Group of guys (ages 26-32) I’m friends with since high school plan a trip for one of their bachelor parties. He wasn’t in my wedding but I invited him to my bachelor party a few years back.

I’m in a fantasy league with all of them, group chat with them, and play video games occasionally with them.

The other day they all start talking about a golf trip and I knew nothing about it. Turns out one of the guys who’s getting married made a separate group message with all the golfers in the group except for me to go on a golf trip. Kinda sucks being left out and thought I had a good relationship with the guy.

Should I bring it up or just say eff em? Haven’t really talked to the guys in a few weeks since I found out

This post was edited on 9/21/24 at 8:01 am

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Posted by GeauxTigers0107

We Coming

Member since Oct 2009

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Posted on 9/21/24 at 8:29 am to BayouBengal23

quote:
Should I bring it up or just say eff em?

Move on. They're telling you something without telling you something. Consider yourself lucky to not have to spend time anymore with guys who don't care to be around you.

Also wtf does

quote:
AITAH?

mean? Just spell the shite out.

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Posted by coolpapaboze

Parts Unknown

Member since Dec 2006

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Posted on 9/21/24 at 9:06 am to GeauxTigers0107

AITAH = am i the a-hole

Also, I agree with your post. Sucks for OP, but intentions seem clear and he should move on.

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Posted by PikesPeak

The Penalty Box

Member since Apr 2022

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Posted on 9/21/24 at 8:10 pm to BayouBengal23

Sleep with his mom

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Posted by AirbusDawg

Milton, Ga

Member since Jan 2018

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Posted on 9/22/24 at 6:52 am to BayouBengal23

Yes, you are the a-hole.

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Posted by MikeD

Baton Rouge

Member since Jan 2004

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Posted on 9/22/24 at 6:55 am to BayouBengal23

Sometimes it’s just a numbers thing and there has to be a cut line somewhere. Would you really want to be on a group text with a bunch of people going on a trip you which aren’t invited? But understand where you are perceived in the group and adjust your efforts accordingly

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Posted by Bawpaw

Member since May 2021

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Posted on 9/22/24 at 7:06 am to BayouBengal23

26-32 yo guys play video games? If so-STOP.

Get out your feelings too, just may not have worked out for you to go. Maybe ask ome of the guys going why you missed the invite. Take his answer and adjust your position accordingly.

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Posted by Upperdecker

St. George, LA

Member since Nov 2014

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Posted on 9/22/24 at 7:07 am to BayouBengal23

Not actually a golf topic, this would be a much better thread on the OT

Your friends are dicks or you don’t have the relationship with them that you think

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Posted by Tiger1242