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re: I've been diagnosed with glioblastoma

Posted on 3/28/14 at 2:19 pm to
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 2:19 pm to
God bless bro.
Posted by forksup
Member since Dec 2013
8817 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 2:27 pm to
Prayers sent.
Posted by TigerTreyjpg
Monroe, LA
Member since Jun 2008
5815 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 2:35 pm to
Man, I just read about your diagnosis, as I'm sure you have as well, and it sounds like you've got a very tough fight ahead of you. My heart, prayers, and thoughts go out to you and your family.

This post will be long, but it's about as encouraging of a thing that I can think of to offer someone in your situation, so I'm going to take the time to tell you this story. The moral speaks for itself.

I have an aunt that was diagnosed with breast cancer in 1989. It wasn't just in both breast, but also in many, many of her lymph nodes, and her prognosis was so poor that her Dr.'s pretty much told her to get her affairs in order - that she wouldn't see Christmas. That her cancer was too far advanced for them to do anything that would substantially increase the length of her life, and that they would try and keep her comfortable while she passed on.

She refused to accept that answer, and began to search for Dr.'s that specialized in the treatment of cancer patients with poor prognoses.

She found a guy in Dallas that agreed to take her case. I believe his exact words were something to the effect of "you will probably not survive this treatment. It's extremely tough on your body, and takes a toll. However, I've noted one thing regarding this treatment. Those people with an incredible will to live have a much higher survival rate." She said said sign me up.


And thus began her battle with cancer. She was a beautiful, talented women. A "high finisher" in an early 1960's Miss Louisiana pageant. A wonderfully talented piano player. Extremely gregarious. She just loved life, people, and people loved her back. So, she took the treatment, and it was in fact brutal.

She retained so much fluid that she looked like touching her would make her explode. She lost her hair. Her lungs were scarred so badly from the radiation that she stayed in and out of the hospital with pneumonia for 5 years. Her bones became so brittle that she broke both hips, and one twice. All the while, she'd say "but i'm alive. I'm watching my grandchildren grow up. I'm not out of the game yet." I never once heard her complain. I also never once heard her say "I don't want to die". Rather, I heard her say many times "I want to live."

Again, that was 1989. I remember because it was the year I was studying for the CPA exam, and I'd stay with them, at their apartment in Dallas, close to where she took her treatment, when I'd drive over for review courses.

After a while, the cancer was gone, but her health, via the treatment, had deteriorated to almost nothing. She never complained, but she'd just say "maybe next year, I'll feel better". Slowly but surely, her strength begin to come back. One day, she was no longer in a wheel chair. Her hair grew back. Years later, after her ordeal, I look at her, and realize that, from a worldy sense, she's even still beautiful again, especially for her age. She occasionally will still tickle the ivories for us around Christmas time. She's 69 now, and healthy. One leg is a little shorter than the other - she wears special shoes - that's the result of all the hip problems, but she's alive, and living well. She's seen her grandsons play football and basket, and is currently assisting one in his decision between Harvard and Tulane.

We are very, very close. She was there for me at at time when precious others were, and I needed her as a boy needs his mom. Mine has already passed on. We were talking one day - intimately, as we've done many times - and I asked her to what she attributed her survival.

Her response?

I looked up, had too much to accomplish, and just refused to die.

I do not know you, but I know you are very sick, very scared, and maybe even bitter. I would be. If I could make you believe one thing, and one thing only, it's this. You actually can beat this, but your attitude very well may have as much to do with your fighting strategy as the surgeries, treatments, doctors, and therapy.

Please know that even though I'm a complete stranger, my heart breaks for you.....I just cannot imagine what you and your family are going through. Right after I hit submit on this post, I'm going to close my office door, turn my lights off, get on my knees, and pray for you.

If you'd do something for me in return, I'd ask you to believe me when I tell you that you can beat this. You can live.








This post was edited on 3/28/14 at 2:38 pm
Posted by Paluka
One State Over
Member since Dec 2010
10763 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 2:35 pm to
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guedeaux


My sister was diagnosed with stage 4 Glio almost four years ago. They did two surgeries and she had chemo plus focused radiation. They told us she has six months to live.

Well, she's still around. She can no longer work as an attorney but she can drive, has not had any siezures and is on very minimal pain meds. She lives in an assisted living place but we asked her to do this so she would socialize more. It's really helped a lot. She was diagnosed in her early 40's so my understanding is that the earlier the better.

She went to MD Anderson for the last year and a half. They monitored her tumor and never saw any growth. Her neuro-oncologist is only seeing her every 6 months now.

With the incredible things that you guys do (like using the tumor itself to develop a treatment against it) there's no telling how long she'll last or how long the OP will last.

To OP: I will pray for you man. You sound young. FIGHT! Do not give up no matter what anyone says. You have a chance to beat this so take it!

Posted by Alatgr
Mobeezy, Alabizzle
Member since Sep 2005
17677 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 2:36 pm to
I know a litte of what you're going through as I was diagnosed with lymphoma in July, but my prognosis is good. Telling family and friends and seeing them worry is almost as bad as the disease. Prayers for you and your fam.
Posted by LuckyTiger
Someone's Alter
Member since Dec 2008
46615 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 2:46 pm to
May God bless you, your family, and your friends.

Posted by thebrowns
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2013
168 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 2:47 pm to
Prayers with you man. Stay strong and don't stop believing.
Posted by CP3LSU25
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2009
51150 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 2:55 pm to
Will keep you in my prayers!
Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 2:56 pm to
Great post! Those with that attitude are usually the ones who beat the odds. I know my second battle, after it relapsed, was much tougher. The previous poster mentioned he was diagnosed with Lymphoma in July. The first go round(hopefully that is all you have) is much easier than round two. Prognosis drops considerably with a relapse as well. My first go round just included R-CHOP chemo for 4 months. It wasn't to hard on me but I did suffer permanent neuropathy in my feet as a side effect. Lost all my hair, eyebrows, etc. and had a little nausea, but overall, my body handled it well. I was back to work 3 months after treatment with a full head of hair again, only 20 lbs lighter.

The relapse did much worse damage. I had it all over my body but mainly a 15 cm mass on my lower spine. Lesions on my kidneys (10 in all), in my trachea, pulmonary region as well as my pancreas. The big tumor did so much nerve damage that my right leg is now permanently damaged. Can walk fine but can not move beyond a slow jog without my leg buckling. Hair never came back in full. It is like super fine baby hair now and very thin. Taste buds didn't return until 5 months after my final treatment. The treatment was brutal. I got 4 months of Hyper C-Vad chemo with localized radiation on my head and spine. That was followed by 2 days of high dose chemo and TBI (total body irradiation) to kill all my bone marrow before the stem cell transplant.

My body is forever changed, yet, I am living and enjoying life. It is a life altering disease for sure but life is worth living as long as there are things to live for. And I have plenty.
Posted by homesicktiger
High altitude hell
Member since Oct 2004
1414 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 3:40 pm to
Pardon the long post but your situation hits a little close to home for me. I even debated about posting, because I don’t want this to be taken the wrong way. But, I’m posting anyway with the hope that it’s taken as intended: just some food for thought. It took me a while to type it, so some of this may be repetitive to what others have already suggested.

1. The GBM is trying to kill your body. Don’t let it kill your soul. Live your life and refuse to let it defeat you emotionally.

2. Your family and friends love you and will do anything they can to help you. Don’t be too proud to lean on them when you need to.

3. As someone else posted, find a neuro-oncologist, not just the local oncologist in your yellow pages. This means, depending upon where you live, you must be willing to travel if necessary. Make contact with one (or more) of the national cancer centers, like MD Anderson, Sloan Kettering, UCLA, etc. If you can, go there. There are many, fairly renowned doctors around the country researching and treating GBM in a variety of ways. Baybeefeetz mentioned someone at UM. There was a guy at Duke a few years ago—His name eludes me. Find someone somewhere who’s willing to fight as hard as you are. DO THIS AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, LIKE YESTERDAY.

4. No offense to the many doctors who post on here, but many in their profession have egos and don’t want to be second-guessed nor work as part of a collaborative team focused on you and your diagnosis. If you meet doctors like that, run away as fast as you can. Ask questions, lots of them. Be a pain in the doctors’ asses. You have to make them pay attention to you and, oh the horror, maybe even think “outside the box” a little.

5. Is your GBM operable? If so, ask about an awake craniotomy—It might be an option depending upon the location of the tumor. As someone else posted, look into the radiation “seeds” that are implanted when they cut the tumor out, as well as Avastin. The FDA approved “gold standard” of care, at least a few years ago, was temozolomide (TMZ) and radiation. If that’s the first thing out of the doctor’s mouth, see 4. Don’t settle for just that. The FDA doesn’t give a shite about you. Research all the other options out there. See 4.

6. Ask your doctor about his willingness to approach your treatment with a drug cocktail. There are several drugs approved by the FDA for brain cancer treatment. And, doctors can write off-label scripts for others (tamoxifen, etc.). These drugs have different modes of attack on cancerous cells. Why not try to attack it from multiple angles? The problem with brain cancer is getting the drugs into the brain (across the blood brain barrier). See 4.

7. What’s your age? Unfortunately, you can’t do anything about it, but it matters, not only to the GBM but, sadly, to your doctors.

8. Research places that do genetic testing. There was a study several years ago about a specific gene (MGMT) in GBM patients. The presence or absence of MGMT (I can't remember which) rendered TMZ useless, or at least much less effective in something like 60~70% of patients (I’m probably fudging the terminology and the number, but it was a statistically significant result). But, rather than spend the money and effort for a test that might show you should go straight to Avastin or something else, the FDA, many doctors, and by proxy your insurance company, would rather you waste money and time you don’t have on TMZ. Incredibly, that's the state of modern medicine.

9. Go to clinicaltrials.gov and search any possible trials that are available to you. Don’t restrict your search by geography, or anything other than your disease. Be willing to travel if you need to. And, even if you’re not a perfect fit for a certain trial, your doctor may be able to get you in. Look into immunotherapy and genetic based trials and the Novo TTF. The latter showed some promise in early phase 1/2 trials. The downside to trials is they limit your treatment to that particular regimen. The multifaceted approach that I keep alluding to here isn’t possible. And, you never know if you're getting the placebo. Just do some research and see what you can find.

10. Look into supplements like antioxidants and immune system boosters (coriolus versicolor (mushroom), green tea, high-dose vitamin C, etc.). They may not do anything, but then again they might. And, in the grand scheme of things, it’s not a ton of money. Your doctor will likely turn up his nose if you ask about them, but then ask him what his success rate is with whatever treatment he’s promoting. They’re all about the studies to promote the limited efficacies of traditional treatments but can’t point to a single study to prove that these “alternatives” will inhibit chemo. And, I’m not a “holistic guy.” See 4.

11. As fish said, eat, even when you don’t feel like it. Eat. That’s one of the big sellers of TMZ is that it’s more easily tolerated than other chemo drugs. So, if you're on it, take advantage of that and to the extent you can, feed your body.

Thoughts and prayers.
Posted by jimlsu1
Ellicott City, Md
Member since Oct 2008
1475 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 6:36 pm to
Bump. Guess it's time for everyone you know to help with some homework. I wish you nothing but the best. There has been some really valuable advice given already.
Posted by RustyTiger
Daytona Beach, FL
Member since Jul 2005
958 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 8:32 pm to
Prayers sent
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
56731 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 8:51 pm to
man, I thought about this all day today...just wanted you to know that...
Posted by JoseVargasTX
Heath, TX
Member since Sep 2011
726 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 9:24 pm to
I strongly feel like HOPE is a big part of beating cancer. Never give up hope. Thoughts and prayers to you.
Posted by Buck Magnum
Springdale
Member since Dec 2003
11657 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 9:31 pm to
Don't give up. We had a patient that had this. I know there are some aggressive treatments in DFW.
Posted by notslim99
City of Bossier City
Member since Feb 2005
4535 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 9:41 pm to
You and your family are in our prayers.
Posted by AlexLSU
Member since Jan 2005
25341 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 9:47 pm to
Cancer took my grandmother's life in 2011. MD Anderson saved my mom's life in 2012-13. Now, MDA is treating a friend's sister that's just 22. She has a rare form of ovarian cancer (approx 20 cases in the country), and although she's had multiple surgeries/rounds of treatment, she's anything but out of the woods. She's been through a lot, but her faith in God and positive outlook on life has really helped her family and support group stay positive throughout. There's going to be tough moments for you, but as you mentioned, cancer and other life-threatening diseases can often be harder on the family. Try to stay positive for you and your family's peace of mind.

I don't really have a point, but I felt compelled to post. Cancer is a terrible thing for anyone to go through, but you're not alone. Good luck to you.
Posted by OTIS2
NoLA
Member since Jul 2008
50579 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 9:49 pm to
Best of luck, OP.
Posted by GeorgeReymond
Buckhead
Member since Jan 2013
10259 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 10:00 pm to
Best of luck. Prayers sent
Posted by lsu fan cw
Member since Jan 2014
305 posts
Posted on 3/28/14 at 11:09 pm to
All of your supportive comments brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much. I know I'm starting a battle and I'm ready.

This gave me a much needed break from dealing with doctors and family (the latter is the worst part).

Hopefully, my next post here will be a good report, a few months from now.

You are good people.
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