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15% of men report having no close friends, up from only 3% in 1990

Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:41 pm
Posted by HailHailtoMichigan!
Mission Viejo, CA
Member since Mar 2012
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Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:41 pm
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Scott Barry Kaufman, Ph.D.
@sbkaufman
Heartbreaking: 15% of men and 10% of women in America have no close friends. The decline is most pronounced among men. In 1990, only 3% of men reported having no close friends. In 2021, the number rose to 15%. We need to help; friendship strongly predicts life satisfaction.





Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
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Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:42 pm to
I have no enemies but I am heartily disliked by all my friends
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
9677 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:42 pm to
It’s tough out here for the boys
Posted by OldHickory
New Orleans
Member since Apr 2012
10602 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:43 pm to
Probably because they can’t trust us with their wives and girlfriends.
Posted by SECSolomonGrundy
Slaughter Swamp
Member since Jun 2012
15844 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:44 pm to
15% of yall must be lame as frick and not go out anywhere.

Guys can have friends even if they are assholes, frickups, lazy, poor, whatever. Just be cool. Drink beer, watch sports, play fantasy football, make friends. It's fricking simple.

Girls on the other hand are counts to each other by nature and there has to be a perfect balance in the universe for women to make friends.
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47824 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:45 pm to
they should join TD.com

We are like a weird completely dysfunctional online family <3
Posted by LSU-MNCBABY
Knightsgate
Member since Jan 2004
24343 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:45 pm to
Bunch of soy cuck pussys that no one wants to hang out with
Posted by zzgobucky
Madison
Member since Sep 2016
1738 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:45 pm to
If a computer was considered a friend that 15% would be down to less than 1%
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
141660 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:46 pm to
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Girls on the other hand are counts to each other by nature
A Mencken quote:

"Two women hugging reminds me of two boxers shaking hands before a fight"
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
48915 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:47 pm to
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15% of men report having no close friends
male privilege huh?

I wonder since it says friends that this is more than one close friend. I’m a chick and have one very very close friend. I’m fine with that tho. Girls are mean and catty.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32373 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:47 pm to
I don’t “get” people who go through life without friends.

My wife and I have a pretty big social circle and I’m not super close to all of them, but I have 6 friends who I talk to almost daily.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
37437 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:48 pm to
This is what happens when you grow up on the internet. When your friends are only known to you through gamer tags, it’s tough to call them and have a serious conversation.

Get your boys off video games. Make him play team sports. Let him go be a boy, get dirty, break stuff, do dumb things.
This post was edited on 6/28/21 at 8:49 pm
Posted by CedarChest
South of Mejico
Member since Jun 2020
2773 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:48 pm to
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Probably because they can’t trust us with their wives and girlfriends.
Nah, they can't trust their wives and girlfriends with us.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10307 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:48 pm to
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Guys can have friends even if they are a-holes, frickups, lazy, poor
I didn’t realize someone was unworthy of friendship or love if they weren’t rich.
Posted by dirtytigers
225
Member since Dec 2014
2459 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:50 pm to
Ive got probably 10 friends I hang out with 1-2 times a week atleast and talk to daily.
This post was edited on 6/28/21 at 9:00 pm
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
48915 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:50 pm to
Also some people are introverted and don’t like to be around a lot of people. Nothing wrong with that.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48357 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:50 pm to
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I don’t “get” people who go through life without friends.

I have a handful of lifelong friends but only 1 lives within 200 miles of me and he's 45 minutes away and they have 5 kids. I probably hang out with my friends once every year or two.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10307 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:50 pm to
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I have 6 friends who I talk to almost daily.
That’s insane. How old are you? How much time do you work and spend with your wife?
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
37437 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:51 pm to
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didn’t realize someone was unworthy of friendship or love if they weren’t rich.


Just love interests, right?
This post was edited on 6/28/21 at 8:51 pm
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
37437 posts
Posted on 6/28/21 at 8:52 pm to
quote:

Also some people are introverted and don’t like to be around a lot of people. Nothing wrong with that.


I’m sick and tired of this trope. Introverted doesn’t mean antisocial. It simply means not needing to, or wanting to be in the center of everything.
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