- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Coaching Changes
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message
re: Had to cuss out a hostess
Posted on 4/20/22 at 8:09 am to mmmmmbeeer
Posted on 4/20/22 at 8:09 am to mmmmmbeeer
quote:
I don't feel bad, at all. Nor should I
Can't believe your dumb arse came back to this thread just to post crap like this.
quote:
The point of the post was to perhaps spur others to share stories of bad experiences at restaurants, restaurants displaying incredible incompetence, but nah...TD gonna TD.
Do a-hole things, get called an a-hole.
Posted on 4/20/22 at 8:11 am to mmmmmbeeer
quote:
As far as dropping an Fbomb on the hostess, I don't feel bad, at all. Nor should I. The point of the post was to perhaps spur others to share stories of bad experiences at restaurants, restaurants displaying incredible incompetence, but nah...TD gonna TD.
Comes to TD to brag about cussing at an 18yo girl.
Gets mad at TD for not patting him on the back for being an a-hole
Posted on 4/20/22 at 8:11 am to mmmmmbeeer
You’re setting up a horrible example for your wife’s son
Posted on 4/20/22 at 8:41 am to mmmmmbeeer
quote:
As far as dropping an Fbomb on the hostess, I don't feel bad, at all. Nor should I.
You really should, though.
Posted on 4/20/22 at 9:20 am to mmmmmbeeer
quote:
I told her what I thought about the way she was doing her job and how her inability to do her job cost 8 people an hour on a Saturday night. Head chef happened to be walking by and asked what was going on. He half-heartedly agreed with me, apologized for being out of food, and walked away saying he hopes we come back.
I'm completely in the right thinking this hostess screwed up, right? If not her, then it was the chef for not telling her? Either way, not cool.
Why is it the hostesses job to inform patrons what's available regarding the menu?
quote:
Definition of hostess
1: a woman who entertains socially
2:
a: a woman in charge of a public dining room who seats diners
b: a female employee on a public conveyance (such as an airplane) who manages the provisioning of food and attends passengers
c: a woman who acts as a partner or companion to male patrons in a dance hall or bar
LINK
Her job is to take your name and information down and promptly seat you once your table is available. The waiter or waitress is more or less responsible of informing you of the menu, what is and isn't available, the daily specials, and so forth.
Your grievances are directed towards the wrong person. For instance, do you "cuss out" the office receptionist that answers the phone and offers you a coffee or water when the office professional informs you that he or she cannot handle or perform the services you are requesting?
Posted on 4/20/22 at 9:37 am to mmmmmbeeer
quote:
The point of the post was to perhaps spur others to share stories of bad experiences at restaurants, restaurants displaying incredible incompetence
Even in the few times I have encountered incompetence or rudeness from a restaurant employee (and honestly I can't even remember the last time), I never lowered myself to curse out the hostess (of all people) as I tucked tail and left the restaurant.
Your passive aggressive, cowardly action is getting called out here and deservedly so.
quote:
but nah...TD gonna TD.
A rare time this website has gotten it right.
Posted on 4/20/22 at 9:42 am to LSUZombie
quote:
Your passive aggressive, cowardly action is getting called out here and deservedly so.
It's a lot easier to act big and tough to a young girl than it is to another man
Posted on 4/20/22 at 9:53 am to mmmmmbeeer
quote:
As far as dropping an Fbomb on the hostess, I don't feel bad, at all. Nor should I.
Wow. Just wow.
quote:
The point of the post was to perhaps spur others to share stories of bad experiences at restaurants, restaurants displaying incredible incompetence, but nah...TD gonna TD.
I don't believe you on this.
quote:
I'm completely in the right thinking this hostess screwed up, right? If not her, then it was the chef for not telling her? Either way, not cool.
This is what you posted and you've gotten answers.
Why was an F bomb necessary regardless of to whom you were addressing? Answer: It wasn't. There are adult ways to express disappointment reasonably.
Posted on 4/20/22 at 10:16 am to Gris Gris
quote:
I don't believe you on this
Don't because he is full of crap.
Coming back and doubling down on F bombing a hostess just cements his pos self
Posted on 4/20/22 at 10:40 am to mmmmmbeeer
quote:
mmmmmbeeer
Your posts in this thread make you seem like a trashy, dimwitted jackass.
Posted on 4/20/22 at 10:52 am to mmmmmbeeer
quote:
As far as dropping an Fbomb on the hostess, I don't feel bad, at all. Nor should I.
So they told you ahead of time it was going to be a long wait and you have had other good experiences there. It is more on the manager that there was little communication regarding what they were out of, not the hostess.
But regardless, cussing out an hourly employee and speaking down to them is never acceptable and you're a POS for that.
I also own a business thats in a service industry. We would have had a manager speak to you directly and apologize for any mistakes made. But the moment you demean an employee and cuss them out, we would politely advise you that we would no longer accept your business moving forward.
You weren't harmed in any way, no one insulted you, and nothing happened that remotely justifies cussing out anyone out. You were slightly inconvenienced at most.
Posted on 4/20/22 at 11:16 am to Deactived
quote:
Coming back and doubling down on F bombing a hostess just cements his pos self
It was rather stunning to read that post. I certainly wouldn't be proud of myself. Thinking about it makes me cringe.
I agree with More Beer. I am also in the service industry and once a customer starts with the cussing, he or she is no longer wanted as a customer, right or wrong. It completely discounts that person.
ETA: These days it's constantly amazing that people feel so entitled to abusive behavior for the smallest inconveniences. It's discouraging and depressing. I don't need business so badly that I would allow my employees or even myself to be treated in the fashion in which the OP treated the hostess.
This post was edited on 4/20/22 at 11:21 am
Posted on 4/20/22 at 12:04 pm to mmmmmbeeer
Sounds like a shitty restaurant and people with shitty tastes and a shitty attitude. frick you, sir.
Posted on 4/20/22 at 12:20 pm to MusclesofBrussels
quote:
Your posts in this thread make you seem like a trashy, dimwitted jackass.
His posts in every thread do that as well
Posted on 4/20/22 at 12:27 pm to mmmmmbeeer
quote:
As far as dropping an Fbomb on the hostess, I don't feel bad, at all. Nor should I.
This has to be a troll. I struggle to believe that someone can be such a prick. If it isn’t, I feel bad for your family. You should be ashamed.
Posted on 4/20/22 at 12:38 pm to 22jctiger22
I’m starting to think he’s trolling too.
Posted on 4/20/22 at 1:13 pm to mmmmmbeeer
Maybe they had some of those items when you originally arrived, but ran out while you were waiting?
So the minimum wage, high school aged, hostess is supposed to keep all waiting parties continuously informed of everything going on in the kitchen?
Please stop going out to restaurants. People like you don't deserve to be waited on.
So the minimum wage, high school aged, hostess is supposed to keep all waiting parties continuously informed of everything going on in the kitchen?
Please stop going out to restaurants. People like you don't deserve to be waited on.
Posted on 4/20/22 at 1:14 pm to hehatedrew
quote:
I’m starting to think he’s trolling too.
I hope so.
We need more heels on the board.
Posted on 4/20/22 at 1:26 pm to 22jctiger22
quote:
I struggle to believe that someone can be such a prick
It doesn't take much. I do not receive the classiest clientele but the low class types only have two things: their mouth or their fists
Popular
Back to top


0










