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How many kids is too many to date a single mom?
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:41 am
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:41 am
New trend on social media where single moms post their (mostly mixed) babies and say if you won’t take care of them, leave me alone.
Now I get maybe you were married before and had a kid but didn’t work out, but at what number is it an auto no? I’d say 3, 2 is the most and only if I was desperate
Now I get maybe you were married before and had a kid but didn’t work out, but at what number is it an auto no? I’d say 3, 2 is the most and only if I was desperate
This post was edited on 7/8/25 at 10:43 am
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:45 am to fareplay
They have paid the toll.
Why pick up someone else's save file?
Why pick up someone else's save file?
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:46 am to fareplay
Unless she’s a widow I would suspect that you’re just the next in a string of men she will use.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:48 am to fareplay
Depends on the situation.
Young, dumb bimbo who got knocked up by a deadbeat and wants someone to take care of her and the kid: 1
Cougar who got divorced once the kids went off to college: 2-3
Young, dumb bimbo who got knocked up by a deadbeat and wants someone to take care of her and the kid: 1
Cougar who got divorced once the kids went off to college: 2-3
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:48 am to fareplay
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New trend on social media where single moms post their (mostly mixed) babies and say if you won’t take care of them, leave me alone.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:49 am to fareplay
Women absolutely should prioritize their children, and if someone dates them, the man should recognize that they are taking on some amount responsibility as a step-father.
Having said that, be very extra careful if you want to date a woman with kids. Don’t date a trashy woman, even if, and especially if, she has kids.
But let’s take a walk in the real world, not the macho land of the internet extremes. There are many lonely men out there who would be willing to take on a woman with kids if they could feel assured of a loving commitment from the woman, and not just as a fat wallet for her and her kids.
Look for a GOOD woman, a godly woman, and the rest will work itself out.
Having said that, be very extra careful if you want to date a woman with kids. Don’t date a trashy woman, even if, and especially if, she has kids.
But let’s take a walk in the real world, not the macho land of the internet extremes. There are many lonely men out there who would be willing to take on a woman with kids if they could feel assured of a loving commitment from the woman, and not just as a fat wallet for her and her kids.
Look for a GOOD woman, a godly woman, and the rest will work itself out.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:50 am to Jimbeaux
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There are many lonely men out there who would be willing to take on a woman with kids if they could feel assured of a loving commitment from the woman, and not just as a fat wallet for her and her kids.
No matter. You are never going to be her priority.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:50 am to fareplay
quote:It depends.
How many kids is too many to date a single mom?
If we are talking multiple baby daddies...then that's probably going to be a pass.
If we are talking about a young widow or divorcee who's spouse cheated and/or abandoned them then it would honestly depend on the woman.
A single mom with multiple kids isn't a blanket group. The woman and her situation has a lot to do with it, not just a single rule "x kids means fun only".
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:54 am to fareplay
Depends on age of the kids, and whether or not they're eff-ups.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:54 am to tigerinexile
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Unless she’s a widow I would suspect that you’re just the next in a string of men she will use.
I did it once for about 8 months. Never again. If a woman has a kid with a deadbeat who isn't in the child's life, she makes poor choices. She spent her younger years being reckless with the bad boy or the loser or the criminal and now she wants Captain Simp to swoop in and save her. Second, you will never have total authority and discipline over her child. She will happily tell you to provide for her kid, but heaven forbid you establish basic boundaries.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:55 am to fareplay
No more than 1, as long as the kid isn't still in diapers.
I had one I was chatting with a while back on one of the apps that said she had a one month old, but tried telling me it wasn't a big deal because there wasn't any baby daddy drama since he wasn't around or involved at all. My reaction was the same as whoever knocked her up....
I had one I was chatting with a while back on one of the apps that said she had a one month old, but tried telling me it wasn't a big deal because there wasn't any baby daddy drama since he wasn't around or involved at all. My reaction was the same as whoever knocked her up....
Posted on 7/8/25 at 10:56 am to fareplay
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How many kids is too many to date a single mom?
Why are the kids even involved if you're just dating, dumb arse?
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