re: Affairs... (very long)

Describe in detail your relationship with your wife leading up to and during the affair please.

I've heard this joke before. The punchline setup is:

"Why are you telling me all of this?"

"I'm telling everyone!!"

You fricked up big time giving her your number. Shud have just left it at that bruh

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They deserve to kno

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frick that....bury that shite WAY down deep and move on.

Tell her you gotta move on, block her number and delete contact. If you see her, keep it professional but nice.

Like the old timers used to do

First off you are terrible. Your wife has given you children, took care of you, and given you a partner in life. This is not how you repay that. It is not only a betrayal but also disrespectful and IMHO unforgivable. the act starts when you start to hide things from your S.O. if you wouldn't be comfortable with your partner watching as you do whatever it is then you need to extract yourself from the situation. If you tell your wife it will destroy her. When people have affairs it doesn't make the one who was cheated on doubt the person that screwed up. they doubt what they did wrong. were they not attractive enough or whatever. You won't feel less guilty because you will cause more pain. You need to cut off all contact with this woman. immediately. You do not have feelings for her it is what you think you feel because of the chemicals in your brain created from the excitement of the affair.
if she had done this to you how would you feel? would you want to know? honestly women have an instinct that tells us when something is off. your wife probably already suspects something. man up and tell her! you screwed up! yes she will be hurt but honestly anyone who would do this to someone they love doesn't deserve that person. you don't do this to someone you love unless you don't really love them.

if you don't tell them you aren't just a piece of shite you are also without honor and a coward.