re: Advocate Obit. Bryan Rushing....

Like saying I fricked owlie?

Nah. He flat out lied a lot

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Don't get me wrong, I am not using this as an excuse or anything, because I posted like an idiot and created alters, but he took what he knew about my IRL situation and completely fabricated the truth. There were times when I would disagree with him or question some BS he said, we would go back and forth for a little while then all of a sudden I would get banned.. Then when I could no longer defend myself, he would give the board this BS psychoanalysis of me.

If anything, my fault was/is being the type, at times, who has to always get in the last word. This doesn't just apply to me, but anyone who wouldn't back down to him became a marked person... It was as if, on the board, he wanted to surround himself with people who wouldn't question him and would "be in his corner". It was strange behavior, but of course if you pointed that out... He would sink his teeth into you.

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Dude, this is what I was talking about. Nobody believed Rag's psychoanalysis of you. Nor did they believe he had any inside info on your life. At least not the intelligent ones and then the intelligent ones didn't give a damn about your situation as much as you do.

We all fall victim to thinking everyone is looking at me but they aren't. The ONLY time your screen name would stand out was when you actively went head to head with an internet bully that none of us believed anyway.

It would get you banned but not because Rag had pull. You would get banned because you would derail threads defending yourself. At least that's my opinion.

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I never knew exactly what he knew about my past and was terrified he might blab stuff to the board if I ever upset him.

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Apparently not though since everyone thought he was a different person

I knew he had to be older than me and figured he was lying about the family

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If what you said is true and I believe it is

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well you know me
he didn't

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She made it hard for jmc to post here

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fair enough,, and Ive suggested she could be nicer to her


again the Rag shite is a chance for all of us to learn from it and try to be kinder

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and liz is actually a very sweet girl).

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pics ?

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so whats the truth part ?

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Nurse was obviously hooking 480 up with pills...j/k

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Also LL said that rag sent jones a long email saying he should break up with her

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I saw this the other day. LL mentioned something about it and I thought that was really odd. We are talking about two people on the board, who had a relationship, who he didn't know IRL and he was contacting one of them suggesting they should break up with the other. WTF? I assume he knew absolutely nothing about their relationship IRL.

My first thought was that there was something he connected with, based on what he knew about them. Although I never had much interaction with LL on the board, she never seemed like someone who deserved to have someone, who only knew her on the board, contact someone she was in a relationship to tell them they should break up with her. That is seriously getting involved in someone's personal life. Something like that can affect a relationship and possible create issues that are not even there.

Usually, when someone takes it upon themselves to whisper things in someone's ear, about someone they have a relationship with (whether its dating, work relationship, etc) and that person isn't really close to the situation, they have a certain type of agenda. But what type of agenda could he have? That's just weird shite.