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re: Going through a break up, need some advice
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:17 pm to Yaboylsu63
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:17 pm to Yaboylsu63
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Long story short, I just got dumped and it sucks pretty hard right now. I know this happens to everyone at some point in their life, I'm just looking for advice for how to move on. I'm not the type to mope around, and I want to get back out there but for right now it's still raw. I'm sure I'll be downvoted til the next century and trolled but any serious answers are appreciated.
There is nothing you can do right now to make the pain go away. Allow your friends and family to rally around and take pleasure in the little things. Losing someone that was such a big part of your life leaves a big hole and it sure does feel shitty. Initially, youre caught in how horrible it feels to reminded of your routine that is now absent. Waking up with someone every morning, planning your days together, planning your weekends together, small talk, big talk. You are reminded every second that you no longer have that. The saying "time heals all things" is true. It just takes the time to establish a new routine. What you need to do is put some space between you and things you associate with her. Use this time as a learning experience to better yourself and reflect on things you could have done different. One of those things could be "maybe I could be less of a condescending a-hole", or it could be "maybe I shouldn't have dated such a count." Who knows? After a few months you will be ready again. In the meantime you need to focus on hookers and blow.
It's not all bad. You have your freedom back. In time, you'll figure out what to do with it. Focus on your hobbies. Don't disregard your pain right now and pretend like it's not there, but also don't dwell in it. You have to live in this shite right now so that you can learn from it and move on. Otherwise, you wont be ready when the next awesome woman comes along.
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:18 pm to Yaboylsu63
Third page and no one has said to post her nudes
Wow. What is the OT now?
Wow. What is the OT now?
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:20 pm to Yaboylsu63
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ignore her and she'll be begging in 3 months. in the meantime......find some pussy.
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:20 pm to Yaboylsu63
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but for right now it's still raw
Sorry to hear about your a-hole. Time will heal it. You're better off without that guy.
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:22 pm to Rhino5
Shame on anyone who gave a serious response to this.
OP. Go get some real friends and quit being a pussy. Nobody but you cares about your relationship problems.
OP. Go get some real friends and quit being a pussy. Nobody but you cares about your relationship problems.
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:22 pm to Yaboylsu63
Pretend like she is dead. You are sad about someone who dies, but you don't call them or see them. Take it a day at a time and focus on what you want to do that day. Be selfish and enjoy being single, there will be a time again where you can't only think about yourself.
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:23 pm to Yaboylsu63
Time to get some strange.... Seriously
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:27 pm to Yaboylsu63
Best way to move on is to move on.
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:27 pm to Yaboylsu63
You better get busy because if she dumped you she's banging someone new.
Chicks don't wait a day
Chicks don't wait a day
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:30 pm to Yaboylsu63
Go to the gym. Go volunteer somewhere. Stay busy and enjoy your life
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:30 pm to Yaboylsu63
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:33 pm to BamaScoop
Agreed. She is getting railed to oblivion as we speak. Moaning and screaming in orgasmic delight.
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:34 pm to Yaboylsu63
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I'm just looking for advice for how to move on.
I'm sure it's been said. But the best thing to do, and I'm sure many other OTrs will agree, you have to post her pics here and tell us dirt.
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:35 pm to Yaboylsu63
Women want what they think they can't have. Don't be the guy calling and begging her to take you back. In time it will pass.
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:36 pm to SabiDojo
Something your wife has long forgotten about
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:36 pm to Yaboylsu63
7 Billion & Counting
Click that link.. there are over 7 BILLION people in the world. She wasn't the first girl you dated (that I know of, didn't read past page 1) and she obviously won't be the last. Go out with friends, live the bachelor life and prep yourself for the next one to come along. The more you sulk about this one, the less attractive you will be both physically and emotionally to any potential suitor.
Click that link.. there are over 7 BILLION people in the world. She wasn't the first girl you dated (that I know of, didn't read past page 1) and she obviously won't be the last. Go out with friends, live the bachelor life and prep yourself for the next one to come along. The more you sulk about this one, the less attractive you will be both physically and emotionally to any potential suitor.
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:39 pm to Yaboylsu63
The correct answer here is Tinder.
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:40 pm to Yaboylsu63
Sorry to hear it, but you need to get yourself a new piece of strange to take your mind of the situation.
Any hope for reconciliation?
Any hope for reconciliation?
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:42 pm to Yaboylsu63
You're in college judging by your posts and stupid screen name. Get out there and have fun. You have the perfect back drop
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:42 pm to Yaboylsu63
take all the time you spent with that heart breaking POS and turn it into time at the gym...get ripped...find hotter one...profit?
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