Switching from early morning to late evening for lifting?

Go visit your gym at time you intend to go. You're not prepared for how fricked up it's going to be. Broccoli heads on their phones on your equipment, etc.

Start using your seat heaters on the way to and from the gym. Even if you're benching, your legs and lower back getting some heat helps.

This is going to be an unpopular opinion, but your kid turning 13 by no means dictates that your nights are only going to get longer. You, as adults, dictate what activities he's allowed to do, and when. My ex-wife loves to do dumb shite like sign up for a league that practices until 9PM that is a 40 minute drive away, but that was a choice she made.

Your kid, especially a boy, needs sleep about as much as he needs air. If you "permit" repeated late night shenanigans during the school year, you're hobbling both his mental and physical growth.

4AM wakeups were pretty easy for me, you can try that.

I lift immediately after work. Usually from around 4:45-6:30. It's not bad, just have to find the right gym that doesn't have that many phone watchers. I'd have to get up around 3:00 AM to get a workout in, go back home and shower before leaving for work.

I had to switch to mornings two years ago and still miss after work workouts.
Take some pre or down an energy drink and you can lift your arse off

I don't know about the evenings, but I find that I can lift quite a bit heavier weight in the afternoons after work than I can in the mornings. I'm sure I COULD lift that heavy in the mornings, but I usually feel tight and non-energized when I hit the gym 20 minutes after waking up (and yes, I have caffeine before going). Now... I always feel GREAT after leaving the gym in the mornings, but my body just feels more awake and ready to lift heavy shite after work than it does immediately after waking up.

I'll also echo what the other person said, though: why are your kids staying up that late? Or do you just need that much time once they go to bed to wind down? My oldest is a senior in high school, now, and my wife and I maintained our early morning workout routine throughout our parenting time with both kids. That being said, his main sport (mountain biking) happens in daylight for the most part, so we weren't at team sport practices late at night.

I’m constantly going to sleep 10:30-11 and wake up at 5 to workout at 6.

It’s plenty of rest.
Yes you’d like 7-8 hours of sleep but 6 is ok

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Waking up at 4:30/5:00am to exercise just isn't sustainable.

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I am now in the same situation but not because of sleep. Work now has me commuting in the AM to miss traffic where before I was remote and could be in the gym at 0500 and back at the house at 0700 for work. I have been a super early morning lifter since my son was born and damn he is 27 now so it has been a while. I now go in the afternoons when I get home from work. I try to miss the after school crowd but it is short window to get in because I really try to get back home to get at least 7 hours of sleep. Honestly I like it much better training in the PM. You will find that you are probably stronger in the afternoons even if you pre-workout in the mornings and are amped up on caffeine. I actually have gone up on my lifts since starting afternoons which is somewhat surprising since I am almost 54. The only drawback is my BJJ has suffered greatly. I used to roll in the afternoons and now I may only get to do that a few times a week now.

I am 53 with a 4 year old (yes I started late). I have worked out most of my life and have always preferred the late evenings over the early mornings. Don't let the "I'm tired at the end of a work day" bother you. You may be a little sluggish when you start your workout, but once you start, the juices get flowing.

My only problem is if I don't finish a workout until 9:30 or 10 pm, it may take me another hour to get to sleep, but I much rather get 7 hours of sleep after a workout, than 7 hours of sleep to wake up at 5 am to get a workout in.