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How Would OT Have Handled?
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:53 pm
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:53 pm
Met a chick a couple of weeks ago. Been on 3 dates. She checks all the boxes.
This week she went on vacation to visit family/friends in North Carolina. There is a strong enough level of attraction that I do miss her, but have been giving her space.
Earlier tonight she texted and volunteered she is getting ready for dinner and will be staying at her friend Lisa's house for the night. I texted back "In the future just say you cant talk tonight. No sense in hinting at it when you know you wont be able to talk. Enjoy your evening."
She immediately calls and is pissed off. Tells me I am being pissy about her vacation. Tells me she has called me yesterday and today, but I never answered or called her back. My response was that she needs to be direct. In other words, if she is going to go frick another guy then just tell me so I can move on.
I really like this chick, but her volunteering an excuse for why she wont be available to talk later tells me she isnt exactly being honest. More than likely she is going to be getting railed by some dude she knew in high school or college.
Should I just end it?
This week she went on vacation to visit family/friends in North Carolina. There is a strong enough level of attraction that I do miss her, but have been giving her space.
Earlier tonight she texted and volunteered she is getting ready for dinner and will be staying at her friend Lisa's house for the night. I texted back "In the future just say you cant talk tonight. No sense in hinting at it when you know you wont be able to talk. Enjoy your evening."
She immediately calls and is pissed off. Tells me I am being pissy about her vacation. Tells me she has called me yesterday and today, but I never answered or called her back. My response was that she needs to be direct. In other words, if she is going to go frick another guy then just tell me so I can move on.
I really like this chick, but her volunteering an excuse for why she wont be available to talk later tells me she isnt exactly being honest. More than likely she is going to be getting railed by some dude she knew in high school or college.
Should I just end it?
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Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:55 pm to BayouCatFan
Why were you so insecure that you had to text that to her?
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:55 pm to BayouCatFan
You have come to the right place.
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:55 pm to BayouCatFan
without any other details, it kinda sounds like she was just telling you what she was doing
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:55 pm to BayouCatFan
Seems like you are a stage 5 clinger
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:56 pm to BayouCatFan
You seems extremely insecure. Why say that? Be cool about it, say no problem, talk to you later.
This post was edited on 7/25/21 at 6:57 pm
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:56 pm to BayouCatFan
quote:She already did, you just don’t know it yet
Should I just end it?
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:57 pm to BayouCatFan
quote:
"In the future just say you cant talk tonight. No sense in hinting at it when you know you wont be able to talk. Enjoy your evening."
Chick trying to have a conversation and you melt.
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:57 pm to BayouCatFan
quote:
I texted back "In the future just say you cant talk tonight. No sense in hinting at it when you know you wont be able to talk. Enjoy your evening."
She immediately calls and is pissed off. Tells me I am being pissy about her vacation. Tells me she has called me yesterday and today, but I never answered or called her back. My response was that she needs to be direct. In other words, if she is going to go frick another guy then just tell me so I can move on.
Dude you sound like an insecure little bitch
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:57 pm to BayouCatFan
Overthinking shite will always get you in a jackpot.
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:57 pm to BayouCatFan
quote:
I really like this chick, but her volunteering an excuse for why she wont be available to talk later tells me she isnt exactly being honest.
If you’re insecure just say it. She’s probably just hanging out and isn’t gonna be around her phone. I do the same for LSU games. She’s letting you know ahead of time so you wouldn’t get pissed.
Either that or Jodys getting his.
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:57 pm to BayouCatFan
quote:
the future just say you cant talk tonight. No sense in hinting at it when you know you wont be able to talk. Enjoy your evening."
Umm, that was dumb af.
You will be difficult and she should run.
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:58 pm to BayouCatFan
I don't think you are going to have to end it.
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:58 pm to diat150
Are you mental? An easy “hope y’all have a good time” would have sufficed.
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:58 pm to BayouCatFan
You’re acting like a psycho.
And you obviously have serious issues, holy shite man
And you obviously have serious issues, holy shite man
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:58 pm to BayouCatFan
Seriously Bayou. How old are you? Not trolling
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:59 pm to BayouCatFan
Where did she say she wouldn’t be able to talk? You ruined it. Congratulations.
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:59 pm to BayouCatFan
Dude… she was just being considerate and you’re fricking it all up by reading into it and being insecure.
Also, don’t EVER read into the sentiment/inflection from a text message… kudos to her for calling to clarify.
Don’t be dumb.
Also, don’t EVER read into the sentiment/inflection from a text message… kudos to her for calling to clarify.
Don’t be dumb.
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:59 pm to BayouCatFan
quote:box check fail..
She checks all the boxes.
This week she went on vacation to visit family/friends in North Carolina.
Posted on 7/25/21 at 6:59 pm to BayouCatFan
quote:
I texted back "In the future just say you cant talk tonight. No sense in hinting at it when you know you wont be able to talk. Enjoy your evening."
Stage ten clinger shite right there
This post was edited on 7/25/21 at 7:00 pm
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