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Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:47 pm
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:47 pm
I’m a stepdad, and my wife thinks I should refer to my stepson and stepdaughter as son and daughter. Do you refer to your stepchildren that way?
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Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:48 pm to TigerVespamon
It depends on how old they were when you took over, and the degree to which their biological father plays a role in their life.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:48 pm to TigerVespamon
I can’t speak for real life, but in the porn videos they do.
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Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:49 pm to TigerVespamon
I'm not in this situation but if it doesn't come natural don't do it but at some point it will.
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Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:49 pm to TigerVespamon
It depends on which pornhub channel you upload the videos.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:49 pm to TigerVespamon
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I’m a stepdad, and my wife thinks I should refer to my stepson and stepdaughter as son and daughter. Do you refer to your stepchildren that way?
What do the kids think?
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:50 pm to TigerVespamon
I’ve had a stepdad and stepmom for close to 18 years and that would weird me out unless someone just calls me their son. In that situation I don’t correct them just because it’s a common misconception.
I also think it’s weird if they say they ‘love you’ but it differs in every situation obviously.
FWIW, I like both of my stepparents
I also think it’s weird if they say they ‘love you’ but it differs in every situation obviously.
FWIW, I like both of my stepparents
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:50 pm to TigerVespamon
Yes, I made it a point to make him feel just as loved as my own son and it was easy, he’s a good kid.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:54 pm to TigerVespamon
As a dad, I don’t want any other man calling my kids their son or daughter. Or them calling another man dad.
I’m their dad. They don’t need another one.
I’m their dad. They don’t need another one.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:56 pm to TigerVespamon
Just don't ever forget she had their real daddy's dong in her mouth multiple times.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:56 pm to northshorebamaman
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What do the kids think?
I should have prefaced my OP with “when speaking to others about your stepchildren...”
I take great interest in them, and I take pride in their accomplishments, so sometimes I brag a little, but I always refer to them as stepson and stepdaughter.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 5:58 pm to fr33manator
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I’m their dad. They don’t need another one.
My brothers have not seen or heard from their father in over 30 years. My dad took over that role when they were really young, and they refer to him unequivocally as dad and he refers to them unequivocally as his sons. Like I said, the context of the role of the actual father is extremely important in the terminology used.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:02 pm to TigerVespamon
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I should have prefaced my OP with “when speaking to others about your stepchildren...”
Ok. I refer to my stepdaughter as my daughter but I've raised her since she was 2 and her biological father hasn't attempted contact in 16 years. It's highly dependent on the situation.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:02 pm to HempHead
If he’s a deadbeat sperm donor that ran out on them long ago that’s one thing. But if he’s in their lives and doing what he can it’s very disrespectful.
Every situation is different, sure. But if their real father is in the picture you won’t ever replace him
Every situation is different, sure. But if their real father is in the picture you won’t ever replace him
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:05 pm to TigerVespamon
its their place to lead, if they call you by name or stepdad then call them by name of step whatever
if they call you dad then call them son and/or daughter in return
if they are very young then by default i would call them son and/or daughter
if they call you dad then call them son and/or daughter in return
if they are very young then by default i would call them son and/or daughter
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:05 pm to fr33manator
Agreed. My folks have been split for a while, too, and I refer to my dad's wife exactly as that - she isn't even my stepmom. She is my dad's wife. We are friends and are very cool with each other, but she hasn't played any kind of motherly role at all for me.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:06 pm to TigerVespamon
I am a step kid to a step father, and if he ever did this it would be weird. Forced.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:06 pm to HempHead
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she isn't even my stepmom. She is my dad's wife.
My mom got remarried when I was 23. I like him but he's not my stepdad
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:08 pm to fallguy_1978
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My mom got remarried when I was 23. I like him but he's not my stepdad
Yeah, mine remarried when I was 38. He's just a cool guy with a boat to me.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:10 pm to TigerVespamon
If Dad is actively involved in life of the kids, then don't fall for her trap.
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