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re: The double standard that exists for women regarding sex and kids.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:26 pm to lsunurse
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:26 pm to lsunurse
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Basically....if you don't want to get pregnant or knock up a chick...use more than one form of birth control.
Yep. Pull out, condom, BC. Use two of the 3 and you are golden.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:30 pm to Napoleon
Tell that to the female teachers who sex up young boys. All you hear is "nice" and "where were those teachers when I grew up!?!??".
Double standards exist everywhere.
Double standards exist everywhere.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:34 pm to Napoleon
Locks and keys my friend.
If you have a key that opens a lot of locks, that's a pretty badass key, a master key if you will. But if you have a lock that opens for any key.. Well that's just a shitty lock.
If you have a key that opens a lot of locks, that's a pretty badass key, a master key if you will. But if you have a lock that opens for any key.. Well that's just a shitty lock.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:35 pm to Napoleon
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so what do they want the woman to do?
Anal
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:36 pm to Jcorye1
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where were those teachers when I grew up!?!??".
well? where were they?
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:37 pm to kwalt1989
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If you have a key that opens a lot of locks, that's a pretty badass key, a master key if you will. But if you have a lock that opens for any key.. Well that's just a shitty lock.
Pretty much sums it up. And whores are just leaving the door open these days.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:46 pm to G Vice
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G Vice
So I'm all up in them crazy statistics
Damn son, go buy some lotto tix
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:48 pm to Napoleon
It has to do with principles of biology and evolution. Males have a biological interest in having as many children with as many women as possible. This is because many of the offspring were likely to die and the male was not required to care for or raise all of them. This could be done by extended family.
Women have a biological interest in having as many fit, viable children as possible. Ideally, the strongest father sires the child and the best provider raises it.
These are just truths that are hardwired into your brain by evolution. It's the same reason snakes give people the willies.
Then, we superimposed modern society, several different types of economies, and technology on top of the wetware in your skull. It doesn't have moralistic answers; it is simply biology running up against the modern world.
Most men today want to have lots of sex but not have lots of children. This is a paradox.
Most men today know that women who sleep with a lot of men are not pregnant by them, but are still wary of committing to them. Your genius, modern brain suspects that she might be carrying someone else's child and influences you to place a low social value on her.
Simple as that. Evolution doesn't care about fairness or philosophical notions of equality. It doesn't care about anything. It just turns out that this system has worked well to produce lots of viable humans.
Women have a biological interest in having as many fit, viable children as possible. Ideally, the strongest father sires the child and the best provider raises it.
These are just truths that are hardwired into your brain by evolution. It's the same reason snakes give people the willies.
Then, we superimposed modern society, several different types of economies, and technology on top of the wetware in your skull. It doesn't have moralistic answers; it is simply biology running up against the modern world.
Most men today want to have lots of sex but not have lots of children. This is a paradox.
Most men today know that women who sleep with a lot of men are not pregnant by them, but are still wary of committing to them. Your genius, modern brain suspects that she might be carrying someone else's child and influences you to place a low social value on her.
Simple as that. Evolution doesn't care about fairness or philosophical notions of equality. It doesn't care about anything. It just turns out that this system has worked well to produce lots of viable humans.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:48 pm to Napoleon
As some have already said, it's biology. Parental investment for one.
But as far as the double standard goes...if a woman is pregnant and carries a baby to term, you KNOW she is the mother. Could you be 100% certain that you are the father (without DNA testing)? Part of male genetic insecurities, if you will. That's why it's always polite to comment on a newborn looking like the father.
But as far as the double standard goes...if a woman is pregnant and carries a baby to term, you KNOW she is the mother. Could you be 100% certain that you are the father (without DNA testing)? Part of male genetic insecurities, if you will. That's why it's always polite to comment on a newborn looking like the father.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:57 pm to CptBengal
I know you are but what am I?
(one thing about Cpt Bengal is he always has to have the last word, 100% he will reply to this just because)
Anyway. I wasn't bitching just observing. Pointing out behavior I saw that I thought was contradictory.
(one thing about Cpt Bengal is he always has to have the last word, 100% he will reply to this just because)
Anyway. I wasn't bitching just observing. Pointing out behavior I saw that I thought was contradictory.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 1:59 pm to Tigerlaff
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fit, viable children
Fit and viable could be considered to be the same thing in this discussion.
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Ideally, the strongest father sires the child and the best provider raises it.
Are you implying they can't be one and the same? Biological discussions involving "choice" are always difficult. But in line with what you're implying, females "cheat" for different reasons than males.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 2:04 pm to Sasquatch Smash
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Fit and viable could be considered to be the same thing in this discussion.
Truth.
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Ideally, the strongest father sires the child and the best provider raises it.
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Are you implying they can't be one and the same? Biological discussions involving "choice" are always difficult. But in line with what you're implying, females "cheat" for different reasons than males.
Again, truth. Not implying that; the best case scenario is they are the same person. Just trying to illustrate how ideas of "loyalty" get mixed up in this whole stupid debate.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 2:07 pm to Napoleon
only stupid women get pregnant accidentally
If she takes the pill correctly and makes her partner use a condom correctly it's almost impossible
If she takes the pill correctly and makes her partner use a condom correctly it's almost impossible
Posted on 12/1/15 at 2:18 pm to Napoleon
Girls are more critical of girls than guys. I've been with some scandalous chicks in my day. Even dated one where I was the documented 50th dude she'd fricked (she wrote them all down). Doesn't matter to me how much of a hooker a chick is as long as I get mine and she isn't fricking around.
Maybe a LLOT can say, but idk if girls talk about how many guys they actually frick like guys do.
Girls that got pregnant early are seen as bad decision makers. The guys who got them pregnant are also seen as bad decision makers.
I'm not gonna date a chick with a kid because I don't feel like dealing with that drama, and I can still date 20 year olds with no kids.
I don't want to have to deal with the ex or getting yelled at because I teach and punish kids my own way.
That being said, I spray and pray unless I don't know the chick
Maybe a LLOT can say, but idk if girls talk about how many guys they actually frick like guys do.
Girls that got pregnant early are seen as bad decision makers. The guys who got them pregnant are also seen as bad decision makers.
I'm not gonna date a chick with a kid because I don't feel like dealing with that drama, and I can still date 20 year olds with no kids.
I don't want to have to deal with the ex or getting yelled at because I teach and punish kids my own way.
That being said, I spray and pray unless I don't know the chick
This post was edited on 12/1/15 at 2:20 pm
Posted on 12/1/15 at 2:18 pm to yellowfin
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only stupid women get pregnant accidentally
yessir, the smart ones just pretend that it was an accident.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 2:27 pm to Napoleon
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Napoleon
you assume too much
Posted on 12/1/15 at 3:09 pm to Napoleon
It is man's natural job to try and spread his seed as much as possible.
It is woman's natural job to be selective about the men she allows to possibly impregnate her.
That's how nature works for dominant predators on the top of the food chain.
It is woman's natural job to be selective about the men she allows to possibly impregnate her.
That's how nature works for dominant predators on the top of the food chain.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 3:11 pm to Hammertime
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Maybe a LLOT can say, but idk if girls talk about how many guys they actually frick like guys do.
In private girls are way worse than guys.
A guy nails a chick. He tells his boys "yeah I nailed her". Probably the end of the conversation. Maybe a comment about her tits.
Women discuss positions, penis size, orgasms, and on and on.
Posted on 12/1/15 at 3:12 pm to Napoleon
This post was edited on 12/1/15 at 3:21 pm
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