Remember; women on average, find 80% of men to be physically unappealing and are all chasing the same men. They’d rather share a high quality man than hang out with the leftover men. Whereas men are far less discerning . Which means she has already received 27 hits today while you got one. If you are getting slow-played , if there is no genuine urgency, the odds are she is just not that into you. If she likes you, you will know. She won’t be hit or miss, she will set her sites on you and it will be unmistakable and she will be matching you text for text. Remember, you can’t manufacture attraction, it has to be real. Don’t chase what isn’t there.

My unsolicited advice, get off the dating sites.I fell in love with a girl I met on a dating site, but overall I think it it better to meet women organically where your vibe and personality and intelligence and verbal game and playfulness can really shine.

Also, remember the odds go back in your favor once the relationship is established because while she is the sexual gatekeeper, you will be the relationship gatekeeper. You get to decide if the relationship is long term once the connection is genuine and mutual.

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Posted by Scuttle But

Member since Nov 2023

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Posted on 3/5/24 at 11:12 am to Lsupimp

And if you do start having sex with her she'll put your picture on the FB group "Are we dating the same guy" to get all the other lonely bitches in Baton Rouge to gossip about you.

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Posted by CocomoLSU

Inside your dome.

Member since Feb 2004

150867 posts

Posted on 3/5/24 at 11:24 am to Lsupimp

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Remember; women on average, find 80% of men to be physically unappealing and are all chasing the same men. They’d rather share a high quality man than hang out with the leftover men. Whereas men are far less discerning . Which means she has already received 27 hits today while you got one. If you are getting slow-played , if there is no genuine urgency, the odds are she is just not that into you. If she likes you, you will know. She won’t be hit or miss, she will set her sites on you and it will be unmistakable and she will be matching you text for text. Remember, you can’t manufacture attraction, it has to be real. Don’t chase what isn’t there.

Man, that's some solid advice right there.

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Posted by Loup

Ferriday

Member since Apr 2019

11450 posts

Posted on 3/5/24 at 12:54 pm to Lsupimp

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My unsolicited advice, get off the dating sites.I fell in love with a girl I met on a dating site, but overall I think it it better to meet women organically where your vibe and personality and intelligence and verbal game and playfulness can really shine.

I agree there, it's just a tool to facilitate a meetup. When I was using it I was trying to go from matching to in person meet ups as quickly as possible. It was usually within a day or two of matching. Usually to grab a quick drink after work at the Rum House or Olive or Twist since I worked nearby. You could usually see what you were working with for around $20 during happy hour. If it seems like there was something there I'd ask her out on a real date or if it was just smash potential keep doing the bar meetup thing. Was pretty successful with it and was usually meeting up with two or three women per week. Even if I wasn't attracted to them it was a lot of fun and I got a lot better at dating. I wasn't really looking at the initial meetup as trying to smash, just feeling things out.

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Posted by G Vice

Lafayette, LA

Member since Dec 2006

12925 posts

Posted on 3/5/24 at 1:19 pm to Lsupimp

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I fell in love with a girl I met on a dating site

Man, you have come a long way since the last time we talked, when you were still married and one child still in high school.
Good for you.
Serious question…..is your new gal also Asian?

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