The Sip
Member since Jan 2007
63317 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:50 pm to
something is not really adding up about this whole deal...seems to me like they can pretty easily repair or replace a bad heart valve these days...

also, mom is pretty damn hot, if you ask me...
Posted by nes2010
Member since Jun 2014
8048 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:55 pm to
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I can see both sides on this one.
Posted by gatorguru
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2014
333 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:58 pm to
I witnessed someone die when I was about this age maybe a few years younger. A guy in my golf group went into cardiac arrest. Foaming at mouth, ambulance, resuscitation, everything.

It was unnerving but nothing that scarred me for life. I still vividly remember it but these days we become a little desensitized to things.

I say let grant the kid and the mother's "last wish" just let him hang with peers.
Posted by SamuelClemens
Earth
Member since Feb 2015
11727 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 4:59 pm to
If his condition is in fact terminal, take him out of school and take him traveling around the world seeing the planet before his time comes.
Posted by saintsfan22
baton rouge
Member since May 2006
80933 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 5:02 pm to
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If his condition is in fact terminal, take him out of school and take him traveling around the world seeing the planet before his time comes.


The kid might just want to go to school. Kid at our high school was dying of leukemia and he didn't tell anybody except his best friend, he just wanted to be normal.
Posted by Mizzoufan26
Vacaville CA
Member since Sep 2012
18965 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 5:07 pm to
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How crappy this must be for the kid. Life is incredibly unfair sometimes. Morons in the public school system just make it worse.


By trying to keep him alive?

It's odd how many people don't have any common sense.
Posted by GetBackToWork
Member since Dec 2007
6607 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 5:08 pm to
And then what of the Jehovah's Witnesses who might want their kid to bleed to death from a scraped knee if necessary. Does the school acquiesce to them, as well? Not a cut and dry issue.
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 5:19 pm to
Seriously, why should a child that is dying go to school. What's the point? Unless it something he enjoys
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45560 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 5:36 pm to
All they have to do is let him in then if something happens save him and say they forgot.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
78046 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 5:38 pm to
Advance directives do not apply to other institutions besides medical ones.

If the school does not wish to acquiesce to her demands, they do not have to.
This post was edited on 11/3/15 at 5:43 pm
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
106119 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 5:42 pm to
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Two words: private school.


Most private schools wouldn't want to touch this situation. Public schools are mandated by law to accept everyone regardless of disability or the cost of accommodating that disability. Private schools can be selective and usually don't admit students who are cost prohibitive or problematic in some other way. The ability to pick and choose is one reason why they generally outperform the publics.

Whether the school will be obligated to follow the advance directive is the open question, but they will have to enroll him.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18921 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 5:45 pm to
quote:

Seriously, why should a child that is dying go to school. What's the point? Unless it something he enjoys


Social interaction with his friends?
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