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re: How do you control temper?

Posted on 5/30/18 at 9:32 am to
Posted by Eric Stratton
Faber College
Member since Mar 2015
2049 posts
Posted on 5/30/18 at 9:32 am to
Whenever you find out the answer, let me know.
Posted by Placebeaux
Bobby Fischer Fan Club President
Member since Jun 2008
51852 posts
Posted on 5/30/18 at 11:13 am to
Just dance and crack a tasteless joke.
Posted by Tigah Jr
The Stick
Member since Oct 2011
846 posts
Posted on 5/30/18 at 5:26 pm to
Alcohol...lots of alcohol.
Posted by COTiger
Colorado
Member since Dec 2007
16842 posts
Posted on 5/30/18 at 5:48 pm to
I played for 40+ years. I played with a pissed off attitude most of those years. I don't know what happened, but the light came on and I began to enjoy playing. Less temper outbursts, less thrown clubs, and better medical tests results for blood pressure etc.

I finally convinced myself that bad shots were going to happen. Forget it and move on. My scores improved so did my attitude
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 10:30 am to
Getting rid of awful shot


Not necessarily same as dealing with fear and Anger.

You can learn and change technical shot issues.

You can learn to master and even use emotions.

Why not both?

In this case the sport becomes your means to self mastery.

I'm guessing there are a few books on golf with the words Zen.or mastery in them.

Key: the breath is senior to the emotions. The implication is that when you even out your breath you can rebalance After anger or fear takes over.

Last but not least. Humor is freedom from the necessity of any "condition", High or low.

There are dozens of threads addressing every kind of bad shot.



This post was edited on 5/31/18 at 10:32 am
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
15829 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 6:54 pm to
Played 36 today.

43,48,41,40

Did not swear or curse once.

Had a stretch of really bad holes and just kept going.

I lowered my expectations.

I feel better and did not embarrass myself.
Posted by nycajun
Nothin' could be finer.....
Member since Dec 2004
18183 posts
Posted on 6/1/18 at 5:24 am to
quote:

I just want to get rid of the truly awful shot.


Spend 4 hours (not more than 1 hour at a time) on the practice range, at least one if them with a good teaching pro, for every hour you spend playing. If you don't have the time, focus or discipline to do this, then acknowledge to yourself that you won't get much better and learn to enjoy the things about playing that are enjoyable and shrug off the things that aren't
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117700 posts
Posted on 6/1/18 at 6:18 am to
Anger is a sign of stupidity.

Posted by herbstreit4
Buckeye Lake
Member since Dec 2007
1710 posts
Posted on 6/1/18 at 6:45 am to
I'm average at best (6.6 on the GHIN) I use to lose my shite sometimes. Once tore the bill off my hat after 3 consecutive OBs on the same tee haha
Best advice I ever got was from a guy I play with a lot that is a +1

"You have to lower your expectations"

I did and I enjoy the game a whole hell of a lot more now
Posted by mule74
Watersound Beach
Member since Nov 2004
11299 posts
Posted on 6/2/18 at 8:34 am to
Reflecting on the fact that you have the free time and money to chase a little white ball around a giant piece of land for hours each week should do the trick.
Posted by CBandits82
Lurker since May 2008
Member since May 2012
54092 posts
Posted on 6/3/18 at 3:20 pm to
at the end of the day golf is hard as frick.

I mean we are trying to put a little ball in a tiny hole over 400 yards away with shite evwrywhere.

Golf is hard as hell.

that's how you handle temper
Posted by CBandits82
Lurker since May 2008
Member since May 2012
54092 posts
Posted on 6/3/18 at 3:23 pm to
quote:

By realizing that even the pros, who play golf for a living, hit bad shots too.




this.

you have pros who practice 10 hours a day hit it all over the yard sometimes.

the game is hard has hell.
Posted by CBandits82
Lurker since May 2008
Member since May 2012
54092 posts
Posted on 6/3/18 at 3:26 pm to
quote:

Tiger Woods in his prime said he may only hit 4-5 perfect shots a tournament. Think about that, the best of all time only hit 4-5 perfect golf shots out of around 270 shots over a weekend. 

You are going to hit bad shots, minimize your big numbers and improve your short game and it will get easier.


it's a game of misses not great shots.

a lot of golfers don't realize that.

Golf is a game of misses.
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
15829 posts
Posted on 6/3/18 at 8:00 pm to
45 holes in a row with no swear words or anger.

birdies, pars, triples, I made some of each.

I am at peace with my golf.

It is mostly mediocre; sometimes awful and sometimes brilliant.

I am grateful to be healthy enough to walk 36 holes yesterday in the heat.


Posted by OceanMan
Member since Mar 2010
20019 posts
Posted on 6/3/18 at 9:16 pm to
I hit enough bad shots that if I let it mess with me than I wouldn’t play
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
29386 posts
Posted on 6/4/18 at 6:27 am to
Personally any time I get aggravated I remember I could be working instead of on the golf course.

It’s a game and you should enjoy playing it.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103065 posts
Posted on 6/4/18 at 10:40 am to
I stopped caring about the score. I only care about how hard I hit each shot. My goal is to hit each club as far as humanly possible. The purest form of freedom.
Posted by LSUcdro
Republic of West Florida
Member since Sep 2009
11126 posts
Posted on 6/4/18 at 12:53 pm to
I don't play every shot like Im in a tournament with a million dollar purse
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 6/4/18 at 3:21 pm to
Only time I get really mad is if I skull or duff an easy chip because I wasn’t concentrating. That infuriates me.

Tee-to-green it appears I should be about a 3 or 4 handicap. My chipping makes it look like I’m a beginner at times even though I’ve played my whole life. I control my anger by laughing at myself and moving on. I’ve gotten better at this with age.
Posted by Corch Urban Myers
Columbus, OH
Member since Jul 2009
5993 posts
Posted on 6/4/18 at 8:00 pm to
Xanax
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