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re: Obsession (Curry Barker)

Posted on 8/20/26 at 3:57 pm to
Posted by moontigr
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 3:57 pm to
Just watched it, and liked it. Amazing performance by that actress - I’ll be pulling for her to win an Oscar.
Posted by wildtigercat93
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 4:13 pm to
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The most unbelievable thing in the movie might have been a guy like Ian casually hooking up with someone like Nikki over a long period of time


One of the more believable parts of the movie tbh.

Small town, close quarters in the record shop, and he’s got irrational confidence without being super hung up on her. Ian can definitely pull Nikki in those conditions.
Posted by moontigr
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 4:17 pm to
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Nicki reminded me of all the crazy count I dealt with in college


Yep 100%
Posted by NighthawkDawg
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 4:19 pm to
Yeah in a small college town these types of relationships were pretty damn common. Dudes just have some high confidence with decent looks and they can absolutely pull well out their league.

One of the crazier ones I saw was some skinny 5 foot 4 dude dating some 6 foot tall insanely hot goth girl. Good for him though
Posted by moontigr
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 4:27 pm to
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Nicki was a smoke show.


Am I the only one who was envious of Bear there for a while? When she climbed and his bed and took her top off, and in subsequent days when she was all up on him and he was taking her to pound town, I was definitely thinking was a lucky SOB
Posted by wildtigercat93
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 4:29 pm to
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Yeah in a small college town these types of relationships were pretty damn common. Dudes just have some high confidence with decent looks and they can absolutely pull well out their league.


Reminds me of the whole “typical SEC couple” memes








Posted by NighthawkDawg
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 4:34 pm to
Considering she was acting like she was insanely drunk or high as frick pretty sure that would be considered a felony
This post was edited on 8/20/26 at 4:35 pm
Posted by Alyosha
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 5:09 pm to
If he thought the wish was serious then sure. But he didn’t and it’s what surprised him. So your initial premise is wrong.
This post was edited on 8/20/26 at 5:15 pm
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 5:16 pm to
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he thought the wish was serious then sure. But he didn’t and it’s what surprised him. So your over initial analysis is wrong.


I mean he didn’t know it was real at first but he certainly knew at some point and never really tried to end the wish (even when he called the line he only wanted to alter the wish). He didn’t even try to do much to fix it until after Sarah was murdered in front of him.

Even if you give him the complete benefit of the doubt for the first couple days, she at the very least was not mentally stable


There’s no real way to slice it other than Bear being the villain at the end of the day. Even if the basis of his initial wish didn’t have bad intentions or didn’t think it was real, his resulting decisions did.
Posted by DoomGuy504
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 5:23 pm to
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Bear being the villain at the end of the day.


Just watched. Movie was great. Are there people that think he wasn't the villain? Yikes.
Posted by Alyosha
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 5:33 pm to
Bear is an accidental cause of a self-inflicted wound by “be careful of what you wish for”.

Is he limp wristed? Sure. Did he fumble in decision making to find resolution? Sure. But villain implies an intention to harm a hero. In this case there isn’t one except the demon.
Posted by Alyosha
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 5:43 pm to
If anyone really wants to do a deep dive, notice how the film defines love in the Greek Eros equating to obsession, rather than the agape love.
Posted by Madking
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 5:59 pm to
What’s the first thing he asks the customer service guy on the phone? He doesn’t want to release Nikki he wants to make it easier on himself to own her

What does he tell Nikki when her true self is able to speak to him in the bedroom? He isn’t interested in letting her go, he asks if her imprisonment is really that bad.

What does he do after the party when she harms herself? He's not worried about Nikki he, knows it’s not really even her, he just wants her to “be like Nikki”


Just because someone isn’t aggressively awful or physically abusive doesn’t mean they’re not evil. When you have responsibility over a life and you allow that life to come to harm or death because doing the right thing is inconvenient you’re evil. Letting a pet starve to death is evil even if you look pathetic about it after the fact.
Posted by moontigr
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 11:36 pm to
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Considering she was acting like she was insanely drunk or high as frick pretty sure that would be considered a felo


True, but she was quick to dispel his fears and assure him he had done nothing wrong
Posted by NighthawkDawg
Member since Jun 2026
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 11:48 pm to
Eh early on you could say sure she was fricked up the one night. But after the dinner scene at the very least she's clearly mentally unwell. So best not to take advantage of a mentally unstable person especially your friend/girl friend
Posted by NighthawkDawg
Member since Jun 2026
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Posted on 8/20/26 at 11:55 pm to
From the dinner scene on he absolutely knew something was wrong with Nikki whether it be black magic or something mentally unwell he knew she was off. Instead he kept taking advantage of her and only tried to fix it when the relationship was no longer working for him.

The entire movie is allegory for loss of body autonomy and rape. Bear may have not started as nothing more than a dude who sucked with women but ended as a massive piece of shite
Posted by moontigr
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Posted on 8/21/26 at 10:23 am to
Yeah, you’re right.

I was still envious though
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