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So, dilemma with a woman

Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:26 pm
Posted by TheCurmudgeon
Not where I want to be
Member since Aug 2014
1481 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:26 pm
Go to one of my buddy's kid's HS graduation crawfish boil Saturday. I've known him casually for a few years, but last 6 months or so we've been hanging out more as he started playing guitar so I've been giving him some lessons and he's been coming to our weekly jam session.

Tall pretty blonde, straight up my type, is there. (I know the rules but no pics). No ring on her finger, so I start chatting her up. We hit if off, lots of positive body language, yada yada.

Ask him later who she was, he says "My ex-wife". It hits like a record scratch and freeze frame in a movie: I realize then that I've heard her name before, just had not met her as she runs in a different social group.

She seems to be relationship material. Smart, funny, confident, makes a good living. Damn good looking. Is this a Guy Code thing, do I talk to him before pursuing her, or what?
Posted by Ronaldo Burgundiaz
NWA
Member since Jan 2012
6745 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:28 pm to
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Tall pretty blonde, straight up my type
Need bob pics
Posted by Herschal
Land of the Free
Member since Sep 2011
2107 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:29 pm to
Really going to be hard to help you in your dilemma without pics.
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
21436 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:30 pm to
If you have to ask...
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
7889 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:30 pm to
he wont mind one single bit
Posted by TidenUP
Coden, AL
Member since Apr 2011
14655 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:30 pm to
How close of a friend is he and do you want to keep that friendship?
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
106078 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:31 pm to
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Ask him later who she was, he says "My ex-wife".


Walk away. It's not worth the bullshite you're going to endure over this if you pursue.
Posted by TheWalrus
Land of the Hogs
Member since Dec 2012
46135 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:32 pm to
She’s his ex for a reason, probably batshit crazy.
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
12818 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:32 pm to
Just have sex with your guy friend and everybody wins
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
153956 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:32 pm to
Man Code says you take poon whenever you can and a true friend will not block you
Posted by Traveler
I'm not late-I'm early for tomorrow
Member since Sep 2003
26134 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:33 pm to
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Smart, funny, confident, makes a good living. Damn good looking.

Same thing your buddy thought at one time.
Posted by V Bainbridge
Member since Jul 2020
8089 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:34 pm to
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Ask him later who she was, he says "My ex-wife"

quote:

She seems to be relationship material

Logic isn't your strong suit eh?
Posted by hombreman9
USA
Member since Feb 2009
3781 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:35 pm to
Remind me in two weeks
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64012 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:37 pm to
quote:

She seems to be relationship material. Smart, funny, confident, makes a good living. Damn good looking. Is this a Guy Code thing, do I talk to him before pursuing her, or what?


She's his ex- wife for a reason baw. Don't let her suck you into the same trap.
Posted by JustLivinTheDream
Member since Jan 2017
3580 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:37 pm to
Your buddy's gay and wouldn't bang his ex-wife the way she wanted. I trust you know what to do.
Posted by speechles
Member since Jan 2013
1358 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:38 pm to
She’s the ex-wife and they still hang around at the same functions ? He’s probably still hitting it
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
37570 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:38 pm to
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I've known him casually for a few years


She’s fair game bro.
You can tell him but I wouldn’t ask him.
This post was edited on 5/10/21 at 8:39 pm
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133226 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:38 pm to
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. Is this a Guy Code thing,


It’s definitely a guy code thing...but if she’s just hanging around...did they have kids together? I’m guessing so.

Tread lightly
Posted by Ellis Dee
G-Lane aka Pakistan
Member since Nov 2013
7045 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:38 pm to
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no pics


no advice
Posted by Bigfishchoupique
Member since Jul 2017
9460 posts
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:39 pm to
You want to sleep with him or her? If it is her,I would take it up with her.
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