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Do people have destination weddings on purpose to inconvenience family?
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:31 pm
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:31 pm
Like seriously? I already have to take days off but you also have it on a Saturday in October and I have to pay for a hotel room in DR.
Trying to find an excuse not to go.
Trying to find an excuse not to go.
This post was edited on 7/12/25 at 8:32 pm
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:32 pm to TigersHuskers
Are they holding a gun to your head to make you go?
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:32 pm to TigersHuskers
What’s your relation to the couple?
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:33 pm to TigersHuskers
It’s an unvite brotha
A non-vitation
A non-vitation
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:34 pm to dpd901
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What’s your relation to the couple?
My brother. So yea im kinda stuck. When I got the invite earlier this year I was annoyed.
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:34 pm to TigersHuskers
You sound like a ton of fun to be around
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:34 pm to NawlinsTiger9
They don’t care if you go or not.
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:34 pm to NawlinsTiger9
Right. They don't want most people to go, except for maybe 10-15 peeps.
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:34 pm to TigersHuskers
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Trying to find an excuse not to go.
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have to take days off
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Saturday in October
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have to pay for a hotel room in DR.
Done, done and done
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:35 pm to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
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You sound like a ton of fun to be around
Having weeding on a Husker gameday is a huge offense
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:35 pm to TigersHuskers
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So yea im kinda stuck
Not really.
Stay home and teach your brother and invaluable life lesson.
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:36 pm to TigersHuskers
CFB is dead anyways. Go have fun in the DR
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:37 pm to TigersHuskers
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Like seriously? I already have to take days off but you also have it on a Saturday in October and I have to pay for a hotel room in DR.
Stop being a coward and just tell them what you're telling us.
You don't want to go, and they don't mean that much to you. You have better things to do than see them on one the most important days of their life.
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:37 pm to TheOcean
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CFB is dead anyways
Im still trying to pretend it isn't.
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:38 pm to TigersHuskers
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Do people have destination weddings on purpose to inconvenience family?
Yes. That was the sole reason they picked a destination wedding. It was only to inconvenience family.
They don't even really love each other. It was this massive ruse just to inconvenience you. And all of their family and friends..
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:38 pm to TigersHuskers
It's even better when they put it on a holiday "to make taking time off easier" not realing they just doubled rooms and flights.
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:38 pm to TigersHuskers
My wife and I got married at Disney before it turned pedo and gay.
Only folks we expected to go were our parents and my grandmother. A few other relatives came as well but several others either couldn't or didn't want to like you are saying.,
We 100% understood and never thought about it again. Unless it's your sibling or kid getting married, they will understand. You've already thought about it much more than they will.
Only folks we expected to go were our parents and my grandmother. A few other relatives came as well but several others either couldn't or didn't want to like you are saying.,
We 100% understood and never thought about it again. Unless it's your sibling or kid getting married, they will understand. You've already thought about it much more than they will.
This post was edited on 7/12/25 at 8:41 pm
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:40 pm to TigersHuskers
Went to a wedding in Hawaii last year for a close relative. There were 200 guests, all from the mainland. I estimated that the total $’s for everyone attending and the wedding was over $500,000. Probably more.
That’s when I decided to stop attending destination weddings. I find it incredibly inconsiderate to invite people to a destination wedding.
That’s when I decided to stop attending destination weddings. I find it incredibly inconsiderate to invite people to a destination wedding.
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:41 pm to TigersHuskers
I was in this boat two years ago. They lived in SD and had a wedding in Hawaii. Had plans to go but got hit with two of life’s big obstacles two months before their wedding. I didn’t make it there. His wife passed away a month ago. I do wish I could have made it but that’s life. It didn’t stop him from being my best man in La for my wedding.
Posted on 7/12/25 at 8:44 pm to TigersHuskers
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Do people have destination weddings on purpose to inconvenience family?by TigersHuskersLike seriously? I already have to take days off but you also have it on a Saturday in October and I have to pay for a hotel room in DR. Trying to find an excuse not to go.
Wife and I paid for our own wedding in Jamaica because nobody was picking up the tab. Did wedding stuff first 2 days then 7 days for honeymoon.
Ended up having 26 people there.
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