re: (Ex) girlfriend is a cheating whore, WWTOTD?

Once a cheater, always a cheater. TEll her it's over.

Very common theme lately. Cut all ties. Don't answer any correspondence from her at all. Not one single thing.

I didn't listen to the dudes on TD with experience, and it made the situation worse for me. Once I cut her off, I stopped worrying about everything after like a week



Eta: I fricked her 20 year old coworker and she knows

if your done you should not respond to her letter in anyway.
Do not contact her in anyway.

Do Not communicate with her in anyway.

Which means ignoring texts and voicemails.

Complete silence.


Sit back and watch her melt down.



Remember complete silence is the key.

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Long story short, I found out that my gf of over a year has been cheating.

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On the bright side, at least she wasn't/isn't your spouse.

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She hasn't confronted me, but instead dropped off a letter at my house, the gist of which is her apologizing & asking for a second chance.

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Better than finding out yourself, I suppose. And at least she had the "decency" to cop to it & apologize, albeit in a letter. Better than nothing, really.

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So OT, should I:

a) tell her to frick off in the most assholish/dickish way possible? Or...

b) not stoop down to her level & kindly tell her it's over

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Don't know, but whatever your decision, make sure you stick to it. The back & forth thing is probably the worst thing to put yourself through, imo. Good luck.

We talking cheating whore like gangbang whore or like blow some guy in Coates hall after a drunk night at reggies whore?

(C) get a sex change now and don't put your family through it later in life like Bruce Jenner did.

Hell no. Chicks like that need to be purged. You at least need distance. Does she have a history of cheating prior to this?

"give her a second chance" and bang bitches on the side...

everybody deserves a second chance and it's close to easter so maybe she will find the lord and walk along the path of righteousness from now on

What is your end game? What do you want out of this? Do you want to get back together with her? Do you want to never get back together with her? Do you want revenge? Do you want to humiliate her? Do you want to have the healthiest response possible?

We need to know what you actually want out of this deal before we can appropriately guide your response.