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You know what grinds my gears? Facebook moms "fundraising" for their kids activities

Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:12 am
Posted by Lsuhoohoo
Member since Sep 2007
99840 posts
Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:12 am
Is anyone else seeing this more and more?


"Hey friends Bryxlyeigh is starting her next season of competitive cheer and were having a calendar fundraiser to cover fees and her new uniform. Pick a day and donate that amount. For example June 15th would be $15!"


Or theres the sponsorship opportunity posts where you can sponsor a sleeve for $15, a skirt for $30.


You're not running a fundraiser. Your kid isn't offering something to raise money. Youre just soliciting your friends all but saying "we dont want to pay for this shite. Give us money."

Am I the a-hole? I find it so off putting and tacky. You wouldn't walk up to your acquaintances in real life and say hey wanna give me 20 bucks for my kids cheer uniform?


And thats what really grinds my gears.

Posted by nicholastiger
Member since Jan 2004
50850 posts
Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:14 am to
Someone has to pay for all their travel costs
That and the football boards
No one wants to pay for your free vacation
If you can't afford it, don't sign your kid up
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
3590 posts
Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:14 am to
We worked concessions as a team to cover our uniforms and expenses.
Posted by Splackavellie
Bayou
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Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:15 am to
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Facebook


Found the problem.
Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
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Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:15 am to

The $5 Free Dress days and the tiny fees for every activity that once was free. Someone at these schools is making good side money on all of these special events.
Posted by TheWalrus
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Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:15 am to
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Posted by Galactic Inquisitor
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Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:17 am to
quote:

You know what grinds my gears? Facebook moms "fundraising" for their kids activities


You should use this as an opportunity to grow into a fully realized adult and stop spending so much time on Facebook.
Posted by Triple Bogey
19th Green
Member since May 2017
6203 posts
Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:19 am to
Back in my day you at least had to sell chocolate bars to raise the money. Now they just put a calendar up and people donate with nothing in return. Drives me crazy as well and I've got a 5 and 8 y/o.

My wife did the calendar thing for my daughters cheer and blocked me from seeing the post. When I found out, I went crazy.
Posted by Sugarbaker
Peachtree
Member since Jun 2023
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Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:22 am to
I think it’s pretty tacky, but I dont allow it to grind my gears. I just scroll on by while silently judging.
Posted by 21savage
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Member since Apr 2018
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Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:25 am to
I just pay for my kids out my pocket, their teamates too.. Not making Joey sell candy bars or sell slots on a calendar.

I feel for poor people, no kid on my child's team will want for anything.

Stop begging on FB mekayla, tell ya pipe fitting baby dad to cough up some money
Posted by 21savage
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Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:26 am to
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Posted by lowhound
Effie
Member since Aug 2014
8698 posts
Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:28 am to
I'm all about buying cookies or getting into a raffle for gun. If it goes towards raising money for a team or organization for kids, that's bonus. If it's just for one kid's personal expenses, I'm out.
This post was edited on 5/23/25 at 10:28 am
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
40773 posts
Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:28 am to
quote:

"Hey friends Bryxlyeigh is starting her next season of competitive cheer and were having a calendar fundraiser to cover fees and her new uniform. Pick a day and donate that amount. For example June 15th would be $15!"


He Janet, go blow your husband and earn it honestly.
Posted by 21savage
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Member since Apr 2018
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Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:28 am to
quote:

We worked concessions as a team to cover our uniforms and expenses.


Someone should tell the black boys outside rouses about this method, it's been 8 weeks like damn yall aint got enough for dem jerseys yet
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:34 am to
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Facebook
There's your problem...
Posted by Lexis Dad
Member since Apr 2025
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Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:34 am to
Someone has to cover Jaxson's travel ball tournaments.
Posted by notbilly
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Member since Sep 2015
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Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:35 am to
quote:

Am I the a-hole? I find it so off putting and tacky. You wouldn't walk up to your acquaintances in real life and say hey wanna give me 20 bucks for my kids cheer uniform?



It's the lazy version of going to beg for money at an intersection. At least do a car wash or something productive.
Posted by Cosmo
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Member since Oct 2003
125881 posts
Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:36 am to
Why do you have facebook?
Posted by Dee_oh_Dee
Member since Aug 2024
32 posts
Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:38 am to
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Back in my day you at least had to sell chocolate bars to raise the money.




My kids are past asking for cash activities now. When I first heard of it, I was taken aback. But, I prefer it now. I don't want the trinket they are selling. I either want to support the kid's activities or I don't.

If I give cash, 100% goes to the activity. If I buy the trinket, the kid is only getting 30% for the activity. At best, 50%. I still get the trinket that I don't want.

Many times an org will use a third party company to run a cash fundraiser. The third party will take a 30% cut of the action. I will bypass and donate directly to the org or kid's parents.
Posted by BogeyTX
Member since Apr 2018
887 posts
Posted on 5/23/25 at 10:38 am to
This shite drives me up a wall.

Why do parents sign their kid up for sports they can’t afford to play?

Play local rec ball if you can’t afford to travel to one of the 50 little leagues World Series championships.
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