Moving on and letting someone go that you love.

I learned some valuable life lessons this week with my own personal situation.


It’s amazing how apparent and obvious things can be from people on the outside looking in.
I suppose love has a way of blinded you, not being able to see the truth. I had some hard questions that I didn’t understand in my own marriage that I got the answers to this week.

I read numerous posts by people on here about women and divorce and issues that come up in a relationship, and even though I believed everybody what they were saying, I said all this doesn’t apply to me.
This is not how my wife is/was.
Boy was I wrong.

Long story short there wasn’t any infidelity, well maybe there was odd at this point ….but there was manipulation. There was lying and blaming.
It’s all in a manner of which I was made out to be the problem. She was the victim. It hurt when I found out the truth, probably more so when I signed my divorce papers, but it was also freedom. It was also like weight was lifted off my shoulders ! I can move forward in my life breathe deep again, and see and think about something else besides her and our shitty marriage



on the flipside of this I did meet somebody recently unlike any other woman I’ve ever met
when I told her my story she told me hers. I felt terrible because the things that she went through versus what I went through. I’ll see her this eve … no pics.

I’ll just say moving on it’s hard but when you accept it, it is gratifying. That’s where growth starts. Accepting the now and not asking why anymore.

If anyone else is dealing with this heartache just know tommorw is better day.

happy Saturday.