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I think I ruined my marriage
Posted on 12/26/24 at 11:11 pm
Posted on 12/26/24 at 11:11 pm
Anyone else have or had a wife get angry when seeing post on Facebook between an old fiancé and yourself? I’m talking really old fiancé from 34-35 years ago. My current partner of 15 years found some messages and saw me commenting and keeping up with my ex on Facebook and it upset her. I tried telling her we are just friends but she is not having it. She literally has withdrawn from me and we are separated. I called her some real harsh names and told her to grow up. Am I wrong for this? Is she just crazy? Every time my ex reaches out my wife is so upset and tells me to go if I feel the need to keep looking in the rear view mirror. I’ve moved out several times over this as she looks so pathetic when she brings this up and accuses me of not being faithful for sharing things about our kids and our marriage with my ex fiancé. We don’t even live close to each other my ex lives in Shreveport. I refuse to talk to my wife and won’t allow her to speak to me because I know the conversation will lead there. My wife says I get defensive when the topic is even brought up but I’m really just tired of hearing it and I don’t like how my wife has become jealous and definitely insecure over this friendship. What you all think am I scum or is my wife crazy
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Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:10 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
this isn't exactly THAT type of help board... 
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:14 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Divorce her she sounds mad annoying
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:48 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
1) Get the hell off of Facebook
2) Pretty much any woman would be upset if her husband stayed close to an ex-fiancé, dumbass
2) Pretty much any woman would be upset if her husband stayed close to an ex-fiancé, dumbass
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:49 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
No offense but you are an IDIOT. What the frick would you be doing keeping in touch with someone you once had sex with and think "oh yeah this is not going to be wrong".
Somethings you have to leave in the past. I don't blame your wife. That is just fricking stupid.
Somethings you have to leave in the past. I don't blame your wife. That is just fricking stupid.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:51 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
The whole thing, on both sides, sounds really childish.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:51 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
So your friendship with your ex is more important to you than your wife and marriage?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:51 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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. I refuse to talk to my wife and won’t allow her to speak to me because I know the conversation will lead there. My wife says I get defensive when the topic is even brought up but I’m really just tired of hearing it and I don’t like how my wife has become jealous and definitely insecure over this friendship. What you all think am I scum or is my wife crazy
Congrats on the divorce. That old pussy wont be half as good as you remember, dummy.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 6:52 am
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:51 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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I’ve moved out several times over this
You’ve moved out over posting on Facebook? Just delete that shite baw. No one needs Facebook in their lives.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:52 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Pics of all involved ? Not you though.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:52 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
You are an idiot.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:53 am to NewIberiaHaircut
You sound like one selfish mo fo
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:54 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
If you don’t have kids with your ex you should not be talking to her, especially if it makes your current wife uncomfortable.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:55 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
And it's "fiancée" unless you were engaged to a man... which sounds plausible.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:55 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
You are the dumbass. Of course your wife would be jealous. Leave the past alone.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:55 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
I’m a grown man so don’t have Facebook. Zero reason to have it, but mostly to avoid what you are describing.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:56 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
pretty shitty of you to be having conversations behind your wifes back
sorry but men cant really be friends with women, especially an ex. Can you be friends with your friends wife.....yea but you dont need to be messaging them in private and having full convo
in fact....dont need to be having conversations with any female really other than your wife. Texting and saying....hey what do you think of this or hey can our kids get together etc etc etc
but just having conversations like how are you doing? what did yall do this summer? how are the kids, how is the marriage etc etc etc like friends do.....yea that is a no dawg.
as far as facebook....if you are friends on facebook that is fine...if you are consistently commenting on their post....that is a no. If you are messaging behind your wifes back...that is a no.
you are 100% in the wrong here and if you cant see that.....well wow
flip it around...how would you feel if your wife was having private conversations with her ex on there?
i let my wife know about pretty much any conversation i have with females outside of work but especially facebook messages. the fact that you didnt......tells me you wanted to hide it.
and the fact you are sharing shite on your kids and marriage....wtf why? like what the frick reason are you even answering your ex for?
and moving out becuase you wife is upset....
just divorce her.....you are a really shitty husband and just person overall. jesus fricking christ, after going back and reading it again....you sound fricking pathetic.
oh.....i have to speak with my ex and my wife doesnt understand and gets mad!!! im divorcing her for not understanding why i need to have intimate conversations with my ex!!!
sound like a low iq fricktard.
seriously flip this shite. If your wife was doing what you were doing....how would you feel?
sorry but men cant really be friends with women, especially an ex. Can you be friends with your friends wife.....yea but you dont need to be messaging them in private and having full convo
in fact....dont need to be having conversations with any female really other than your wife. Texting and saying....hey what do you think of this or hey can our kids get together etc etc etc
but just having conversations like how are you doing? what did yall do this summer? how are the kids, how is the marriage etc etc etc like friends do.....yea that is a no dawg.
as far as facebook....if you are friends on facebook that is fine...if you are consistently commenting on their post....that is a no. If you are messaging behind your wifes back...that is a no.
you are 100% in the wrong here and if you cant see that.....well wow
flip it around...how would you feel if your wife was having private conversations with her ex on there?
i let my wife know about pretty much any conversation i have with females outside of work but especially facebook messages. the fact that you didnt......tells me you wanted to hide it.
and the fact you are sharing shite on your kids and marriage....wtf why? like what the frick reason are you even answering your ex for?
and moving out becuase you wife is upset....
just divorce her.....you are a really shitty husband and just person overall. jesus fricking christ, after going back and reading it again....you sound fricking pathetic.
oh.....i have to speak with my ex and my wife doesnt understand and gets mad!!! im divorcing her for not understanding why i need to have intimate conversations with my ex!!!
sound like a low iq fricktard.
seriously flip this shite. If your wife was doing what you were doing....how would you feel?
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 7:01 am
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:56 am to Mouth
Do your wife a favor, next time you move out, stay out. You're the problem, not her.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:57 am to Jaydenbetter
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Divorce her she sounds mad annoying
nope, you sound like a dumbass...
dude was secretly messaging his ex and having private conversations behind his wifes back.....she is right, he is wrong...
flip it, how would you feel if your wife was doing that?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:57 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
the question to ask is how you would feel if roles were reversed. would you be ok with her talking to old flame ? i can honestly say HELL to the NO on my end so i dont chat or talk to ex's.
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