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Supervising your own kids in your neighborhood

Posted on 8/18/15 at 3:55 pm
Posted by LSUinMA
Commerce, Texas
Member since Nov 2008
4777 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 3:55 pm
Do the kids in your neighborhood act like all of the yards belong to them?

There are two kids down the street, maybe 10 and 8, and they spend almost as much time in my yard as they do in their own, they play ball without permission in the front yard next door, they fish from the edge of another neighbor's property. They're not causing any trouble exactly but it does seem a little strange to me. Especially the lack of oversight from parents.

I can remember acting like this a little bit when I was a kid but that was 30 years ago and we lived in a different world. Plus my parents at least knew the people whose yards I was traipsing through all the time.

I don't want to be the stereotypical hey kids get off my lawn guy, but I bet on some level I'm responsible for them since they're on my property, no?

ETA: to be clear, I don't mind. I just don't want to be responsible for them.
This post was edited on 8/18/15 at 4:05 pm
Posted by SidewalkDawg
Chair
Member since Nov 2012
9851 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 3:56 pm to
Rock Salt + Shotgun = Problem Solved.

The best thing is, you only have to do it once or twice.
This post was edited on 8/18/15 at 3:57 pm
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83674 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 3:57 pm to
My neighbor kids play football in my yard all the time. I don't care.
Posted by Commandeaux
Zachary
Member since Jul 2009
7328 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 3:57 pm to
quote:

Do the kids in your neighborhood act like all of the yards belong to them?


Yes, they need their asses beat.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
67023 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 3:57 pm to
quote:

Do the kids in your neighborhood act like all of the yards belong to them?


Dude. They're neighborhood kids. Didn't everyone do this when you grew up?
quote:

can remember acting like this a little bit when I was a kid but that was 30 years ago and we lived in a different world

What world was that?
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 3:58 pm to
quote:

They're not causing any trouble


then whats the problem?
Posted by torrey225
Member since Mar 2015
1437 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 3:59 pm to
Stop making more helicopter parents.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 3:59 pm to
quote:

I don't want to be the stereotypical hey kids get off my lawn guy, but I bet on some level I'm responsible for them since they're on my property, no?


i mean yes, but let it go. As long as they arent doing any harm. Its good to have a relationship with your neighbors and their kids. builds community.
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
101890 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:00 pm to
quote:

I don't want to be the stereotypical hey kids get off my lawn guy


I think it's too late.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21676 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:00 pm to
Kids play in my yard too. As long as they don't break stuff or steal stuff, I'm glad they do. Kids don't play outside as much as they should these days anyway. Hell, if I had a lake in my yard, I'd be glad they were out there.

Same world today, you just know more about it. If they aren't hurting anything or breaking the law, let them be.

Yeh, I guess you could say they are trespassing on your property, so if you feel that way, call the cops.
Posted by Croacka
Denham Springs
Member since Dec 2008
61441 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:00 pm to
quote:

they fish from the edge of another neighbor's property.


Most neighborhoods with shared ponds have property lines that don't extend to the ponds. You don't own the bank


Not saying that's the case here, but it could be
Posted by PolyPusher86
St. George
Member since Jun 2010
3357 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:00 pm to
It seems innocent but you have to look at it from a liability point of view. Sure, the idea of young kids playing around in the neighborhood seems harmless until Little Johnny breaks his neck on your property and his shite parents sue you and wins.
Posted by nes2010
Member since Jun 2014
6791 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:01 pm to
If they hurt themselves in your yard you might be paying for the hospital bill.
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
20966 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:02 pm to
Posted by PapaPogey
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
39618 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:03 pm to
All the kids on my street used to play football spanning across at least 4 or 5 front yards on my street. Far end driveways were endzones. Nobody gave a shite and it kept us busy outside. It's not a big deal dude, so don't make it into one.
This post was edited on 8/18/15 at 4:11 pm
Posted by Aux Arc
SW Missouri
Member since Oct 2011
2184 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:06 pm to
I don't hover over my kids. They have had the run of the neighborhood since about age 7 or 8 with minimal supervision. We live in a good neighborhood. We know our neighbors and they know our kids.

I'm sure some people think we are horrible parents - like the ones who hover over their disrespectful, pussy kids. That, and the get-off-my-lawn crowd.
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:06 pm to
I was ok with it at first until a ten year boy tried to kiss my 8 year old daughter. Now nobody can play in my yard .
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:09 pm to
quote:

I just don't want to be responsible for them.


They aren't your kids, so you aren't. Mind your own business.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
65026 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:10 pm to
quote:

Do the kids in your neighborhood act like all of the yards belong to them?



Pretty much. But I've got kids of my own as well. When they're not in school all the kids will play in my yard some then they'll go play in one of the other yards for a bit. Personally, I love pulling in from work to see my kids outside with all their friends getting to have fun and just be kids.

quote:

There are two kids down the street, maybe 10 and 8, and they spend almost as much time in my yard as they do in their own, they play ball without permission in the front yard next door, they fish from the edge of another neighbor's property. They're not causing any trouble exactly but it does seem a little strange to me. Especially the lack of oversight from parents.

I can remember acting like this a little bit when I was a kid but that was 30 years ago and we lived in a different world. Plus my parents at least knew the people whose yards I was traipsing through all the time.



My kids and their friends tend to stick to their yards or the yards of their friends. As for supervision, my son is now 13 so we don't have to watch him like we use to. My youngest is only 7 though so she stays in our yards and if she's outside, we're outside as well.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
36807 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:11 pm to
As a kid we played in the neighbors yard if we were playing with the neighbors kids. Not just by ourselves! I do t personally want the neighbors kids here if they're not hanging out with/playing with my kids.

And I wouldn't want my kids playing at the neighbors (out or inside) without the neighbors kids!
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