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Question for the OT about starting a life
Posted on 2/18/15 at 12:07 am
Posted on 2/18/15 at 12:07 am
So... My ex step dad wants to pay for me to make a move on a new career. I'm not asking my mom for money bc she helped me through college. My dad is a piece of shite and won't help with anything. Should I take him up on the offer (which he doesn't want to be reimbursed for)? Should I insist on paying him back? Or should I take the money and not look back?
Posted on 2/18/15 at 12:10 am to LSU Tiger09
Accept the money with grace and gratitude, if that's what you want.
Insisting on paying the money back is all well and good but you have to actually, you know, pay the money back. Don't make a production out of doing that and then not deliver.
Insisting on paying the money back is all well and good but you have to actually, you know, pay the money back. Don't make a production out of doing that and then not deliver.
Posted on 2/18/15 at 12:14 am to LSU Tiger09
He wants to pay you for what now?
Posted on 2/18/15 at 12:17 am to LSU Tiger09
A respectable person would be gracious and pay him back whenever the time comes. Post job of course.
Posted on 2/18/15 at 12:19 am to LSU Tiger09
Take the money and pay him back later.
Consider yourself really lucky as well....think how many others would love to have this dilemma.
Consider yourself really lucky as well....think how many others would love to have this dilemma.
Posted on 2/18/15 at 1:21 am to LSU Tiger09
What exactly does paying for a career change entail
Posted on 2/18/15 at 1:22 am to LSU Tiger09
quote:Is it wrong that I laughed when i read this?
My ex step dad
Posted on 2/18/15 at 8:05 am to LSU Tiger09
Sounds like your ex-step dad that raised you is in fact the best dad you have. Accept the money and attempt to pay him back at a later date, though I seriously doubt he'll take it.
Don't forget about him on father's day.
Don't forget about him on father's day.
This post was edited on 2/18/15 at 8:06 am
Posted on 2/18/15 at 8:07 am to LSU Tiger09
quote:
Should I take him up on the offer (which he doesn't want to be reimbursed for)?
"Thank you. I will do my best to reward your faith in me".
no promises to pay it back. Just really put in the time and effort to make it happen.
Posted on 2/18/15 at 8:40 am to LSU Tiger09
Any idea how much money we're talking about? Doesn't seem like it'd be too much if the job is already secured.
Posted on 2/18/15 at 9:56 am to LSU Tiger09
I still don't know whats you are needing money for?
Is this to move and get an apartment in the new town you have a job in? If you've been living away from mama the last 5 years, how did you pay to live? How do you not have enough money to get an apartment considering you have a job? Is he giving you a few hundred books to move?
or Are you going back to school? I have to assume this b/c its the only one that makes sense.
Is this to move and get an apartment in the new town you have a job in? If you've been living away from mama the last 5 years, how did you pay to live? How do you not have enough money to get an apartment considering you have a job? Is he giving you a few hundred books to move?
or Are you going back to school? I have to assume this b/c its the only one that makes sense.
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