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re: Affair advice-UPDATE page 19

Posted on 6/29/20 at 7:59 pm to
Posted by MickeyLikesDags21
Member since Apr 2019
6641 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 7:59 pm to
quote:

Most of the people in this thread lack wisdom.

Do what’s best for you,

Their judgement is Facebook talk. It’s prolly best to teach your kids a lesson. They will be stronger than their peers. No worries.


Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
24855 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:00 pm to
Murder/suicide is not the answer
Posted by MWP
Kingwood, TX via Monroe, LA
Member since Jul 2013
10983 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:02 pm to
Damn, all I did was leave to go get takeout and this little gem of thread blows up.

OP, you have most certainly come to the right place.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:03 pm to
quote:

t risk by sleeping with someone who could have God knows what kind of sexually transmitted disease?


How is he putting her at risk if he isn’t fricking her?

You’ve once again proven how dumb you are.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133572 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:04 pm to
If this is real, Let me hit you with this.

Forget about the wife you are thinking about betraying. There’s obviously a deeper issue there.
But think about your kids.
Absolute best case scenario, and I’m not even talking about the financial burden you’ll have on you, you’ll get 50/50 custody.

So those kids you claim to love, you willing to miss half the hugs. Half the “I love you daddy’s”? Willing to have them wake up crying in the middle of the night because you aren’t there, thinking they did something?

Man, you don’t even know. You don’t know how much it hurts when your little girl asks you why mommy can’t live with us so they can have both all the time.
You have NO CLUE the lives you will alter and damage, over some middle age poon? That will age like baloney in the sun.

Have some compassion for your kids and start thinking with your heart instead of your dick. You’ll thank me later when you aren’t lying awake, alone, wishing you could hold them.
Posted by zeebo
Hammond
Member since Jan 2008
5406 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:06 pm to
Stop digging the hole. Your feelings don’t matter. Break up with girlfriend and go to confession. If you are not familiar with the Bible get one. Read the psalms in the 50’s. There is one there about David getting his shite together after his affair with a married woman, who he had her husband killed so you aren’t any worse than any other sinner. Your feeling for the girlfriend are going to evaporate anyway. That stage never last in the best of circumstances. Act like you are in love with your wife and in shirt order you will feel like you are. It will come and go but we men trade our sexual wolfing for long term meaning and significance, found in devotion to family. Get back in the boat and tow with the rest of us. I promise you , it is not worth continuing on the path you are on.
Posted by rowbear1922
Houston, TX
Member since Oct 2008
15759 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:08 pm to
quote:

zeebo


Wrong person to reply, but I agree OP is fricked no matter what.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
65547 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:09 pm to
If this isn’t a troll thread, you done messed up big time. Man up and own your mistakes and beg forgiveness from all involved.
This post was edited on 6/29/20 at 8:10 pm
Posted by Aubie3310
South Alabama
Member since Sep 2019
91 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:09 pm to
quote:

Damn, all I did was leave to go get takeout and this little gem of thread blows up.

OP, you have most certainly come to the right place.


Glad my misery entertains so many
Posted by LAblue
Member since Sep 2017
110 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:11 pm to
With 4 kids, the odds that you have at least one daughter is strong. Stop right now and think about how you feel if you wake up one day and realize that your daughter(s) found another “you” ......
End the affair at work. Change jobs if you have to. Fall in love with your wife again. Be the dad you want your kids to have and the man you want your daughter(s) to end up with.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53116 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:11 pm to
I grew up in a broken family like that. I didn't speak to my mother other than a few words here and there from age 11 to 24. Assuming he's legit, he's messing with a lot more than his own marriage.
Posted by whitetiger1234
They/Them
Member since Oct 2016
6441 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:12 pm to
quote:

Glad my misery entertains so many


1. You did it to yourself retard.
2. You posted about it.

Get the frick over yourself.
This post was edited on 6/29/20 at 8:13 pm
Posted by Splackavellie
Bayou
Member since Oct 2017
12104 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:12 pm to
quote:

Aubie3310


What kind of job is this btw?
Posted by hottub
Member since Dec 2012
3652 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:13 pm to
quote:

Actually no the mistress is an Alabama fan if that makes it weirder


You’re cheating on your wife with your sister?
Posted by rowbear1922
Houston, TX
Member since Oct 2008
15759 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:15 pm to
quote:

1. You did it to yourself retard.
2. You posted about it. *You did that to yourself too*

Get the frick over yourself.


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Posted by Hou_Lawyer
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2019
2174 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:15 pm to
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This post was edited on 10/26/20 at 12:17 pm
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
60444 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:16 pm to
Get fired to break the chain.
Get a new job and a new phone.
Be done with this.
The Bible clearly states you can’t serve two masters.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
37775 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:16 pm to
quote:

Glad my misery entertains so many

You mean your stupidity and immorality? Misery is just an easily foreseeable consequence to it.
Posted by ConservativeBamaFan
Tuscaloosa Alabama
Member since Nov 2013
1408 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:17 pm to
Bud your going through a midlife crisis. If you continue you will regret it as well as do harm to your children.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Member since Nov 2009
126470 posts
Posted on 6/29/20 at 8:18 pm to
quote:

Aubie3310
Congrats on destroying your children just because you are a lazy, selfish arse. Going to be nice being a lonely old man with bitter adult children to deal with.
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