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Payment for fertility treatments
Posted on 7/22/26 at 5:25 pm
Posted on 7/22/26 at 5:25 pm
Need some advice MB.
Wife and I are having to do IVF which is a bummer and super expensive.
Total cost is around 30k for 1 round.
My question is, we have the cash to pay for this upfront. We are blessed at the moment, but what is the most strategic way to go about it?
I can put this on my CC and get points and pay it off in full. But is there another way to go about this?
The financing they are offering isn’t great and it may actually delay things because we would have to get approved (no issues there).
Wife and I are having to do IVF which is a bummer and super expensive.
Total cost is around 30k for 1 round.
My question is, we have the cash to pay for this upfront. We are blessed at the moment, but what is the most strategic way to go about it?
I can put this on my CC and get points and pay it off in full. But is there another way to go about this?
The financing they are offering isn’t great and it may actually delay things because we would have to get approved (no issues there).
Posted on 7/22/26 at 5:32 pm to Yaboylsu63
My wife and I are in your position. We paid it in full to get CC points. We heard the same points about financing.
Best wishes to you and your wife.
Best wishes to you and your wife.
Posted on 7/22/26 at 5:38 pm to rpr4695
Not to be weird but wish we could go get a beer and talk. This has been a whirlwind and just trying to figure this out.
Posted on 7/22/26 at 5:51 pm to Yaboylsu63
Yall need some good sperm Baw?
Posted on 7/22/26 at 5:52 pm to Yaboylsu63
Money well spent. You won't miss the $ decades from now. Best of luck with the process and stress along the way. You're not alone, people just dont talk much about it.
Are the funds currently in cash or invested elsewhere? My only suggestion would be if you have the funds invested and want to keep them deployed, it may be possible to borrow using a SBLOC. You'd accrue interest but still get potential for growth and delay paying tax you'd realize by selling assets. Of course, there's margin risk if you have insufficient collateral.
Are the funds currently in cash or invested elsewhere? My only suggestion would be if you have the funds invested and want to keep them deployed, it may be possible to borrow using a SBLOC. You'd accrue interest but still get potential for growth and delay paying tax you'd realize by selling assets. Of course, there's margin risk if you have insufficient collateral.
Posted on 7/22/26 at 5:53 pm to TorchtheFlyingTiger
Funds are in cash, so liquidity isn’t the issue.
Just trying to be smart is all.
Just trying to be smart is all.
Posted on 7/22/26 at 5:53 pm to TorchtheFlyingTiger
Dumb question. Does insurance not cover anything when it comes to IVF?
Posted on 7/22/26 at 5:54 pm to Yaboylsu63
quote:yall should talk and maybe get a room
wish we could go get a beer and talk.
No wonder y’all’s ol lady ain’t coming up pregnant…. Sheesh
Posted on 7/22/26 at 5:55 pm to Yaboylsu63
Send me an email (rpr4695@gmail.com). I'm in HTX but I'm always happy to talk and give any advice I can. This is a hard process for you both but it'll make your relationship stronger.
Posted on 7/22/26 at 5:55 pm to Yaboylsu63
Been there. We paid it upfront on the CC
Best money I ever spent. Got bogo twins out of it 2nd time through
Best money I ever spent. Got bogo twins out of it 2nd time through
Posted on 7/22/26 at 6:25 pm to SuperSaint
quote:
yall should talk and maybe get a room No wonder y’all’s ol lady ain’t coming up pregnant…. Sheesh
Not gonna make a big deal of this, but this shits not easy and you’re an a-hole for this comment.
Posted on 7/22/26 at 6:31 pm to Yaboylsu63
quote:because it isn’t
Not gonna make a big deal of this,
quote:we can agree on that, are you new to the OT
you’re an a-hole for this comment.
Posted on 7/22/26 at 6:45 pm to SuperSaint
Go back to the OT where tou belong 
Posted on 7/22/26 at 6:50 pm to Yaboylsu63
There are IVF grants and programs to reduce related prescription costs. I dont recall looking into them much and if we ruled it out or were just unaware and overwhelmed. You may not be able to qualify without a demonstrated financial need but cant hurt to ask.
Posted on 7/22/26 at 7:18 pm to Yaboylsu63
I'll pray for you brother. Be there for your wife. She'll need you.
We had cash as well but We found 4 credit cards that had different points system and 1 that had a cash back first purchase. This was 2020.
Pray to St. Gerard for guidance
We had cash as well but We found 4 credit cards that had different points system and 1 that had a cash back first purchase. This was 2020.
Pray to St. Gerard for guidance
Posted on 7/22/26 at 7:20 pm to Yaboylsu63
You can email and we can communicate further. I'll set up a Gmail so no one gets my real one 
Posted on 7/22/26 at 7:32 pm to LSURoss
There’s a handful of companies offering financing at point of sale
Can also look at traditional unsecured financing from some of the big players
Can also look at traditional unsecured financing from some of the big players
Posted on 7/22/26 at 8:00 pm to Yaboylsu63
If you have the cash, I'd avoid financing unless it's a true 0% offer. First ask the clinic whether they charge a fee for credit cards. If there's no fee, I'd put it on a rewards card and pay it off immediately for the points. If there is a 3% processing fee, you're usually better off paying by ACH/check unless they're offering a discount or you're hitting a huge sign-up bonus that's worth more than the fee. Also check whether any portion is HSA/FSA eligible and whether they offer a cash-pay discount. From a purely financial standpoint, that's generally the highest-value approach while avoiding interest. Best wishes to you, IVF is emotionally and financially demanding, and I hope everything goes well.
Posted on 7/22/26 at 8:04 pm to SuperSaint
quote:your first comment was funny, but this is just weird wtf.
yall should talk and maybe get a room
No wonder y’all’s ol lady ain’t coming up pregnant…. Sheesh
Eta: oh this was an OT thread initially
This post was edited on 7/22/26 at 8:07 pm
Posted on 7/22/26 at 8:46 pm to TorchtheFlyingTiger
shite I thought this was on the OT. Did it get moved?
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