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At what age do you feel like you finally figured life out?

Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:18 am
Posted by Thundercles
Mars
Member since Sep 2010
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Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:18 am
When do you feel like you actually got to a place where you had purpose, felt solid in your career, knew what you wanted from yourself and family, and had solid financial footing?

Was it different from what you expected when you were younger? I remember being an idealistic teenager thinking what my life would be like based off TV, movies, and a few examples around me. It took about 20 extra years to get there.
Posted by Bayou_Tiger_225
Third Earth
Member since Mar 2016
11096 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:19 am to
You never do
Posted by BunkieWrench
Katy
Member since Nov 2008
5620 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:20 am to
Probably next year.

Been saying that for decades.
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
11220 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:20 am to
35.0
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
81299 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:21 am to
Hopefully in my 60s. If not then, maybe later. I do know how to make rice a roni. So I’ve got that.
Posted by slacker130
Your mom
Member since Jul 2010
8318 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:22 am to
Just turned 52 and still working on it.

Have a place and purpose. Like the job, solid in my career, solid financial footing.

But life changes, dealing with aging parents, adult children, aging, keeps moving the bar of worry free living that I'd hope to have.
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
20328 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:23 am to
Will never happen!!
Posted by lockthevaught
Member since Jan 2013
2472 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:23 am to
The moment you feel like you have life figured out....it will throw you a knuckleball and kick you in the nuts.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
70844 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:24 am to
When we were 6 years old a few friends and I had a roundtable discussion at school and hashed it out relatively quickly. It helped that we had an average IQ of 140.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
266138 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:25 am to
You never do. It keeps changing, so should we.
Posted by rmc
Truth or Consequences
Member since Sep 2004
26826 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:26 am to
If you ever think you have it figured out, it’s a sure sign that you don’t.
Posted by BayouENGR
Seagrove Beach
Member since Nov 2015
2524 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:27 am to
Any day now….
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
6270 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:28 am to
Life is constantly changing so we are always learning. I think its what makes part of life great. If we were all same this world would be incredibly boring. That said we should still learn to ELE.

Late 30s is when I felt I started to grasp the important things in life.
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
54851 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:29 am to
quote:

At what age do you feel like you finally figured life out?


For me, it was early 40's when I finally woke up and realized that my purpose and mission was not of my own doing but of God's.
Posted by glassman
Next to the beer taps at Finn's
Member since Oct 2008
116608 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:31 am to
The best thing about life is it's unpredictability. Every day is new with new aquantances and experiences. I hope I never figure it out, sounds boring.
Posted by Rust Cohle
Baton rouge
Member since Mar 2014
2025 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:49 am to
To make a distinction, one can feel like they have it all figured out, and find themselves later on to have been wrong. One can feel lost but still be right. Some need no reflection to feel right, and some will do endless reflection and never satisfied.
Posted by Rust Cohle
Baton rouge
Member since Mar 2014
2025 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:49 am to
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This post was edited on 4/1/24 at 8:50 am
Posted by Yournamegoeshere
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2024
173 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:52 am to
Thought I did at 27 when I landed a job that I would retire from. Little did I know that a year later I would be divorced. Stayed with the job until 4 years later me and big wig had words and he was out to get me. Got me a few months later on some bullshite. I was gonna be fired, but resigned instead. Went back to my previous life of chasing jobs all over the US. Fast forward to just over a year ago. I got a call from the same company wanting me back. They had finally fired that a-hole. Everyone was glad he was gone. I went back at 40 yrs old and will retire in hopefully 15-20 years. It’s one of the highest paying jobs in my area for the position.

It also helped that I put myself in rehab to kick my alcohol habit. I basically drink myself to sleep everyday. I still occasionally enjoy a beer or two, but not a fifth and a case a day like it use to be. Life sucked at the time and was a blur for about 10 years…
This post was edited on 4/1/24 at 8:58 am
Posted by Yeahright
On a big sphere out there.
Member since Sep 2018
2051 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:55 am to
A few years ago when I finally turned to Jesus and said that I need HIS help and I would trust him. I don't need to figure it out. It's already been figured out and I am at peace with whatever happens. I don't ever use the word "worry" anymore. I have replaced it with "concerned." Everyone wants peace of mind and we all must search for it and hopefully find it at some point in our lives.
Posted by Wally Sparks
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2013
29765 posts
Posted on 4/1/24 at 8:59 am to
It doesn't happen.
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