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So, dilemma with a woman
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:26 pm
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:26 pm
Go to one of my buddy's kid's HS graduation crawfish boil Saturday. I've known him casually for a few years, but last 6 months or so we've been hanging out more as he started playing guitar so I've been giving him some lessons and he's been coming to our weekly jam session.
Tall pretty blonde, straight up my type, is there. (I know the rules but no pics). No ring on her finger, so I start chatting her up. We hit if off, lots of positive body language, yada yada.
Ask him later who she was, he says "My ex-wife". It hits like a record scratch and freeze frame in a movie: I realize then that I've heard her name before, just had not met her as she runs in a different social group.
She seems to be relationship material. Smart, funny, confident, makes a good living. Damn good looking. Is this a Guy Code thing, do I talk to him before pursuing her, or what?
Tall pretty blonde, straight up my type, is there. (I know the rules but no pics). No ring on her finger, so I start chatting her up. We hit if off, lots of positive body language, yada yada.
Ask him later who she was, he says "My ex-wife". It hits like a record scratch and freeze frame in a movie: I realize then that I've heard her name before, just had not met her as she runs in a different social group.
She seems to be relationship material. Smart, funny, confident, makes a good living. Damn good looking. Is this a Guy Code thing, do I talk to him before pursuing her, or what?
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:28 pm to TheCurmudgeon
quote:Need bob pics
Tall pretty blonde, straight up my type
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:29 pm to TheCurmudgeon
Really going to be hard to help you in your dilemma without pics.
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:30 pm to TheCurmudgeon
If you have to ask...
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:30 pm to TheCurmudgeon
he wont mind one single bit
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:30 pm to TheCurmudgeon
How close of a friend is he and do you want to keep that friendship?
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:31 pm to TheCurmudgeon
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Ask him later who she was, he says "My ex-wife".
Walk away. It's not worth the bullshite you're going to endure over this if you pursue.
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:32 pm to TheCurmudgeon
She’s his ex for a reason, probably batshit crazy.
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:32 pm to TheCurmudgeon
Just have sex with your guy friend and everybody wins
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:32 pm to TheCurmudgeon
Man Code says you take poon whenever you can and a true friend will not block you
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:33 pm to TheCurmudgeon
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Smart, funny, confident, makes a good living. Damn good looking.
Same thing your buddy thought at one time.
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:34 pm to TheCurmudgeon
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Ask him later who she was, he says "My ex-wife"
quote:
She seems to be relationship material
Logic isn't your strong suit eh?
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:35 pm to TheCurmudgeon
Remind me in two weeks
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:37 pm to TheCurmudgeon
quote:
She seems to be relationship material. Smart, funny, confident, makes a good living. Damn good looking. Is this a Guy Code thing, do I talk to him before pursuing her, or what?
She's his ex- wife for a reason baw. Don't let her suck you into the same trap.
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:37 pm to TheCurmudgeon
Your buddy's gay and wouldn't bang his ex-wife the way she wanted. I trust you know what to do.
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:38 pm to TheCurmudgeon
She’s the ex-wife and they still hang around at the same functions ? He’s probably still hitting it
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:38 pm to TheCurmudgeon
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I've known him casually for a few years
She’s fair game bro.
You can tell him but I wouldn’t ask him.
This post was edited on 5/10/21 at 8:39 pm
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:38 pm to TheCurmudgeon
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. Is this a Guy Code thing,
It’s definitely a guy code thing...but if she’s just hanging around...did they have kids together? I’m guessing so.
Tread lightly
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:38 pm to TheCurmudgeon
quote:
no pics
no advice
Posted on 5/10/21 at 8:39 pm to TheCurmudgeon
You want to sleep with him or her? If it is her,I would take it up with her.
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