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The Decision To Return For BSME At 30

Posted on 9/29/20 at 11:48 am
Posted by Booskee
Assumption Parish
Member since Aug 2020
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Posted on 9/29/20 at 11:48 am
I have been thinking, researching, praying, debating internally for a long time now about returning to school (online) for a BSME. As a 30 year old with a one year old child and supporting wife, I know I can do this, but the question is how much time per week will I sacrifice? I’m looking to take 3 classes a semester. Working 40 hours a week with 3 classes a semester, will I miss out on six-seven years of my son’s life? For those who have been there, am I looking at no life until this is done, or would I be able to have one day on the weekends for the family if I manage my time?

Thanks in advance, this board has been very helpful in many ways. I know there are some Mechanical Engineer graduates here that can share their experience.
Posted by LazloHollyfeld
Steam Tunnel at UNC-G
Member since Apr 2009
1616 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 11:55 am to
the welding certificate is only 6 months long. Heard el gaucho needs an apprentice.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 12:15 pm to
quote:

Working 40 hours a week with 3 classes a semester,
Eeesh
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
9774 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 12:28 pm to
Do you already have a degree in something else?
Posted by Catahoula20LSU
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2011
2146 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 1:14 pm to
We had three guys that did this when I was at LSU. All three graduated. It will take you an extra year or two. It is doable. Two of them were plant baws. One had young kids. He set aside family time each day. Good luck

Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
53491 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 1:24 pm to
At 30 it’s too late to start over time to give up on your crazy dreams and get a real job
Posted by diddyMax
St. George
Member since Jun 2020
219 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 1:45 pm to
I'm not a ME but I'm familiar going back to school for engineering in my mid 30s. It's not easy. If you had some gen ed classes, chances are they count jack shite towards a degree. Maybe a couple of your humanities will be taken care of.

You will not even start out knocking out required courses. I had to take two semesters of pre-calculus just to get to calc I. I was so mad that I was forced to do it, but by the time I was taking physics and calc II I was glad they made me. So be prepared for that added to your timeline.

It will take extraordinary willpower and commitment to finish this if you have a kid. Ask yourself if you are willing to go all the way, truly. Because when you're doing problem sets for 8-12 hours for physics/statics etc. it's not as easy as just believing your diploma into existence.
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
20979 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 1:45 pm to
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Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
5069 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 1:57 pm to
7Years and miss time you'll never get back w/ your son to be a Plant Baw



Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10340 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 1:58 pm to
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online) for a BSME.
I dated a guy in his late 20’s who did the ME program on campus and didn’t work as his dad paid all of his bills and that program was still very tough. He had to take Adderall just to pass the toughest classes, and he didn’t have a young family. I can’t imagine doing it online.
Posted by The Goon
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Nov 2008
1254 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 2:01 pm to
I did it at 25, married, and worked 20 hours a week to keep up with bills.

Your first 5 years out of college, expect to make around 75k, and with 5 years in you can make it up to 100k.

Mechanical is no joke at LSU. I’d also consider Lafayette as it might be easier and you will stand out with a higher GPA. Nobody gives a frick where your degree is from as long as it’s ABET and you have above a 3.0, preferably 3.2.

Being 30, get your PE afterwards ASAP. You’ll stand out later in your career.

Don’t believe the bullshite, LSU does not have any better ME program than other schools. The labs might be shinier and better marketing material, but you are just $$$ to LSU. You’re going to teach yourself the material wherever you go.

The best advice I can give you is expect nothing from the teachers and learn everything yourself. If you find one professor that might actually try to give a frick, that’s lagniappe. Do all the HW problems twice.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56685 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 2:05 pm to
30 is young, you won't miss out on your kids life. You will live your life normally and work like a demon when the kid is at daycare or asleep.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
31802 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 2:11 pm to
quote:

I have been thinking, researching, praying, debating internally for a long time now about returning to school (online) for a BSME. As a 30 year old with a one year old child and supporting wife, I know I can do this, but the question is how much time per week will I sacrifice? I’m looking to take 3 classes a semester. Working 40 hours a week with 3 classes a semester, will I miss out on six-seven years of my son’s life? For those who have been there, am I looking at no life until this is done, or would I be able to have one day on the weekends for the family if I manage my time?

Thanks in advance, this board has been very helpful in many ways. I know there are some Mechanical Engineer graduates here that can share their experience.


I did Civil starting at 27 while working full time and getting married the first semester. By the time i finished at 32, I had young boys. I built a house during second semester an I did a lot of the work. I would go to work at 6, would leave for classes I had during the day, go back until 6 or so at night. Worked on Saturdays when needed to get my work done. When building, I would go work at the house until 11 or so and then go sleep.

You can do it and its not that bad. You have to prioritize and you need to take summer courses. Dont make it take 6-7 years, take 12 hours a semester and 3 in each intersession.

It can be done, I did it. Pay attention in class and take good notes. review the notes after each class.

Its really not that hard if you treat it like a second full time job. If you go in and half arse it, its going to eat you alive and you will flunk out by the time you reach statics or dynamics. Fluids and thermo will destroy you. Treat it like a second job and you will smoke those class.

Choice is yours.
Posted by Tigercowboy
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2007
4134 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 2:56 pm to
I am in the same boat. Starting next fall in my 30s witha 3 year old... I do have the GI Bill so Student loans will not be an issue. My wife is graduating in May. It was our plan when we separated from the military that I would work while she finished school and then switch as soon as she finds a job. Best of luck to you!
Posted by thadcastle
Member since Dec 2019
2631 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 2:59 pm to
Honestly a lot of the sacrifice and time spent will depend on how book smart you are. Some people really have to work their arse off other people find engineering school pretty easy. If you are really smart 2 hours of extra work a day and you would be fine. If you struggle to grasp some of the concepts and apply them it could be a very hard and difficult road. So this answer truly depends from person to person.
Posted by GeauxDoc
Highland Road
Member since Sep 2010
2562 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:00 pm to
I don't think being 30 should be a rate limiter. I went back to med school at 28 married (no pics) with kids. Lots of good advice here about the work load and difficulty for you to consider. One way to think about it is that if it takes you 6 years to finish you'll be 36 years old. The question is...how old will you be in 6 years if you don't go for it? I'm sure you'll make the best choice for you and your family. I wish you luck.
Posted by ABucks11
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
1167 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:19 pm to
Learn to code and make more money. Plant Engineers don’t make that much money unless it’s Exxon, Chevron, or Shell.
Posted by Gings5
HTX
Member since Jul 2016
8372 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:21 pm to
I got my BSME from LSU in 2016. It's a lot of work and time. I wouldn't recommend working at all but if you did, try to find a firm or plant willing to work with your schedule. When you get to the upper level classes and labs, they only offer one class/time throughout the day. Some classes are only offered one semester. You said online so it could be different but something to look into.

Also, judging by my time at LSU, ME is A LOT more time and work than CE... take that in mind when getting opinions from non-ME majors/degrees.

Good luck
Posted by lostinbr
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2017
9755 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 3:35 pm to
A few comments/questions/observations:

1. Are you currently working as a “company guy” or a contractor? Are you in management or do you have management experience?

I ask because I’ve seen a few people quote 75-100k starting salary. This is true for an entry level job, but depending on your situation you may not be limited to an entry level job. The real payoff with an engineering degree isn’t an engineer job title - it’s that the degree proves that you understand engineering concepts, which makes you much more competitive for management positions (especially with your existing experience). If you’re already in some kind of office-based role and you complete the degree, you might be better off staying put and looking for a management opportunity than trying to find an entry level ME job.

2. Engineering programs are hard. Don’t let anyone fool you into thinking otherwise. Have you taken any type of calculus yet? If not, know that this is the area where you will likely be at the biggest disadvantage. Calculus is difficult on its own, but it’s also the basis of most of your higher level engineering classes.

If you intend to work full time, you should expect to miss out on other aspects of your life while you’re in school. You will spend entire weekends studying for tests. Your work performance very well may suffer. I would plan on your total commitment being 2-3x the number of credit hours you are taking. So if you’re taking 9 credit hours (3 classes) you need to have 18-27 hours a week to devote to school, including classroom time.

3. Keep in mind that many full-time students take 5 years or longer to complete engineering degrees. I’m not really familiar with LSU’s online offering, but I can tell you that one of the major issues for part-time students is the fact that many engineering classes are only offered in the fall (or spring). You need to be very diligent planning out your courses to make sure you don’t waste a semester due to lack of prerequisites.

4. Your real-world experience will be a huge asset once you graduate. Unfortunately, though, it probably won’t help you in school as much as you would think.

5. If, after all of this, you are still determined to get a mechanical engineering degree.. go for it! You can always dip your toe in the water with a small course load and increase from there.
Posted by BallsEleven
Member since Mar 2019
6163 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 4:03 pm to
I'm in my last semester for my degree. Wife, 2 kids, and 1 on the way. I have regularly taken 4 or 5 classes a semester and 3 in the summer. I don't miss a thing when it comes to family.

You'll be fine. With age comes the added bonus of time management and the ability to actually listen during lectures.
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