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re: Men With Paid Paternity Leave

Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:36 am to
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6285 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:36 am to
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If a company is offering this to their male employees...there shouldn't be any penalties to their job if they decide to use this benefit.


Legally they can't use that as a means to get rid of you. If, they allegedly fire you for taking a fully offered benefit, lawsuit in waiting, it was more than that and you were on a short leash in the first place.
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:36 am to
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If you can take that much time off, your very replaceable.

Or your position isn't needed, at all.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
82098 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:36 am to
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I understand it's a benefit. I'm telling you the message it sends if things go smoothly in your absence. You're looking at what's on paper and I'm looking at how that translates in reality.
and you're reaching.
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:36 am to
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Sounds like you are in construction.

I am.
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
32549 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:37 am to
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If your company gave you 8 weeks in your contract they did it to be competitive. Take that shite!

Companies give things they don't really want you to take. Just like sick days. I have a lot of them but they really don't want you to use all of them.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111241 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:38 am to
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If they can go 8 weeks without you, you're a convenience, not a necessity.

Disagree...at least not in every instance

I always hear people thinking they're super important with the go to line of, "If I ever left, this place wouldn't know what to do without me." or some derivative of that line. They say that to act like they're really good at their job, but that's the mark of a really poor leader.

A true leader has his departments trained and cross trained and everyone knowing exactly what to do so that if the leader is gone for 1 day, 1 week or 8 weeks, the department can function without them...but because of them.

So while the departments may function for 8 weeks without a good leader, it doesn't mean that leader isn't a necessity for long term sustained success for that company.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111241 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:39 am to
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as the guy who left for 8 weeks due to an honestly female related situation.
Taking care of a newborn isn't exactly a "female related situation"
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111241 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:39 am to
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We have to use sick days and honestly 2-3 days would be the max without pissing them off.

For having a kid? What a shite company.
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:39 am to
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Disagree...at least not in every instance

I always hear people thinking they're super important with the go to line of, "If I ever left, this place wouldn't know what to do without me." or some derivative of that line. They say that to act like they're really good at their job, but that's the mark of a really poor leader.

A true leader has his departments trained and cross trained and everyone knowing exactly what to do so that if the leader is gone for 1 day, 1 week or 8 weeks, the department can function without them...but because of them.

So while the departments may function for 8 weeks without a good leader, it doesn't mean that leader isn't a necessity for long term sustained success for that company.


This may be true for a department that does repetitive stuff.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68641 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:39 am to
Not reaching at all. If you don't understand how it looks to people who may need to trim expenses at a time in the future, you're living in fairy land.
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6285 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:40 am to
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I understand it's a benefit. I'm telling you the message it sends if things go smoothly in your absence. You're looking at what's on paper and I'm looking at how that translates in reality.


Things couldn't go smoothly because you plan your time away in ADVANCE being that you know in 9 months you will have to leave? IF a company completely crumbles because one person is out for a couple of weeks, that's a pretty weak company structure. Steve Jobs died and Apple is still taking over the tech industry. If they can get along without him, your company would do just fine.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40314 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:40 am to
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Taking care of a newborn isn't exactly a "female related situation"


Refer to my comment to lunchy
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
26194 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:41 am to
So we’re getting 8 weeks off and in the other thread talking about men not wanting sex. Are we developing vaginas? For fricks sake.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40314 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:42 am to
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Not reaching at all. If you don't understand how it looks to people who may need to trim expenses at a time in the future, you're living in fairy land.



Exactly.

In my case, we simply don't have enough people with the same skill sets, so we hire contractors to do the plebe work while we do the harder stuff.

In my case specifically LTE-A / 5G shite. They don't grow on trees.
Posted by oleyeller
Vols, Bitch
Member since Oct 2012
32035 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:43 am to
i got 12 weeks with my current one i can use over 12months
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40314 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:43 am to
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Steve Jobs died and Apple is still taking over the tech industry. If they can get along without him, your company would do just fine.



Eh horrible analogy. Apple is damn near running in place atm. Living off of reputation and not innovation.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111241 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:43 am to
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I'm telling you the message it sends if things go smoothly in your absence. You're looking at what's on paper and I'm looking at how that translates in reality.
If the person you report to sees it that way, he's arguably a shitty leader.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40314 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:45 am to
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If the person you report to sees it that way, he's arguably a shitty leader.


What if your CFO gives a headcount of max 5 individuals in your "department."

Now if this is repetitive work, (retail, fast food, line factory) I agree with you.

However, if this is specialty work, I don't.
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6285 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:47 am to
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Eh horrible analogy. Apple is damn near running in place atm. Living off of reputation and not innovation.


Who cares if they are innovating, that doesn't apply here. I referred to it as running smoothly despite losing one of the historical giants of the tech industry. Still turning huge profits without him. He had a succession plan in place. My point is still valid.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68641 posts
Posted on 3/19/18 at 8:48 am to
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If the person you report to sees it that way, he's arguably a shitty leader.
Maybe, but "shitty" leaders are common and reality and all I was talking about is how this benefit translates in reality.
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