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If married with children, how long were you married before first child was born?
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:08 pm
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:08 pm
Negative years included!
If could do it again, would you do it any differently?
Seven then twelve years here. Plan was five years but making baby was not as quick or easy as we assumed.
The good - enabled us time to start building financial investment portfolio that has been incredibly important for opportunities for the kids across their lives. Enabled full time Mom for kids’ lives, as well.
The challenge - although tomorrow is promised to no one, starting later means likelihood of knowing grandkids deep into their early adulthood may be unlikely.
To say, five years probably would have been better looking backward but nature spoke.
If could do it again, would you do it any differently?
Seven then twelve years here. Plan was five years but making baby was not as quick or easy as we assumed.
The good - enabled us time to start building financial investment portfolio that has been incredibly important for opportunities for the kids across their lives. Enabled full time Mom for kids’ lives, as well.
The challenge - although tomorrow is promised to no one, starting later means likelihood of knowing grandkids deep into their early adulthood may be unlikely.
To say, five years probably would have been better looking backward but nature spoke.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:08 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
8 months 2 weeks
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:09 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
8months. (ETA lol yes^. Prolly 8 month 28 days)
Some folks want to travel the world when they first get married.
Only travel we did was the honeymoon.
I do recommend The Caves in Jamaica.
Fine place to create kids.
Some folks want to travel the world when they first get married.
Only travel we did was the honeymoon.
I do recommend The Caves in Jamaica.
Fine place to create kids.
This post was edited on 1/21/26 at 9:11 pm
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:11 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
married in June '22, child born in April '24
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:12 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Less than 9 months -
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:14 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Married in fall 2004 baby born in spring 2005
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:14 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Less than 9mo on the first.
Nine years to have the second one.
I'd have them closer together if I could do it again, and have one or two more as well.
Nine years to have the second one.
I'd have them closer together if I could do it again, and have one or two more as well.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:15 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
22 months
But we dated for 6.5 years before getting married. So in total together over 8 years before first kid
ETA: Our first was born in fall of 2022. Just when the world was getting back to normal. Would have liked a year or two to travel before kids, but life has its ways
But we dated for 6.5 years before getting married. So in total together over 8 years before first kid
ETA: Our first was born in fall of 2022. Just when the world was getting back to normal. Would have liked a year or two to travel before kids, but life has its ways
This post was edited on 1/21/26 at 9:17 pm
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:23 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
About 6 months before he was born. Divorced a year later. I raised him aline for 13 years before I met the one who was right and excelled in every way, making my life and his exponentially better.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:27 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Just under four years for us.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:28 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
3 years 5 months
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:30 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
1 year, 3 months
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:30 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
2 years 9 months
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:32 pm to SallysHuman
My parents did the same, I’m the 9 years later.. then they did another 6 years later, then another 3 years later.
All unplanned.
All unplanned.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:36 pm to CovingtonCrooner
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My parents did the same, I’m the 9 years later.. then they did another 6 years later, then another 3 years later.
That is quite a spread! If I went again, it'd be 17yrs... I'm tired. Can't do it.
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All unplanned.
How old were your parents for their last surprise? If ya don't mind my asking.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:38 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
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If married with children, how long were you married before first child was born?
6 months
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