Affair advice-UPDATE page 19

Disclaimer this is an extremely trashy situation so I know I’ve come to the right place. I’m 33 with a 31 YO wife(no pics) and 4 kids. Never had previously cheated on her in 8 years of marriage, sex is fine, but not really a spark like it used to be. Started getting a lot of attention from a woman at work(who I rarely work with) at the beginning of the year. I would flirt a bit but for the most part blew her off and even told her I wasn’t interested twice mainly because I didn’t understand her intentions. The more she told me about her self the more I understood her and started falling for her when I realized that she had legitimate feelings for me. We have been having sex(at work) and communicating daily on a very deep level for about 4 months now. Here’s the trashy part. She’s 44 and also married. Her husband(they don’t have sex)is extremely controlling and tracks her every move which limits us to work while my wife is a bit more naive. It used to be fun and exciting fooling around at work now months later I am completely in love with this woman and the “work” time just isn’t enough. I am becoming miserable and it’s getting worse. With her family life and especially mine there seems to be no solution to this situation. What great advice does the OT have?