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re: Poliboard Prayers
Posted on 5/26/20 at 12:07 pm to SCLibertarian
Posted on 5/26/20 at 12:07 pm to SCLibertarian
Damn man, sorry to hear that for you guys.
Keep your heads up!
Keep your heads up!
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Posted on 5/26/20 at 12:25 pm to SCLibertarian
God bless you. The little one will be waiting for you both in heaven.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 12:27 pm to SCLibertarian
Sorry bud prayers for you and your wife.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 12:38 pm to SCLibertarian
I had 3 miscarriages before I had my 3 children.
It took 3 miscarriages before they finally tested ne to find out my hormones were not quite right.
Make sure she gets her hormones tested.
It's a simple fix.
It's rough but very common to have miscarriages. Most of my friends have had one. Most of us were older moms in our 30s when we were trying to have kids.
I'm so sorry for both of you. It is very hard emotionally and physically.
It took 3 miscarriages before they finally tested ne to find out my hormones were not quite right.
Make sure she gets her hormones tested.
It's a simple fix.
It's rough but very common to have miscarriages. Most of my friends have had one. Most of us were older moms in our 30s when we were trying to have kids.
I'm so sorry for both of you. It is very hard emotionally and physically.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 12:42 pm to SCLibertarian
Prayers for you guys.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 12:42 pm to SCLibertarian
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SCLibertarian
That's tough to hear, I am very sorry for you and your wifes loss.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 12:42 pm to SCLibertarian
Sorry to hear it. God be with you and your family during this time.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 12:44 pm to SCLibertarian
Prayers for peace and comfort.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 12:45 pm to SCLibertarian
Sorry to hear that. Prayers sent.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 12:47 pm to SCLibertarian
Lifting you and your family up in prayers.
As a dad who has walked in those shoes (my wife and I lost twin boys last January; stillborn @ 33 weeks), I know that saying "I'm sorry," doesn't mean a hill of beans. Instead, if you don't mind, let me share a few things I have learned in the past 16 months.
There will be times where your wife feels like she did something wrong, and blames herself for the loss. Do not let her do that.
If either of you feel like talking about the baby, what you had hoped for, wished for, dreams you had, do that.
Grief counseling is a good thing. Don't be afraid or ashamed to go.
Google "pregnancy and infant loss" and see if you can find an organization in your area. This happens to more people than you can ever imagine. Often these organizations will have group counseling or other events where you can talk to people who have been through it and can share coping strategies. If you can't find one in your area, let me know and I will tell you how to get in touch with the organization my wife and I volunteer with. They are doing weekly Zoom meeting s right now (moms on Sunday nights or Wednesday mornings/dads on Wednesday nights).
If you need more info, let me know.
As a dad who has walked in those shoes (my wife and I lost twin boys last January; stillborn @ 33 weeks), I know that saying "I'm sorry," doesn't mean a hill of beans. Instead, if you don't mind, let me share a few things I have learned in the past 16 months.
There will be times where your wife feels like she did something wrong, and blames herself for the loss. Do not let her do that.
If either of you feel like talking about the baby, what you had hoped for, wished for, dreams you had, do that.
Grief counseling is a good thing. Don't be afraid or ashamed to go.
Google "pregnancy and infant loss" and see if you can find an organization in your area. This happens to more people than you can ever imagine. Often these organizations will have group counseling or other events where you can talk to people who have been through it and can share coping strategies. If you can't find one in your area, let me know and I will tell you how to get in touch with the organization my wife and I volunteer with. They are doing weekly Zoom meeting s right now (moms on Sunday nights or Wednesday mornings/dads on Wednesday nights).
If you need more info, let me know.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 1:00 pm to SCLibertarian
My wife and I went through the same thing in 2017. It's very tough but eventually it gets better. Just be sure to be there for one another and talk through it. My prayers are with you both.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 1:07 pm to SCLibertarian
There is not a day that goes by that I do not lament what is left on the table...what could have been...and the feared pain that lies in a calamitous future for those whom I dearly love. But for my Faith...the wave of regret and loss, would be overwhelming; and I consider myself a 'tough guy'.
I share you loss, SC, and offer what minimal prayer support and effect that I can, for what it's worth. But know this...ALL pain - for those who love and seek greater love - will be a 'teacher' of sort. It will bind us to our Brethren in ways that security, ease and prosperity never can...and open character-enhancing doors re our compassion and empathy to express love to our Brethren to the degree that the Good Lord urged us to embrace. Such being...moving toward 'Heaven'. Godly love and total Union.
This current life...is but one...in an infinity of life. Weigh your 'loss', with that in mind; and know that "ALL THINGS happen for the good of them that love God".
Love to you and the wife.
I share you loss, SC, and offer what minimal prayer support and effect that I can, for what it's worth. But know this...ALL pain - for those who love and seek greater love - will be a 'teacher' of sort. It will bind us to our Brethren in ways that security, ease and prosperity never can...and open character-enhancing doors re our compassion and empathy to express love to our Brethren to the degree that the Good Lord urged us to embrace. Such being...moving toward 'Heaven'. Godly love and total Union.
This current life...is but one...in an infinity of life. Weigh your 'loss', with that in mind; and know that "ALL THINGS happen for the good of them that love God".
Love to you and the wife.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 1:37 pm to SCLibertarian
My mother lost 2 but had 2. My DIL lost 1 but was successful with 3. A close friend lost 6. She has none. It's tough. It gets better but they never get over it. It's one day at the time.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 1:39 pm to SCLibertarian
Keep your head up, brother. We got you.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 1:42 pm to SCLibertarian
That’s brutal, man. Had a close relative go through it and it’s terrible. I hope this helps you a bit to learn that same close relative is now the proud parent of a healthy five-month old.
Posted on 5/26/20 at 1:45 pm to SCLibertarian
oh man that's terrible
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