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Have any of you been through a divorce where there was a prenup ?

Posted on 10/20/25 at 5:31 pm
Posted by Long and Tall
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 5:31 pm
Just curious as to how strictly the prenup was enforced.
Posted by Old Sarge
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 5:32 pm to
If it’s legal it should be strictly enforced
Posted by Cosmo
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 5:33 pm to
Youve come to the right place
Posted by Costanza
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 5:36 pm to
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Long and Tall



What are the terms of your prenup?
Posted by WinnPtiger
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 5:36 pm to
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Youve come to the right place


it’s the only thing his 3 day old account has posted about
Posted by Long and Tall
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 5:37 pm to
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If it’s legal it should be strictly enforced


You would think so.
But I've heard divorced guys say that the courts treat them more as suggestions.
That Judges toss them out for random reasons such as prenup being too old, signed under duress, she didn't understand what she was signing.
I've heard guys say they got to court and were like wtf? We signed a contract, we agreed etc.

One attorney said to make sure that she has her own legal representation regarding the prenup.
And to videotape the signing of the prenup..
This post was edited on 10/20/25 at 5:43 pm
Posted by Old Sarge
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 5:40 pm to
That’s why it’s gotta be a legal document that signed and notarize in front of witnesses

Posted by Trevaylin
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 5:42 pm to
I had to call my son a real scmuck for thinking that a Postnuptial might be a fare deal for his wife of 15 years. He listened....
Posted by barry
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 5:44 pm to
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Just curious as to how strictly the prenup was enforced.


They are fricked
Posted by Thirty Three
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 5:45 pm to
First of all, in my humble opinion, feeling that you need a prenup isn't a good sign unless it's just your standard sugar daddy scenario.

That said, I understand and appreciate how it can provide peace of mind to both parties in some cases.

To answer your question, the enforceability is directly proportional to how well drafted and airtight within the constraints of the law the agreement is itself.

It's best to have a family and/or property law attorney with experience prepare the document and of course have it signed and notarized appropriately.

This is not legal advice.
This post was edited on 10/20/25 at 5:48 pm
Posted by N2cars
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 6:03 pm to
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First of all, in my humble opinion, feeling that you need a prenup isn't a good sign unless it's just your standard sugar daddy scenario.



2nd marriages, when both have acquired assets, inherited wealth, etc, prenuptials are usually highly recommended.

Experienced attorneys that specialize in this area are the best course of action for both parties, and it would be foolish to not have one.



Posted by Thirty Three
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 6:04 pm to
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2nd marriages, when both have acquired assets, inherited wealth, etc, prenuptials are usually highly recommended.
That makes sense.
Posted by WestSideTiger
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 6:22 pm to
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What are the terms of your prenup?

quote:

Long and Tall

How do you know she’s not the one with the prenup?

Posted by Spankum
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 6:30 pm to
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Just curious as to how strictly the prenup was enforced



If it is written, executed, and filed correctly, how could it not be enforced unless both parties agreed to do something differently?
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 6:31 pm to
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First of all, in my humble opinion, feeling that you need a prenup isn't a good sign unless it's just your standard sugar daddy scenario.


The most significant financial relationship you will ever enter into is with a spouse. Name another financial relationship you would not want a signed agreement. And about 41% of all first time marriages end in divorce. Closer to 50% of all marriages when you add in people with prior marriages. With such a known high rate of failure, people from both sides should know what they are in for if that happens.

You get what you brought into the relationship, I get what I brought in. If we are in a good relationship, neither side would be offended at all. Relationships where anyone thinks it would be a bad way to start are not mature enough for marriage IMO.
This post was edited on 10/21/25 at 1:38 am
Posted by Thirty Three
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 6:32 pm to
I think you make some very valid points.
Posted by WonPercent
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 6:37 pm to
Nah, I didn't shite to worry about losing until after the divorce. I'd prob have one if there's a next time.
Posted by Jake88
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 6:39 pm to
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First of all, in my humble opinion, feeling that you need a prenup isn't a good sign
Feeling that you don't need one isn't a good sign either. How many love-struck dopes are wishing they had one 8-10 years after the wedding?
Posted by DallasTiger11
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 6:40 pm to
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First of all, in my humble opinion, feeling that you need a prenup isn't a good sign unless it's just your standard sugar daddy scenario.

I think all marriages should have a prenup. Apparently the ones with prenups have a lower divorce rate than those that don’t.
Posted by Thirty Three
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 6:41 pm to
Fair enough. Good food for thought.
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