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re: A good decent woman is hard to find anymore

Posted on 9/9/23 at 5:20 pm to
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
58058 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 5:20 pm to
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We need to build survivors not victims We need to work toward "We" not "I" We need old school nuns to teach FEAR and GOD We need to accept responsibilities not make excuses
amen
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
135176 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 5:22 pm to
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We need to build survivors not victims
We need to work toward "We" not "I"
We need old school nuns to teach FEAR and GOD
We need to accept responsibilities not make excuses


Sadly, this country has passed all of this by, and it's not coming back.
Posted by Rabby
Member since Mar 2021
1443 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 5:24 pm to
Hafa adai

Never could get used to living on Vladivostok time, but the diving was wonderful as was the motorcycle community.

And you are correct - there is a lot to like about people from the PI.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
24669 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 5:27 pm to
Miss the good ole days. Women didn’t have tattoos, blue hair, children out of wedlock, or penises.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11589 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 5:30 pm to
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Miss the good ole days. Women didn’t have tattoos, blue hair, children out of wedlock, or penises.


Or razors, deodorant, and indoor plumbing.
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
66140 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 5:30 pm to
Women have always been narcisstic, but I can't imagine a young buck these days dealing with women on Instagram all day.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
24669 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 5:33 pm to
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Or razors, deodorant, and indoor plumbing.

Just a few decades ago women were still using outhouses and smelled like shite? I don’t mind bush
This post was edited on 9/9/23 at 5:34 pm
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
60614 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 5:37 pm to
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lol you used to not get an education


You used to get multiple educations
Family = 4 generations at dinner laughing, learning, and hearing stories
School = 3 R's and basic social rules
Faith = I got lucky being Catholic, nuns beat you but got you in a top college
School = college for advanced skills, VoTech for employable skills and no debt
Job = You got paid for you time and advanced training for specific skills
Life = Day to day you learned how to get along, find you place, and solve problems


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arranged(ish) marriage


My ancestors came through Ellis Island from Sicily (she was royalty, he was craftsman) with the clothes on their back. They learned English, took crappy menial jobs to live, and raised a family in the Italian / Jewish getthos of NYC. their offspring were bilingual and moved up the ladder. They survived multiple panics (including the Great Depression), multiple health scares (including Spanish Flu), and multiple wars (including WWI and WWI) and produced my generation. Hard work created strong offspring who were good at athletics and empowering education in the home and family crated offspring who could attend college.

I beg to differ

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never retire


I am old but love to work, if I "retired" chances are good I would be dead in a month. My old man lived almost century intact ti near the very end and he was always in motion and always interacting. He also never stopped working his brain. Later generations will have shorter lifespans for not doing this. Just look at the folks on electric carts at Walmart Mart


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there are too many options now.


I will agree to disagree. There are more distractions, it is your choice to use your body and mind to narrow the band and focus on the things that enhance your quality of life and not let others data mine you and sell that so corporations can control you like sheep instead of being a different spirt animal that connects your body and mind to your soul.

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hat's the problem


Not really, it is only a problem if you use the gifts you have to find the solutions that fit you.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
60614 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 5:55 pm to
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Sadly, this country has passed all of this by, and it's not coming back.


The unique benefit of the USA is the only country without some form of promoginiter (sp?). My ancestors left the mother countries too because as a woman they could not inherit. If you were a male and not the first male, it was the same. If you understand law, most of it deals with real property (land) and personal property (what you could carry). In most societies the first male inherited 100% of the land and 100% of the stuff. The land was not split and passed to his first son. The "stuff" he could give, so he could "give" his brother and "allowance" to live on and he could give his sister the furniture to put in her home.

My Scottish ancestors cam here and fought in wars for the British first, then the USA. One was an indentured servant on one of the first ships. If they survived (low odds) the were not paid in gold or silver, they were paid in land. This was not valuable land in the cities of the East or South, it was lands in the wilderness. They moved and started started families in the wilderness. They worked their butts off while dealing with natives, weather, illness, and other stuff till 100 years later they had small farms of cleared lend. The timber crated structures and the rocks cleared over time became the boundary walls. Their kids took us from the the wilderness to industrialization.

While you may be correct on not having the challenges they faced we can return to the souls they possess to survive and grow. Not saying it is easy or fix overnight, just saying it can be done.
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
3803 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 6:55 pm to
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And I hope the OP realizes that the opposite is true as well. My oldest cannot find anyone that meets her requirements either.

She needs to be more honest with herself or she will stay single.
In my opinion, the pendulum is on the guy's side now. If you aren't attractive (skinny, decent face), emotionally stable,not morally corrupt (non impulsive, good personal habits), or able to take care of yourself your chances of finding a decent guy are pretty slim now. Especially now since there's less of a stigma to stay single or to date younger or non American women.
This post was edited on 9/9/23 at 6:58 pm
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
43785 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 7:05 pm to
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A good decent woman is hard to find anymore
White, Christian,


With Russian and Ukrainian men killing each other on a daily basis the mail order bride market is on fire.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
85108 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 7:19 pm to
No matter how many good men opt out of the traditional dating scene and or look internationally, a lot of these American women who can’t find a mate will still never learn the lesson. Men are simple creatures. They want sexual availability, loyalty, kindness and peace among other things. What they don’t want is constant social media, histrionics, finger- wagging, brow- beating, and all the other things American women who are steeped in feminism and or therapeutic culture seem to have perfected.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
60614 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 8:29 pm to
Men = dogs || simple and loyal

Women = cats || attention and time


When went to work they had tasks
When women had kids they had attention and time


In switching internal wiring you had thousands of years to set, you can not do that in years or decades
Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
45815 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 8:32 pm to
I will stand for neither finger- wagging nor brow-beating
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
58058 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 8:34 pm to
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She needs to be more honest with herself or she will stay single.
she is very honest with herself, and with the dating pool out there - she may stay single
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
3803 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 8:49 pm to
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she is very honest with herself, and with the dating pool out there - she may stay single ?
Might be a good choice
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
7474 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 9:24 pm to
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And why are American women so worried about financial security if they can work?


Bro the average mortgage is 2500 fricking dollars a month
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
7474 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 9:27 pm to
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Just don't be fat usually gets you far.


Five feet tall is gonna have you jerkin it yourself. I know this for a fact
Posted by down time
space
Member since Oct 2013
1914 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 10:03 pm to
50% of these end in divorce
30% more are unhappy, unfaithful, and make their husband's miserable.

*Add in obesity, addiction, mental illness, domestic violence, step kids, feminist mindset, bills.

There is no happy ending. You need to accept the bad girls too.

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White, Christian, Conservative. No tattoos. Doesn’t have to be a 9 or a 10 by any means but at least tries to keep herself in decent shape
Posted by Sevensblue
Las Vegas
Member since Apr 2022
1750 posts
Posted on 9/9/23 at 10:18 pm to

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