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If married with children, how long were you married before first child was born?

Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:08 pm
Posted by Everyday Is Saturday
Member since Dec 2025
281 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:08 pm
Negative years included!

If could do it again, would you do it any differently?

Seven then twelve years here. Plan was five years but making baby was not as quick or easy as we assumed.

The good - enabled us time to start building financial investment portfolio that has been incredibly important for opportunities for the kids across their lives. Enabled full time Mom for kids’ lives, as well.

The challenge - although tomorrow is promised to no one, starting later means likelihood of knowing grandkids deep into their early adulthood may be unlikely.

To say, five years probably would have been better looking backward but nature spoke.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Member since Jan 2005
79870 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:08 pm to
8 months 2 weeks
Posted by dstone12
Texan
Member since Jan 2007
39126 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:09 pm to
8months. (ETA lol yes^. Prolly 8 month 28 days)



Some folks want to travel the world when they first get married.
Only travel we did was the honeymoon.



I do recommend The Caves in Jamaica.

Fine place to create kids.
This post was edited on 1/21/26 at 9:11 pm
Posted by Codythetiger
Arkansas
Member since Nov 2006
30313 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:11 pm to
married in June '22, child born in April '24
Posted by BigUglies10
Member since Jan 2026
679 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:12 pm to
Less than 9 months -
Posted by Barneyrb
NELA
Member since May 2016
7030 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:12 pm to
362 days
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:13 pm to
3 I think
Posted by sjmabry
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
18874 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:14 pm to
Married in fall 2004 baby born in spring 2005
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
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Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:14 pm to
Less than 9mo on the first.

Nine years to have the second one.

I'd have them closer together if I could do it again, and have one or two more as well.
Posted by WaydownSouth
Stratton Oakmont
Member since Nov 2018
10664 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:15 pm to
22 months


But we dated for 6.5 years before getting married. So in total together over 8 years before first kid

ETA: Our first was born in fall of 2022. Just when the world was getting back to normal. Would have liked a year or two to travel before kids, but life has its ways
This post was edited on 1/21/26 at 9:17 pm
Posted by Ostrich
Alexandria, VA
Member since Nov 2011
10229 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:16 pm to
15 months
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5947 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:23 pm to
About 6 months before he was born. Divorced a year later. I raised him aline for 13 years before I met the one who was right and excelled in every way, making my life and his exponentially better.
Posted by Legion of Doom
Old Metry
Member since Jan 2018
5676 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:27 pm to
Just under four years for us.
Posted by ELVIS U
Member since Feb 2007
11730 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:28 pm to
3 years 5 months
Posted by Roaad
White Privilege Broker
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Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:30 pm to
1 year, 3 months
Posted by OK Roughneck
The Sooner State
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Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:30 pm to
2 years 9 months
Posted by CovingtonCrooner
Covington (future capital of LA)
Member since Aug 2025
70 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:32 pm to
My parents did the same, I’m the 9 years later.. then they did another 6 years later, then another 3 years later.

All unplanned.
Posted by SallysHuman
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Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:36 pm to
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My parents did the same, I’m the 9 years later.. then they did another 6 years later, then another 3 years later.


That is quite a spread! If I went again, it'd be 17yrs... I'm tired. Can't do it.

quote:

All unplanned.


How old were your parents for their last surprise? If ya don't mind my asking.
Posted by SpotCheckBilly
Member since May 2020
8371 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:37 pm to
16 months.
Posted by 0
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:38 pm to
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If married with children, how long were you married before first child was born?


6 months
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